***THIS POST WILL MENTION PREGNANCY, BIRTH OR BABIES. If you are having a hard TTC or TTCAL day, please read at your own discretion***
Hello old friends, good to see you!
***As a courtesy to those still TTC on this board, please do not post bump pictures here.***
If you were a regular poster on TTGP we'd love to get an update on you this month! Please tell us how you are doing!
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)?
*How far along are you?
*Which birth month board/due date?
*Team Pink/Blue/Green?
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share?
December 2020
@feather_heather @tryingktogku @dobiemom11 @the_road_to_oz
January 2021
February 2021
March 2021
May 2021
June 2021
@ramzlau @mindyb2019 @legallykate @_orchid_ @ashaislurking
August 2021
@shoogapoff @gingermama29 @emmylou78
September 2021
Re: TTGP Grad Check-in January 2021
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? May 2019 - July 2020
*How far along are you? 28 weeks
*Which birth month board/due date? March 2021!
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Team Pink x 2
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We've held firm on the two names now for well over a month, and I actually ordered two of the wooden name signs for the hospital birth pictures! One of my friends got really excited that I did that, but I did remind her I spent like $20 on it, so it's cheap enough to order a new one if I change my mind again


*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I'm still in a little bit of disbelief that we've made it to the third trimester, time has flown by and at the same time I feel like I've been pregnant forever. I also never thought we would still be in a pandemic at this point, so that's made the whole pregnancy even weirder to be honest. I'm having a virtual baby shower in 2 weeks, and we're starting to discuss our personal comfort level of who can even meet and hold our babies, both of which I never imagined. At the end of the day, we're most excited about bringing our girls home and starting our lives as a new family. I can't believe I only have 3 more check-ins to go!!!!
As always, I miss TTGP so much, it's been such a source of support and strength for me, and I'm hoping the new year brings a lot of good news!!!
IVF Cycle #1 February 2020 4 embryos frozen, 1 fresh transfer = CP
FET #1 Natural Cycle March 2020 CXL'd due to Covid-19
FET #1 Natural Cycle June 2020 - CP #2
FET #2 Natural Cycle July 2020 - BFP!!!!!! Beta #1 = 273
June Signature Challenge - Favorite TV Quotes
How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? June 2019-December 2020
*How far along are you? 7 weeks tomorrow
*Which birth month board/due date? August BMB, 8/28
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Finding out
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. Haven't started discussing seriously yet
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? Things are going really well. I'm currently getting weekly shots of progesterone at least through week 16 and I'll be getting my first ultrasound next week! Missing you all so much (seriously, I always click on this board first) and hoping to see a mass exodus of grads soon!!
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? 9-10 months (Jan 2020-October 2020)
*How far along are you? 16 weeks today
*Which birth month board/due date? June 25th
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Team Blue
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. Still undecided, so far the only first names we both like are Jacob and Jonah.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? Nope, just that I still lurk a ton and am rooting for all of you to graduate, and I hope 2021 is a better year for everyone
Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017
TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia
TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020
IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal
FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? Jan-Sept 2020
*How far along are you? 20W5D
*Which birth month board/due date? May BMB / May 23rd
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Blue!
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. HA. still no progress on that.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? just came home from a successful anatomy scan. still dealing with PGAL brain every once in a while even though i'm past old milestones, but definitely having a good day today! loving the recent grad announcements...may i request that you all keep them coming?! rooting for you all and hoping 2021 is a better year for all xo
Testing/diagnosis is in since the last time I posted. In addition to the defecient antithrombin III (causing blood clots), I have APS (which can cause recurrent losses) and an autoimmune syndrome (Sjorgens). Sjorgens won't cause problems for me but can majorly affect baby's heart, so I'll have biweekly appts with the high risk ob and a pediatric cardiologist to check baby's heart starting in two weeks. My drs put me on hydroxychloroquine, which took about 3 weeks to obtain but I got that this week. I'm thankful I got bloodwork done this summer - if you don't remember, we were on the fence about it- so that these issues came to light before another loss.
We also started telling friends/family. DH surprised me and told his family everything going back to the beginning of 2019 (he hasn't wanted to share anything with them). My July 2019 loss happened while we were on vacation with his family- all 16 of us in one house, sharing bathrooms- and there were some tensions that came up over that trip bc I wasnt engaging with everyone as much as I usually do. Now that they know the context, mil and a sil apologized for things they said to me about it, which has been good.
Thinking of you all often and hoping for more grads soon. ♥️ Hoping 2021 is a better year
Hi Friends
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? August 2019 - Oct 2020 with 2 losses in between.
*How far along are you? 18 weeks today.
*Which birth month board/due date? June BMB, June 14th
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Team Blue
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. Still undecided. Me and DH have discussed names and have a small list going that we both agree upon lol. We said we are going to take our time and won’t make a final decision on a name till closer to the due date.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I still can’t believe I’ve made it this far. This is the farthest I’ve ever made it yet in any pregnancy and I’m just amazed how well it’s going so far despite all that was against me. I have my anatomy scan a week from today and I’m nervous as hell for that. I just hope and pray all looks ok. I can’t wait to be over this milestone so I can relax a bit. Oh some good news I got on my cervix. They did another biopsy on it back in Nov and all came back benign so no cancer and all is good and looks normal. Yay! What a relief. Also, I had an U/S done at 15 weeks to check my cervical length as my OB was thinking I would have a short cervix and need a cerclage. My super cervix is a Rockstar and it was 4cm long and normal and sealed/closed. Yesss!! Take that OB 😆 no stitch for this girl lol We also told family and friends and people I work with for Christmas and it was such a happy joyous time. First time I ever got to tell anyone about any of my pregnancies. Felt nice to finally share! All in all, everything is going tickety boo and I just hope this continues for this whole pregnancy.
I'm always thinking about you ladies and miss you all 😘 im hoping to see another mass exodus soon. Hoping 2021 is a great year for all of you ❤️
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? Oct 2019-2020
*How far along are you? 18 weeks
*Which birth month board/due date? June 2021
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Blue!
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We have a first name, still working on a middle name.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? Anatomy scan in a few weeks, other than that getting the second trimester energy, so trying to make the most of it and get the house ready. Excited that a vaccine is out and hoping for some normalcy in the months following baby boys birth. It is fun watching DD experience this process and her excitement grow for baby brother.
@gingermama29 Love having you here now!
I hope everyone made it through the holidays with lots of grace and tlc! Hope the new year brings new hope and each of you are surrounded by people to cheer you on through the TTC journey!
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? Sept 2018- April 2020
*How far along are you? She’s here!!! She came by repeat csection at 38 weeks exactly due to cholestasis and hypermesis. I am so glad to have her safely in my arms.
*Which birth month board/due date? She was born on dec 17- we had to drive through 31 inches of snow to get there. It was crazy. She’s my blizzard baby!
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Pink! I kept having nightmares she was a boy after all 🤣 she’s not
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. Claire-Ellen Hilda she’s official! I was so paranoid filling out the forms she would be denied because of her hyphen or something (Claire-Ellen is her first name) - cue a lifetime of correcting people about her name (sorry baby!)
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? The shift from one to two has been easier then I thought it would be. Our little family feels complete now 🥰😍
*Which birth month board/due date? June BMB, 6/26
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Officially team PINK!!!
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We're still kicking around a few name ideas. Nothing solid yet.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I miss you all and I'm so excited to see a few more grads popping up! My NIPT testing all came back low risk and I start seeing my MFM next week! Things have thankfully been going well so far and I'm really grateful my medical team is monitoring my pregnancy closely. I'll likely deliver around 36 weeks so I have my fingers crossed we'll avoid NICU time this time around.
@the_road_to_oz Congratulations on your little family! I'm so happy for you!
Married: 10.2018
DS #1: 06.2014
Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG), Emergency C-Section
MC: 03.2017- 5 Weeks
Rainbow DS #2: 07.2018
HG, 19w Fetal Surgery, 24w PPROM, 33w Placental Abruption, Partial Uterine Rupture, Emergency C-Section
NICU, Chronic Kidney Disease
TTC #3: Medically Cleared 12.5.2019, had a bunch of problems and wonky cycles
BFP 10.13.2020 EDD: 6.26.2021
October 2020 TTGP Signature Challenge: Pets in Costumes
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? Dec 2019- April 2020
*How far along are you? 3 weeks postpartum
*Which birth month board/due date? He arrived on 12/19.
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Boy
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. John Donato. We knew he was going to be named John as soon as we found out he was a boy. But we thought we would call him by his middle name. We were undecided on that until the trip to the hospital. He goes by John now though.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? John ended up in the NICU for almost a week, but came home in time for the holidays. This whole pregnancy didn't go quite as planned, so not sure why I thought delivery would be smooth. But we can't believe he is here now and healthy. Since all the nurses called him John in the NICU, the name kinda stuck!
Miss you guys and wishing you all the best! Happy New Year!
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? Dec 2019-Dec 2020
*How far along are you? 5 + 5
*Which birth month board/due date? September 2021
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? I think we will be team green
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We honestly haven’t started talking about it seriously yet. I think we will wait until closer to the second tri.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I had my first u/s this morning and everything looks good! I go back next week to hopefully see a heartbeat, and then my RE will likely release me to my OB. I’ve been lurking here constantly - I miss you all!!
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? April 2019-November 2020
*How far along are you? 11 weeks 4 days
*Which birth month board/due date? August 1st, 2021
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Green
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We have a name decided on, whether it's a boy or a girl. MH's mother's maiden name works as a first name, so we are planning to use that for either sex. It's significant because MH's parents are divorced, and there are no males on MH's mother's side of the family to carry on the name. We told his grandfather last week, and he was really touched.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I officially graduated from the RE on Monday, which is really strange. Just living day-to-day with pregnancy after IF. I still miss everyone here and lurk a lot to see how everyone is doing.