I’m going to say speak with a lawyer and a therapist. Only you can make this decision for yourself. No matter what you decide, it is the right decision.
DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. As the others have said, whatever choice you make will be the right one. I strongly second talking to a therapist as you try and make a decision. And to a lawyer if you decide to keep them to help navigate and possible custody issues.
Re: Twins (trigger warning)