Not sure if this has been discussed anywhere yet, but I'm just curious what your significant others get/are doing in regards to paternity leave? My husband spoke to HR today and they said he gets 2 weeks paid paternity leave, but he can take (I believe) up to 12 weeks using a combo of sick days/vacation days, and unpaid time off. He has a lot of PTO left over from this year which he can roll into next year and use. His manager wants him to figure out sooner rather than later how much time he wants to take, so they can be prepared with divvying up his work.
How much time off did your SO take with your first child? For you STM/STM+, will he be taking more or less leave this time? Just trying to figure out what a "good" amount of time off is....he was thinking about a month. My parents will come for 1-2 weeks and my MIL for a month to help us out, anytime we want after baby is born