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Re: TWW Friday 11/6
CD/DPO: 64/4
Timing: excellent
Typical LP length: 13
Testing: not sure yet
R/R: So grateful it's finally Friday! This week has been so long and draining. DH's parents want us to visit this weekend. I'd like to see them but I'm also a bit anxious about it. They're both in their 70s and in an area where there are a lot of cases right now. Granted, if we go, we wouldn't be leaving the house so that does decrease some of the risk but I'm still anxious. So not sure what we're going to do yet.
CS/Q:
Month/Cycle: 13/12
CD/DPO: 31/10
Timing: -5,-3,0
Typical LP length: 12ish
Testing: bfn today
R/R: bfn today so I made chocolate croissants with leftover candy and store bought dough. I have to be benched next cycle so I can get 5 teeth extracted 2 days before Christmas.
CS/Q: nooooooooooooooooo!!!!!
@gingermama29 can you just mask up and elbow bump? I know just being around my mom increases my mental strength a tenfold.
Month/Cycle: 2/1
CD/DPO: 35/5
Timing: -2, -1, 0
Typical LP length: not sure, first time tracking
Testing: trying to hold out as long as possible but might cave this weekend
R/R: I’m on my last day of working 12 days straight so I am really looking forward to having this weekend off. We’re having one last stretch of warm weather here so we should probably get the yard/outside of the house ready for winter before it gets cold again but other than that I’m going to try to relax!
@legendairymomma sorry for the bfn, but those chocolate croissants sound delish!
@pharmd93 are you on the east coast? We are also having a great stretch of warm
weather over the next several days. Definitely not our normal November!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 24/8
Timing: great!
Typical LP length: 11 days
Testing: this weekend probably
R/R: I have a rocking headache this morning which isn’t pleasant. On the positive side, I got all my decorations up, and they make me feel so so happy. Highly recommend putting up yours if you need a pick me up! Here is the view when sitting on my couch:
CS/Q: I woke up SO hot this morning, yet my bbt dipped slightly.
@gingermama29 there are definitely ways to be safe in social circumstances but ultimately it’s up to you and other parties if you make it happen and what precautions you take. It’s really hard to make those decisions for sure. Hopefully you can figure out a good compromise.
@legendairymomma I’m sorry for your BFN. You deserved those croissants! Also sucks about having to be benched for a cycle! 😕😕😕
@pharmd93 12 days straight for working! Yowza! You deserve some time off. I hope the nice weather keep up and you take full advantage of it.
@daisy528 your decor looks great! Definitely a great pick me in today’s uneasy times.
Month/Cycle: 10/10
CD/DPO: 13/1... not tracking so hard to say exactly so could be 2 DPO as well.
Timing: -3, -1, O
Typical LP length: hard to say; I’m lowering my progesterone dose this cycle so hopefully it’ll be less than 17 days it’s been for the past 3 cycles.
Testing: well, I bought some cheap HPTs so I might lean into early testing depending on how I’m feeling.
R/R: I have to say that not tracking anything this month has been super for my mental health. I do have an Oura ring which measures skin temperature so I have some idea of how my temp changes over the cycle but it’s very low effort since wear the ring 24/7.
Also really hoping the outcome of election is known today.
I’m going into the office today which I’m really excited about because I’ll get to see other humans. But I have back to back meetings all freakin’ day. I have a 30-min break at 3pm. 😱😱😱 Gonna be a fun one.
CS/Q: here’s the temp trend report from my Oura ring. Temps that are above 0.0 degrees are my luteal temps from last cycle; those below are from follicular phase this cycle.
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023