TW - loss

nlc_atx

Yesterday, I had a follow up ultrasound where my doctor confirmed that I had not progressed beyond 5 weeks. I had been measuring far behind on Monday, and based on my previous numbers and when I had gotten my BFP, the doctor was pretty sure I was miscarrying. Yesterday, I was still measuring at the same point—very small gestational sac and no more. I should have been 6.5-7 weeks.

I couldn’t stand just waiting for things to start happening, so I took the medication yesterday afternoon.  Unfortunately, it has been 20 hours and, despite heinous cramping, I still haven’t had substantial bleeding so I’m worried that I’ll need a second dose. I’m planning to call the on call doctor once it has been a full 24 hours. I really, really want to avoid a d&e though. 

I’m doing ok, and I have been feeling really supported. The doctor made an exception to their Covid policy and let my husband come yesterday, a coworker took some work off my plate and I will probably take most of next week off, and my husband has been an angel. This group especially was so helpful, I really appreciated everyone’s thoughts through the last week. Thank you so much. 

I am so happy for everyone here and wish you all healthy, happy, comfortable pregnancies💜

artsiefartsie

I'm so sorry!! I'm glad you have a lot of good support right now.  Sending you love! Take care of yourself ❤❤

mc0303

I’m so, so sorry for you loss. It’s so unfair and senseless. Wishing you and YH the best. Lots of love!

mindyb2019

@nlc_atx ohhh I’m so so very sorry for your loss ❤️❤️ I’m soo happy your husband has been an angel for you and been supportive. Take care of yourself. 

MelissaMay82

@nlc_atx I’m so sorry 

DoubleUp8

@nlc_atx I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.

_orchid_

@nlc_atx I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Was really hoping for a different outcome for you. I'm glad you have support and are able to take off a few days this week. Im wishing you a quick recovery and healing, and hoping you find yourself back on a BMB when you're ready ♥️

ramzlau

@nlc_atx So sorry you are going through this. It is good to hear that you have a great support system and that they allowed YH to be there. Take care of yourself! 

Lisa3379

I’m so, so sorry. That’s good that you’ve had some support getting through this, that’s so important. Sending ❤️ 

mamakate2011

I’m so, so very sorry. 😟 I am so happy you have so much support, especially from your DH. That is beyond a blessing to have - please take care of yourself and wishing you and your DH the best in the future. ❤️❤️❤️

klj0228

@nlc_atx I am so so sorry for your loss. I am glad you have such great support. Spend the next few days relaxing and taking care of yourself. 

sgrn18

I’m glad you have so much support surrounding you.  I’m so sorry for your loss and I hope you find success again soon.

ashaislurking

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Make sure you take some time for yourself. I'm so glad to hear you have a wonderful support system through this.

notawhoops

@nlc_atx I'm so sorry. I'm glad you were able to have DH with you for the appointment. Sending you my thoughts.

wendy838

@nlc_atx I’m so sorry to hear this. We were all hoping for a different outcome.  Keeping you in my thoughts. 

wanderlustsoul

I’m so sorry. Sending you lots of healing thoughts. 

ruemcclanahan

I'm so so sorry for your loss 

akoros

@nlc_atx I'm so, so sorry.  Take care, and I will be keeping you in my thoughts. Hopefully the medication works soon, but if you do have to go for a d&c/e it'll be ok.  I've had two, if you want to talk about that experience (or anything, really) my inbox is open

tilournextadventure

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you do have support from YH. Take care of yourself. ❤️

marebear15

I'm so sorry for your loss and that this is dragging out for you.