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*TW* Loss

hillbillywifehillbillywife member
in June 2021 Moms
My numbers went down yesterday. There's no baby in my uterus, and they don't think it's ectopic so we're gonna do blood work tomorrow to make sure it goes down more and if it does then I've had a miscarriage. I'm physically/mentally doing ok, but it's hard to talk about it out loud. Not sure what H and I are going to do next yet, but it'll be ok either way. Thanks for all your support and love! Wishing the rest of you happy sticky June babies! 
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  • nlc_atxnlc_atx member
    Nooo, I'm so sorry. I was hoping for better news. Take care of yourself  <3
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  • laurad75laurad75 member
    I've been looking for your update all day and so sorry to read this now.  Please be kind and patient with yourself and know that we are thinking of you.  xo
    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


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  • ashleyjillian15ashleyjillian15 member
    I am so very sorry to read this, wishing comfort to you and your husband! 
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  • MelissaMay82MelissaMay82 member
    @hillbillywife I’m so sorry 
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

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  • artsiefartsieartsiefartsie member
    Oh no! I've been thinking about you today,  I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss! Sending you and your husband love and comfort ❤ 
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  • mc0303mc0303 member
    Oh @hillybillywife I’m so, so sorry to hear about your loss!! So many emotions to go through in the span of a couple weeks. Sending you and your family lots of love 💗 
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  • kristah2kristah2 member
    So sorry to be reading this right now. Take care of yourself. 
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  • Lisa3379Lisa3379 member
    Oh no. I was hoping for better news for you. I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you love. 
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  • mamakate2011mamakate2011 member
    Ugg, I’m sooooo so sorry to hear this. 😥 Not the update any of us were wanting. Sending love, take care of yourself. ❤️
    Trying to Conceive TickerMe: 41 DH: 42
    💙 DS1- 12/2011
    CP - March 2014
    MMC - Sept 2014
    💙DS2 - 10/2015
    💙DS3 - 5/2017
    💖DD due June 6, 2021
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  • ramzlauramzlau member
    @hillbillywife So sorry for your loss and that it was such a bumpy road the whole time. Hope you take care of yourself! 
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  • _orchid__orchid_ member
    @hillbillywife I'm so, so sorry for your loss. You've had such a rollercoaster the past few weeks. Sending you healing thoughts ♥️
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  • wendy838wendy838 member
    @hillbillywife so sorry for your loss. It's definitely normal to not be ready to talk about it, and to go through the process privately with your husband - take as much time as you need. Sending lots of love
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  • mrsrundmcmrsrundmc member
    I am so sorry to hear this.  Sending you love.
    BabyFruit Ticker
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  • tilournextadventuretilournextadventure member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. ❤️
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  • notawhoopsnotawhoops member
    @hillbillywife I'm so sorry. I was really praying you would have a different outcome. Sending you my thoughts.
    *TW* loss history
    BFP 7.7.09 - CVS 9.10.09 (Girl) - 9.24.09 Severe Fatal Malformation - D&E 10.7.09 @ 17wks
    BFP 6.1.10 - 6.10.10 Ectopic M/C @ 5wks
    BFP 10.26.10 - 10.29.10 CP
    BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
    BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
    BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
    BFP 6.10.14 - CVS 7.2.14 (Girl) - EDD 1.12.15 - Born sleeping 8.6.14 @ 17w5d
    BFP 12.13.19 - 12.17.19 - CP
    BFP 3.2.20 - 3.6.20 - CP
    BFP 8.13.20 - 8.17.20 - CP
    BFP 10.15.20 - 10.28.20 M/C @ 5+6


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  • mindyb2019mindyb2019 member
    @hillbillywife noooo!! Awww im so so sorry mama for your loss. I was hoping for better news from you. Sending lots of love to you and your hubby. Take all the time you need ❤ 
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  • legallykatelegallykate member
    @hillbillywife I’m so sorry to hear this. Be kind to yourself. ❤️
    *TTC History*

    Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017

    TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia

    TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020

    IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal

    FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+

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  • klj0228klj0228 member
    @hillbillywife I was coming here to check and see if you heard anything. I was hoping for better news. I’m really sorry for the roller coaster of emotions you have already been through and I am sure you will go through. Sending you virtual hugs and support as you and your H process this. 
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  • disgruntled_pelicandisgruntled_pelican member
    I’m so sorry to hear this. You’ve already been through the ringer :( take care of yourself and your family ❤️
    Married <3 August 2010
    DD1  <3 August 2011
    DD2 <3 August 2013
    DD3 <3 February 2017
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  • ruemcclanahanruemcclanahan member
    I'm so sorry 😞 be kind to yourself 
    Pregnancy Ticker
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  • sgrn18sgrn18 member
    I’m so sorry for your loss 😔 
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  • marebear15marebear15 member
    So sorry for this update. Be good to yourself.
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  • ashaislurkingashaislurking member
    So sorry for your loss. I know this isn't the post any of us were hoping for- especially you. Take care of yourself!
    TTC History- *TW* LC
    Me: 24 Dh: 46
    Married: 10.2018
    DS #1: 06.2014
    Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG), Emergency C-Section
    MC: 03.2017- 5 Weeks
    Rainbow DS #2: 07.2018
    HG, 19w Fetal Surgery, 24w PPROM, 33w Placental Abruption, Partial Uterine Rupture, Emergency C-Section
    NICU, Chronic Kidney Disease
    TTC #3: Medically Cleared 12.5.2019, had a bunch of problems and wonky cycles
    BFP 10.13.2020 EDD: 6.26.2021

    October 2020 TTGP Signature Challenge: Pets in Costumes


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  • wanderlustsoulwanderlustsoul member
    I’m so sorry. Sending you lots of hugs. 

    *Live, Love, Laugh, Learn*

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  • rvamom90rvamom90 member
    I'm so sorry. Be kind to yourself.  <3
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  • jaztasticjaztastic member
    so hard to read, even harder to go through. Im so sorry. Take care of yourself
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    Waited a long time, tried a lot of stuff, science made me a mom.
     Loss and IF veteran. Current mom of DS 5.5, DD 2, and sometimes DH 40. Due June 2021 with TWINS
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  • DoubleUp8DoubleUp8 member
    I'm so sorry for your lost, @hillbillywife. I hope you take care of yourself. Sending you lots of virtual hugs.
    ~~Signature~~
    Me: 36, DH: 38, Together since: 2006, Married: 9/2011 
    **TW Living Child**
    BFP 9/19/20 - EDD - 6/1/21

    BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014


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  • lizalovespashalizalovespasha member
    Hi @hillbillywife, I'm so sooo sorry to hear of your loss. Sending love and support. 
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