DD dad is A DICK

momofm

Hey Ladies,
I don’t like to use the word hate but,,,,,,,
This “man” is so draining. My daughter was born pre term and he was there at all he saw her twice the he came to the hospital for point two seconds. Didn’t sign her BC, Did stay for the arm band after I pleaded with the charge nurse to reprint one. Coming to present he rarely comes to see her and he blames me. The Mfer makes me sick. He says I need to shut up. I speak on our last encounter he came to see my DD. I went out to get food, Wgen I return I put some in a little bowl for her. Instead of him stepping in saying I’ll feed her he allowed me to feed her. I was upset your not an hands on Dad. I just bought food why are you here if it’s not to give me a mini break to enjoy my food without my baby stacking me for it. I placed the food in his hand an said please while your here help me out. I proceed with my food out the living room. This ma yells Yo! She wants you! I was PISSED AS HE BRUNG HER IN THE ROOM. I SNAPPED SHE WASNT CRYING OR ANYTHING. Why can’t you f-big watch her. Yet he complains she doesn’t know me REALY GENIUS YA THINK. He’s always making demands and isn’t hands on. I’m trying to Coparent but he’s such a f-big 🤕 

nicademus20

Soo right here with you!! I was about to create a thread saying "Do you get any help?" 
I'm still with the father, but find myself questioning why more and more often. I feel like a single parent anyways! I have a 3 month old, and I can't remember when he last changed a diaper as it was maybe the first week of the kiddo being home. I also can't recall when he last gave him a bottle. When I complain, he exclaims how tired he is and that he works so hard (he does work a physically demanding job) but this baby is CONSTANT. 
Today I took my cat to the vet, he watched the baby and while I was gone it was time to give the baby his bottle. Alas, when I arrived home, the baby was awake and ready to be fed. Nearly an hour later than he should have been fed. 
He also said "he farted a lot" which is "he may need a diaper change" ...just for me to come home and perform All the tasks!! 
I get "You signed up for this" and we have fought about parental duties. I'm writing this at 1am while the father sleeps and I wait for the baby to fall back asleep while I hold him. Something the father never does, can't recall when I last saw that, which is something else we have argued about. 

I've considered cheating, and/or leaving plenty of times. I think that is where it falls when you feel alone in the relationship anyways. 
This baby just opened my eyes to what he is really like inside, not knowing I suppose throughout the nearly 3 years prior. 
I am envious of those whom have the other parent playing an active and loving role. I can't even pressure him into it, so even more envious for those where their partner actually Wants to. 
My rant for now.