February 2021 Moms

Saying goodbye

Ladies, I'm afraid that my path does not include a journey with you to February.  
Yesterday, I had a lot of pain and my water broke. I delivered an intact baby at 14w1d at home, and we said goodbye to our little girl.  I went to the ER and they confirmed a clear uterus, so I don't have to have surgery.  Now is time for resting and healing, physically and emotionally.

We are taking a few months to process what has happened, and think about whether we want to try again or enjoy our family as it is.

I've enjoyed my time in this BMB. I will be thinking of you in February and hope you enjoy happy and healthy pregnancies.  Good luck to you all and please know I wish you the very best!

Re: Saying goodbye

  • @cmoon3 I am so, so sorry for your loss. I hope you're able to find peace and take time to grieve. 
    Me: 31 Husby: 36
    Married May 2014
    TTC # 2  Since December 2021
    Baby girl W born 2/2021
    Our journey so far...
    (tw loss & infertility)
    Diagnosis: Poor Egg Quality 
    Working with an RE since March 2016
    2 failed TI cycles
    3 failed IUI cycles

    IVF Feb - April 2017
    23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
    Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
    BFP 4.21.17
    MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17

    Our adoption journey:
    12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
    5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house! 
    1.1.20 Homestudy process started
    3.14.20 First social worker visit
    5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency

    6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
    Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021


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  • I’m so so sorry. 💜
  • I’m so sorry for your loss 💛
  • Oh no. I’m so sorry. 😞
  • I am so so sorry for your loss. 💔
  • I am so, so sorry for your loss :'( 
    Me: 34 | DH: 46
    SD: 21 & SS: 17
    BFP #2 6/3/2020

    *Trigger Warning*
    TTC 6/13/2015 | BFP #1 5/14/2017 | MMC 7/28/2017 (Trisomy 18) | IL + D&C 8/4/2017


  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Let yourself feel all the feelings and take the time you need to heal. I'm glad you didn't have to have surgery. ❤️
  • I am so sorry! We are all thinking of you during this time. ❤️❤️
  • @cmoon3 I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love and hugs. Xoxo
  • @cmoon3 I’m so, so sorry for your loss. Remember that grieving has no timeline. Sending lots of love your way 💕 
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    @cmoon3 I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Wishing for healing and peace for you. 
  • @cmoon3 oh no. I’m so very sorry. I’m praying for you and your family. ♥️
  • @cmoon3 I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. We lost our first baby due to a trisomy around 16w. If you ever want to talk to someone who has been through it, PLEASE reach out and dm me. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone who has been through a similar experience. Wishing you a path through this.
    Rainbow Baby? {2.1.21}
    MC at 8 weeks {EDD 9.2.20}
    Rainbow Girl! {2.28.16}Pregnancy Ticker
    Baby boy, lost at 16 weeks {EDD 6.10.15}


  • @cmoon3 Oh I just saw this. I am SO terribly sorry to hear what you're going thru. I cannot imagine what you're going thru right now. I hope you are able to find strength soon but please be patient with yourself & good to yourself. 
  • @cmoon3 my heart is so sad for you. Hugs and loves to you while you heal. 
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  • I just saw this. I'm so very sorry.  Positive love and light in your time of healing. 
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