Ladies, I'm afraid that my path does not include a journey with you to February.
Yesterday, I had a lot of pain and my water broke. I delivered an intact baby at 14w1d at home, and we said goodbye to our little girl. I went to the ER and they confirmed a clear uterus, so I don't have to have surgery. Now is time for resting and healing, physically and emotionally.
We are taking a few months to process what has happened, and think about whether we want to try again or enjoy our family as it is.
I've enjoyed my time in this BMB. I will be thinking of you in February and hope you enjoy happy and healthy pregnancies. Good luck to you all and please know I wish you the very best!
Re: Saying goodbye
Married May 2014
TTC # 2 Since December 2021
Baby girl W born 2/2021
Our journey so far...
(tw loss & infertility)
Working with an RE since March 2016
2 failed TI cycles
3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017
23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
BFP 4.21.17
MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey:
12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house!
1.1.20 Homestudy process started
3.14.20 First social worker visit
5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
SD: 21 & SS: 17
BFP #2 6/3/2020
*Trigger Warning*
MC at 8 weeks {EDD 9.2.20}
Rainbow Girl! {2.28.16}
Baby boy, lost at 16 weeks {EDD 6.10.15}