Bfn but no aunt flow

mzbkworm

So my cycle is pretty regular, I've been using my days x to track it for probably 10 years... Fiance and I are TTC, had a miscarriage or I guess you would call it a chemical pregnancy and back in May. Followed by a regular period. This month .. I'm on CD 39. I'm normally 27-30 day cycles. I did opk but I used a new one so I'm not sure which of 3 days I actually ovulated on but it's almost 3 weeks since then. 
I'm so confused. No weight change. No increased stress. I haven't had a period skip like this since I was 21, I just turned 30. The worst part is two tests came out with what looks like a positive... But everything else has been negative. 
In case anyone wonders why I kept testing after the BFP, I made a doctor's appointment for when I had the BFP but I kept testing because last time I miscarried before the doctor's appointment. So I figured as long as the test stayed positive, I would keep the appointment. Well then I started getting these negatives... But I've never had any bleeding. Hoping somebody else is in the same boat, you're not out till you bleed right?

capnjackharkness

You could have gotten evap lines instead of an actual BFP.  Or you could've had a second very early chemical pregnancy (although I would doubt this if it's been days and you haven't started bleeding already).  The issue is you had a MC a few months ago, and that can cause irregular cycles and varying symptoms.  You should call your doctor to have them check it out.  It's possible your last MC did not clear completely, or something is happening with this cycle. 

I also HIGHLY recommend temping (and reading Taking Charge of Your Fertility), as it would be super-helping post MC while TTC and figuring out what your body is doing with it's 'new normal' post-MC.

ktinarose

@mzbkworm Hi, I'm new to the community and your post caught my eye because Im going through a similar situation right now. My husband and I have been TTC for the last three months. I have been charting my cycle for years as well and I am rarely ever late. My cycle is typically 29-31 days. I am on CD 44 but I have only tested BFN. I am distressed because I don't know how this will affect my charting and obviously nervous that I haven't got AF? I want to keep my fingers crossed that there's hope for a BFP but from what Ive read and researched it is highly unlikely. Before TTC, I really should have had a checkup but have been avoiding the hospital during the Covid-19 stuff.... As far as being late, I don't feel any more stressed than normal and my health remains the same except that I have been EXHAUSTED all the time and eating everything in sight! I'm with you, I'm waiting for AF to show up! Otherwise, do you plan on visiting your doctor about this? I almost want to get a blood test, but I don't know if I'm overreacting.

Okay, end rant. Hope all is well with you! Take care 💗

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</div><div>Please, for the love of puppies, just call your doctors.  Your provider can do basic testing that will give you much better answers that either the internet, or wondering blindly can give you.  You may have ovulated late, or not at all.  Who knows!?</div><div>
</div><div>Temping can give you so much insight going forward, but please don't let whatever current events stop you from talking to your trusted provider and / or going in for a quick scan / blood work. ❤️ The offices all have masking / temping protocols in place, and generally speaking "sick" people aren't walking into the obgyn.  It'll be fine.  Please, don't hesitate to reach out and get the care you need.
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ktinarose

@BusinessWife I made an appointment with my primary care physician this week. I wanted to hold out for AF, but I think it's wiser to go in, get checked, and ask all the questions I've been stressing over.

I've read about temping and will likely begin tracking and using OPK as well. Thanks for the support and the lurk-- I appreciate a gentle nudge in the right direction. 

meggyme

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mzbkworm said:

So my cycle is pretty regular, I've been using my days x to track it for probably 10 years... Fiance and I are TTC, had a miscarriage or I guess you would call it a chemical pregnancy and back in May. Followed by a regular period. This month .. I'm on CD 39. I'm normally 27-30 day cycles. I did opk but I used a new one so I'm not sure which of 3 days I actually ovulated on but it's almost 3 weeks since then. 
I'm so confused. No weight change. No increased stress. I haven't had a period skip like this since I was 21, I just turned 30. The worst part is two tests came out with what looks like a positive... But everything else has been negative. 
In case anyone wonders why I kept testing after the BFP, I made a doctor's appointment for when I had the BFP but I kept testing because last time I miscarried before the doctor's appointment. So I figured as long as the test stayed positive, I would keep the appointment. Well then I started getting these negatives... But I've never had any bleeding. Hoping somebody else is in the same boat, you're not out till you bleed right?

ktinarose said:

@BusinessWife I made an appointment with my primary care physician this week. I wanted to hold out for AF, but I think it's wiser to go in, get checked, and ask all the questions I've been stressing over.

I've read about temping and will likely begin tracking and using OPK as well. Thanks for the support and the lurk-- I appreciate a gentle nudge in the right direction. 

QFP and 2 different usernames?