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FFFC 7.31


Flame-free Friday Confession time! 
*Not guaranteed to be flame-free. 

Re: FFFC 7.31

  • Confession: I’ve never used any adult toys in the bedroom—ever. 
    I’ve thought of asking in a TTGP After Dark how you all decided it was time, and what to get.... but I think I’m just too burnt out on timed sex to even really care. <shoulder shrug>
  • priyadocpriyadoc member
    @keikilove I haven't ever, either!! 
    keikilove
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  • @keikilove it wasn't until last year that I had any. If you like clitoral stimulation - bullet vibrator, bullet vibrator, bullet vibrator. Cannot recommend it enough. DH was not a fan at first (because I think it made him feel inadequate), but he's come around and it's been a great addition! It's been a great way to spice it up a little without having to go into weird territories.

    Also that gif is QUITE intense haha. Sir, you are fire!
    Me: 31 DH:33 | Together since 2007 | Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained, low morph
    IUI #1-3 | all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6/11/19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9/10/19 | BFN
    "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    Loss, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet
    FET #2 | Cancelled due to pandemic, trying on our own again for now
    2nd Opinion with another RE 8/20/20

    MAY HYPE
    May GIF  Its Gonna Be May  Know Your Meme
    May floral flowers GIF - Find on GIFER

    HSP Tulip
    Easy concrete tips on how to understand your highly sensitive

    TTGP August Siggy - Swimwear Fails

    Bikini fail feat cute puppy on Make a GIF
    keikilove
  • @inthewoods23 Aaaahh, good to know about the bullet.😉

    Too funny that you commented on the gif. Before posting I was like, “Is this too much? I can’t even tell if the guy is real or not. Is he a zombie? I hope he’s not really on fire...”😆
  • asf0613asf0613 member
    i dont use often, but i use other times of the month because DH is really only a HIO-during-FW-kind-of-guy.
    sometimes also to help me sleep when im super stressed out

    loving an idea of TTGP after dark still though!!
    Me: 29 | DH: 40 
    Married: June 2014 
    TW*
    TTC #1 Since: August 2019
    BFP: November 1, 2019 | EDD: July 11, 2020
    MMC: December 26, 2019
    TTGP AUGUST SIGGY CHALLENGE: SWIMWEAR FAILS
    babes bathing suit GIF by Cheezburger
  • inthewoods23inthewoods23 member
    edited July 31
    @asf0613 the Flo app has the option to mark masturbation (TMI? lol) and I've been thinking about actually trying to track that during a cycle because we are also EOD HIO in FW kind of people. I have a higher drive so self-pleasure is probably actually a very common thing for me, I just don't actually know how often since I'm not like, going all out with it.

    Ok, was that a little too much about me? 😅

    @keikilove sometimes I think we are hardcore badasses on the inside but we think we need to act all prim and proper here on TB for community sake
    Me: 31 DH:33 | Together since 2007 | Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained, low morph
    IUI #1-3 | all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6/11/19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9/10/19 | BFN
    "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    Loss, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet
    FET #2 | Cancelled due to pandemic, trying on our own again for now
    2nd Opinion with another RE 8/20/20

    MAY HYPE
    May GIF  Its Gonna Be May  Know Your Meme
    May floral flowers GIF - Find on GIFER

    HSP Tulip
    Easy concrete tips on how to understand your highly sensitive

    TTGP August Siggy - Swimwear Fails

    Bikini fail feat cute puppy on Make a GIF
    keikilove
  • I am all about a TTGP after dark. I agree with @inthewoods23 that there is a standard that we may set for ourselves to be a little more "Pinteresty" or something. I've read a lot of articles (SELF, Flo, etc) that suggest using toys to help spice of TTC. So far MH has been like "Umm...idk". So, so far nada. However, I did find that one of those new polaroid cameras intrigued him and was fun. :) 
  • asf0613asf0613 member
    @inthewoods23 yeah im not sure i see myself ever tracking that lol.  i definitely have a higher drive than DH though
    Me: 29 | DH: 40 
    Married: June 2014 
    TW*
    TTC #1 Since: August 2019
    BFP: November 1, 2019 | EDD: July 11, 2020
    MMC: December 26, 2019
    TTGP AUGUST SIGGY CHALLENGE: SWIMWEAR FAILS
    babes bathing suit GIF by Cheezburger
  • FFFC.... I put makeup on today 😐 and I think it looks caked on 😂 I'm clearly out of practice
    Me: 31 DH:33 | Together since 2007 | Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained, low morph
    IUI #1-3 | all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6/11/19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9/10/19 | BFN
    "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    Loss, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet
    FET #2 | Cancelled due to pandemic, trying on our own again for now
    2nd Opinion with another RE 8/20/20

    MAY HYPE
    May GIF  Its Gonna Be May  Know Your Meme
    May floral flowers GIF - Find on GIFER

    HSP Tulip
    Easy concrete tips on how to understand your highly sensitive

    TTGP August Siggy - Swimwear Fails

    Bikini fail feat cute puppy on Make a GIF
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