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keikilovekeikilove member
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Flame-free Friday Confession time! 
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  • keikilovekeikilove member
    Confession: I’ve never used any adult toys in the bedroom—ever. 
    I’ve thought of asking in a TTGP After Dark how you all decided it was time, and what to get.... but I think I’m just too burnt out on timed sex to even really care. <shoulder shrug>
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  • priyadocpriyadoc member
    @keikilove I haven't ever, either!! 
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  • inthewoods23inthewoods23 member
    @keikilove it wasn't until last year that I had any. If you like clitoral stimulation - bullet vibrator, bullet vibrator, bullet vibrator. Cannot recommend it enough. DH was not a fan at first (because I think it made him feel inadequate), but he's come around and it's been a great addition! It's been a great way to spice it up a little without having to go into weird territories.

    Also that gif is QUITE intense haha. Sir, you are fire!
    *TW* History:
    Me: 33 DH: 35 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 | all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction
    keikilove
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  • keikilovekeikilove member
    @inthewoods23 Aaaahh, good to know about the bullet.😉

    Too funny that you commented on the gif. Before posting I was like, “Is this too much? I can’t even tell if the guy is real or not. Is he a zombie? I hope he’s not really on fire...”😆
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  • asf0613asf0613 member
    i dont use often, but i use other times of the month because DH is really only a HIO-during-FW-kind-of-guy.
    sometimes also to help me sleep when im super stressed out

    loving an idea of TTGP after dark still though!!
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  • inthewoods23inthewoods23 member
    edited July 2020
    @asf0613 the Flo app has the option to mark masturbation (TMI? lol) and I've been thinking about actually trying to track that during a cycle because we are also EOD HIO in FW kind of people. I have a higher drive so self-pleasure is probably actually a very common thing for me, I just don't actually know how often since I'm not like, going all out with it.

    Ok, was that a little too much about me? 😅

    @keikilove sometimes I think we are hardcore badasses on the inside but we think we need to act all prim and proper here on TB for community sake
    *TW* History:
    Me: 33 DH: 35 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 | all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction
    keikilove
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  • bbrahmbhattbbrahmbhatt member
    I am all about a TTGP after dark. I agree with @inthewoods23 that there is a standard that we may set for ourselves to be a little more "Pinteresty" or something. I've read a lot of articles (SELF, Flo, etc) that suggest using toys to help spice of TTC. So far MH has been like "Umm...idk". So, so far nada. However, I did find that one of those new polaroid cameras intrigued him and was fun. :) 
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  • asf0613asf0613 member
    @inthewoods23 yeah im not sure i see myself ever tracking that lol.  i definitely have a higher drive than DH though
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  • inthewoods23inthewoods23 member
    FFFC.... I put makeup on today 😐 and I think it looks caked on 😂 I'm clearly out of practice
    *TW* History:
    Me: 33 DH: 35 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 | all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction
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