This thread is for anyone who has experienced loss at any point in pregnancy or experienced the loss of a child.
How far along are you?
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)?
Any upcoming appointments?
GTKY: what’s your favorite food or type of cuisine?
Feel free to share your loss history if you'd like and haven't done so elsewhere. (TWs if appropriate, but I imagine that's somewhat implied with this topic).
Copied from last week. Changed the GTKY
Re: PGAL Check In 6/23
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Physically, less nausea than the past few weeks which of course is making me anxious, even though I just had an ultrasound yesterday. I’m just overall tired, need to sit down a lot and feel drained all the time.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? tired, nausea but the daily vomit that I had with my DS hasn't started back up yet. so. much. fatigue.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Like warm garbage? Afternoons and evenings I have nausea, acid reflux, lightheadedness, and new this week is day two of a migraine. Mentally, I am grateful to still be pregnant. Emotionally, I think it’s hard to be excited for this pregnancy when it still feels so uncertain.
@moguippy Hope tomorrow is reassuring for you.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Like trash. I can smell everything, nauseous half the day, exhausted and crampy. Also uncomfortable because I’m still waiting on a diagnosis for my infection.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Nauseous, tired, nervous, anxious. Pregnancy after loss is such a mind game. I had a mmc in November and it was at 11 weeks. They had no idea when baby stopped growing so it makes me more anxious.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Shocked because this was an unplanned, unexpected pregnancy but PGAL brain still looks at the TP expecting to see bleeding. I’m mostly exhausted. Some cramping. Some waves of nausea in the PM and I’m just waiting for it to hit me like a ton of bricks. I haven’t been able to escape that with any of my previous pregnancies.
Feel free to share your loss history if you'd like and haven't done so elsewhere. (TWs if appropriate, but I imagine that's somewhat implied with this topic).
Loss: I had a MC at about 5 weeks before my daughter... pregnancy at first is always nerve wrecking a bit for me.
How are you feeling? I get waves of mild nausea every day, and twice now I’ve felt really lightheaded, which never happens when I’m not pregnant (the only time I’ve ever passed out in my life was when I was pregnant with DS). I get anxious about having less nausea that I had with DS, but I’m staying busy with a toddler and that’s helped keep my mind on track.
Upcoming appointments? My first appointment is on 7/7. I can’t wait! I hope that helps me feel more confident in this pregnancy working out.
GTKY: favorite cuisine? Usually it’s Mexican, but I just had fresh king salmon with an excellent local greens salad, so at the moment it’s Alaskan. 😊
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? For the most part good just tired. Which I had with my son. Still playing the mental game. Sometimes I have to remind myself I am even pregnant.
Feel free to share your loss history if you'd like and haven't done so elsewhere. (TWs if appropriate, but I imagine that's somewhat implied with this topic).
Loss: had an early miscarriage in early February after a surprise positive (I had infertility with my other two pregnancies). Started spotting the afternoon I got my positive test. It stopped the next day and by Monday picked up, my ob ordered bloodwork and a rhogam shot that the hospital’s lab refused to give me because they didn’t know my blood type (I have had this shot 5 times already and the ob has my blood type on file obviously). Went to the ER after because the bleeding continued to pick up, where it took them 3 hours to do scans and a lot of fighting on their end to get my shot from the lab. Two weeks later my ob confirmed a miscarriage.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)? Hardly any symptoms aside from being emotional and tired lol.
8+4. That feels like a big milestone, because my last loss started right before 8w. We also saw a heartbeat last week, which was nice, but as others have said, that didn't guarantee anything last time.
How are you feeling (symptoms, mentally/emotionally)?
I feel nauseated all day every day, but (fingers crossed) I haven't actually puked yet, so that's better than it's been in the past! Of course, that also makes me nervous, because PGAL brain is annoying.
Not sure. May go in for an ultrasound this week, may wait a few weeks for the nuchal scan appointment.
Indian and Mexican. I've been on a big Vietnamese summer roll kick so far this pregnancy. Something about the tofu, fresh herbs, and salty-spicy sauce is really speaking to me. I've also been putting peanut butter on literally everything...
MC at 8 weeks {EDD 9.2.20}
Rainbow Girl! {2.28.16}
Baby boy, lost at 16 weeks {EDD 6.10.15}