February 2020 Moms

Marriage problems

Okay, so I know this isn't going to be about my LO but i have a condition called vaginismus. It's where a muscle is continuously tight. Sex and childbirth was extremely painful. Docs and nurses could not check my cervix until I had an epidural bc I'd almost jump out of bed. It was bad before I got pregnant but after having my LO it's worse. Now I can't have pleasurable sex with my husband. He says it's fine and he understands,but some nights he lashes out saying that it's bad that he can't have sex with his wife. I just dont know what to do and I feel like I can't talk to anyone. If anyone has this condition or can give me any advice please let me know. Thanks

Re: Marriage problems

  • Have you discussed this with your doctor? Is there any form of physical therapy or treatment available for this condition?
  • There are solutions for this condition. Talk to your doctor about it.
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