WTO Friday 4/10

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**This is a thread that welcomes all regardless of where they are at in their TTC journeys. Please be mindful of topics that are discussed that could be hurtful to those going through tough times. Mention of children or pregnancies of others should have a TW (trigger warning) and be in a spoiler if possible, and only be mentioned if it is extremely pertinent to the conversation. Thanks for keeping this a safe place for us all to engage!** 

Month/Cycle: 

CD: 

WAYDTGKU: 

R/R: 

CS/Q: 

stillcozy

Month/Cycle: 7/11

CD: 1 and extremely upset about it

WAYDTGKU: temping, opk, cm tracking, PNV 

R/R: nope not happy she came early I won’t be having a baby in 2020 and that stings more then I thought. Positive I won’t have to be on the December BMB

CS/Q: what’s the point today. 

mvt2003

Month/Cycle: 20/20

CD: 6

WAYDTGKU: Basically anything but SMEP again SO exhausting!

R/R: I'm trying to bust out this update before my morning call! FX I get it done before that! 

I finally got a good amount of sleep last night, so I'm feeling pretty good today. I did yoga after dinner, maybe that helped? I've got a busy work day today, and then we're getting takeout for dinner tonight! I'm also definitely having a cocktail this evening, and hopefully will spend some time working on my quarantine afghan I hope everyone has a great Friday! (It is Friday, yes? ) 

CS/Q: Nope

inthewoods23

@stillcozy sorry for AF 😢

@mvt2003 I have heard that exercising before bed can help with sleep. What are you getting for takeout?

Month/Cycle: 34/25

CD: 33-ish? Or 25 if you start on the first day I didn't use lupron

WAYDTGKU: HIO with Conceive Plus, PNV, vitamin D & E, probiotic, L-Arginine, DH on a multivitamin and soon CoQ10

R/R: Yesterday was my Friday so I'm actually off today for Good Friday! DH still works. My plan is to go grocery shopping for additional supplies and I need to occupy myself today. Will probably do yoga too. That would make it 3 times this week!

CS/Q: it looks ugly, but eh

stillcozy

@mvt2003 glad you got a lot of sleep and it sounds like a great night lined up! What kind of take out are you getting? 

@inthewoods23 thanks friend! Glad you are able to have the day off today! Hope it is relaxing. 

It feels so weird to not be getting together family this weekend. 

kpearse99

@stillcozy sending you hugs, friend. I know how badly it hurts month after month, especially when it's the last month/chance for the current year. It still blows my mind how much we all plan our lives out 9 months ahead, it's just the way this TTC thing goes. I hope you find some comfort throughout the day and the weekend.  

@mvt2003 TGI freaking F, friend!! And cheers to you and that cocktail tonight! I'll be having wine, myself... as per usual hahaha 

@inthewoods23 ooooo yay for having today off!! I really do not feel like working today lol

Month/Cycle: Month 19

CD: 6 - I only know this because @mvt2003 and I are CD buddies (Yes, I'm going to remind myself of that every day because it makes me happy!)

WAYDTGKU: PNV and NTNP

R/R: I still have not lost this clomid weight - it's crazy!! It seems to be all in my legs, which I guess is better than being all over, but still! I think I've just accepted this is the new me, but I'll continue to exercise and hope it reduces them a little. Any tips or suggestions on lower body workouts? I've read conflicting things on bodyweight being best vs. using weights being best.... womp!

CS/Q: n/a

asf0613

@stillcozy very sorry that you moved over here today, big hugs.  and i have finally accepted my fate that im not having a baby in 2020, but 2020 can still be the year we get KU, and thats something just as big!
@mvt2003 quarantine afghan! i love it.  what's the design?
@inthewoods23 thats awesome that you did yoga 3x this week!  go for a record 4 tomorrow too!
@kpearse99 i'd guess cardio would be best?  easiest probably just doing a bunch of stairs if you do'nt have a bike?

Month/Cycle: 4/3

CD: 8

WAYDTGKU: prenatals, OPK, temping

R/R: just went to the grocery store this morning.  all the employees were super diligent about making sure everyone had gloves (they even supplied) and kept everyone as apart as possible.  so i guess as good of an experience as one can have grocery shopping during these times.  i even got 4 rolls of paper towels!!! i went through a whole roll last night when the pup peed all over the place in one shot ughhhh

CS/Q: why, yes i do have a chart   

now just need to get some little hearts on there.. tried last night but someone wasn't feeling it 

photographerwife

Month/Cycle: 10/9/3(al)

CD: 14

WAYDTGKU: Clearblue advanced OPK, bbt, prenatals 

R/R: Going to help my sister move later today. And then get some Easter stuff together. We aren’t quarantined from my in-laws because they’re our neighbors and we see them a ton, so we will do dinner Sunday with them. I’m going to try to make a bunny cake to keep up the Easter spirit, but I’m not the best baker, so I hope he survives 😂 I’m super super irritated at DHs family. We always do Easter at DHs grandparents house, with all of his aunts and cousins( at least 25 people) and they're still going over there! Nana has a pretty serious heart condition and I’m so mad that any of them would even consider putting them at risk. 

CS/Q: 

photographerwife

@stillcozy I’m sorry about CD1

@mvt2003 SMEP is exhausting. 😂 especially if you o late in the month! Glad you slept well! Enjoy your Friday! 

@inthewoods hope you find things to keep you occupied today! Enjoy your day off! 

@kpearse99 sorry you haven’t lost the weight! I have no advice, most of my weight goes to my hips. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I bet you’ll find a good workout though! 

@asf0613 glad you had a successful shopping trip! That’s good they are being diligent  about cleanliness! Are you tracking in fertility fried too? I like it more because you can see a better shift in temps. And the Premom app isn’t as user friendly imo. 

asf0613

@photographerwife i dont have that one but maybe will download also, thanks!

photographerwife

@asf0613 check it out! My thermometer connects to premom, and I just move the temps over to fertility friend! 

optimisticoctopus

@stillcozy ugh I’m so sorry for CD1

@mvt2003 sounds like your evening yoga relaxed you!

@inthewoods23 enjoy your day off! MH and I both have off today and it feels weird we don’t know what to do with ourselves haha!

@kpearse99 I always find that a mixture of cardio and weights works the best for me! There’s a lot of good YouTube workouts that focus on lower body exercises...I’ve been doing basically all YouTube workouts since this whole quarantine business started haha

@asf0613 yay for a successful grocery trip!

@photographerwife it’s nice that you’re still going to be able to see some family this weekend!

Month/Cycle: 5/5

CD: 17

WAYDTGKU: temping, prenatals, OPKs, tracking CM

R/R: Happy Friday!! DH and I have the day off together and he is already so bored lol. Probably will spend some time cleaning up the backyard, and maybe we will go for a long walk and work on a puzzle! Should be a nice start to the weekend.

CS/Q: another positive OPK this morning! Probably will O this weekend and hopefully be over in TWW by next week!

jackie_dunny

@stillcozy I’m so so sorry that you find yourself here. Hugs ❤️

@mvt2003 yay for good sleep and not having to cook tonight! Enjoy your cocktail and afghan making! 

@inthewoods23 wahoo! Yay for having today off! 

@kpearse99 ain’t trying to lose weight the worst? 😩 I’m quite the noob when it comes to working out so unfortunately I don’t have any advice 

@asf0613 your chat comment made me laugh. I’m glad grocery shopping was a success for you 

@photographerwife omg that would make me sooooo mad! DHs gran is so so frail and some of his cousins are still going to see her and it makes us so mad! Question, how do you like living next to your in-laws? 

@runningoncookies sounds like you have a really nice day planned! 

Month/Cycle: NTNP

CD: 11

WAYDTGKU: Using less protection, tracking CM, CP, & BBT

R/R: I had a zoom hangout with my girls last night so that was really fun. All of our boyfriends/husbands have been best friends since they were like, 11. When I first moved to the UK I would only be here for a few months and normally the boys had “no girls allowed” hangouts (so weird) but because I was only able to be with my boyfriend (now DH) for a few months out of the year, they allowed me to come out with them. They’re like my brothers now and I consider them my friends, not just DH’s friends, but I was like, “I need some girlfriends!” So I forced them to all introduce me 😂 and now we’re all like SUCH good friends - a few were even some of my bridesmaids

CS/Q: nothing exciting 

stillcozy

I can barely keep down food and yet want to binge and drink to cope tonight but feel so guilty doing so. I hate this process I hate that people who haven’t been trying or don’t want to be pregnant are. I hate females who participated in TTGP That actively tried to get pregnant are so freaking ungrateful to be pregnant now. I hate them for that. Im hurt and sad and jealous. Sorry I just needed to get that off my chest.