Relationship issue...your opinion? — The Bump
December 2019 Moms

Relationship issue...your opinion?

So I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years now 2 kids.  He has a random old phone lying about we just use connected to WiFi from time to time.  I got bored one day and found access to his Amazon Chime.. basically a chat system for work purposes for those of you that aren't familiar. He works for Amazon.  Anyway there are a couple of messages with him talking about oh look at this chick working in isle blah blah blah so hot let's see who can get her... and oh she is looking so scrumptious tonight. Atop that there are more messages with one girl there who makes it very clear she is into him and he like never stops her come ons..but doesn't really reciprocate.  however there is a chat with her like an hour before I'm about to push the baby out while he is in the hospital and she is asking if we are together (we are) and he replied on and off.  then in a previous chat with her he doesn't even disclose I'm pregnant but mentions our 4 year old.   they talk non stop about random stuff all the time...so mad...what do you girls think..  typical guy behavior or I need to leave?

Re: Relationship issue...your opinion?

  • I'd be very angry and concerned too. That's definitely something worth addressing to him.
  • So I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years now 2 kids.  He has a random old phone lying about we just use connected to WiFi from time to time.  I got bored one day and found access to his Amazon Chime.. basically a chat system for work purposes for those of you that aren't familiar. He works for Amazon.  Anyway there are a couple of messages with him talking about oh look at this chick working in isle blah blah blah so hot let's see who can get her... and oh she is looking so scrumptious tonight. Atop that there are more messages with one girl there who makes it very clear she is into him and he like never stops her come ons..but doesn't really reciprocate.  however there is a chat with her like an hour before I'm about to push the baby out while he is in the hospital and she is asking if we are together (we are) and he replied on and off.  then in a previous chat with her he doesn't even disclose I'm pregnant but mentions our 4 year old.   they talk non stop about random stuff all the time...so mad...what do you girls think..  typical guy behavior or I need to leave?
    Uhm....

    Me: 36 | DH: 43 ~ TTC Our First May 2015 thru Dec 2017
    A Brief Summary of Our Infertility Journey
    5/16 - Began Creighton Method CM Tracking / Napro Fertility Medicine | Progesterone + various abx cycles - all BFNs
    8/16 - SHG: ute good, at least one tube open | 10/16 - MFI Azoo dx confirmed. No known genetic cause. Vas deferens absent.
    3/17 - DH started Clomid to prepare for MESA/TESE | 4/17 - Initial RE Consult for me | 7/17 - Successful retrieval for DH!
    9/17 - Two BTB IVFs  | 10/17 - Polypectomy  |  11/17 - 1st FET ended in CP | 12/17 - 2nd FET ... BFP!!! <3 EDD: 09/09/18
    Our little miracle is finally here!

    Our Journey Trying for a Sibling still in progress...
    9/19 - 1st natural FET cycle, BFN | 10/19 - 2nd medicated FET cycle, cancelled
    11/19 - 3rd natural FET cycle, BFN  | 12/19 - 4th natural FET cycle... BFP!!! <3 EDD: 08/21/20

    brookert615shamrocandroll
  • Loading the player...
  • He has likely already cheated on you with multiple women. I would go get tested for STDs and then leave. 
    brookert615BusinessWifestassischroeder
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards