Is it hormones or a actually thing to be upset about?

kaybear727

So my husband has been working crazy hours. He hasn't been getting home until after 7pm or later every evening. His work also took this weekend away making him work both Saturday and Sunday. He actually got home at a decent time today, 5pm for once but then decided to go out with some guys from work for a football party at someones house. We'll I drop him off at 7pm and at 1am he finally calls to tell me to pick him up, but not from the house I dropped him off at but at a bar. I get him at and had to stop 4 times times driving only 6 minutes from our house because he continued to get sick from drinking so much. When we finally get home he can't even walk in the house let alone up the stairs to the bedroom. It took me over an hour to get him in bed finally. Is it wrong of me to be pissed whem after all week working with these guys he then wants to get trashed at the bar tonight with them instead of spending some time with the kids and myself? 

smyatt40

That's not hormones, I would be super upset too!

jsmommy444

Awe @kaybear727 I am so sorry to hear you going through this. It is healthy to trust your SO and give them space, however, I feel like you are totally in the right for being upset. He shouldn't be putting you in stressful situations to deal with right now. You need all the love  and support and all his attention right now. It's best to talk it out with him and try not to fight (harder said then done) but definitely let him know how you feel.