Hi, I will be starting IVF in a few months and wanted to ask the people who have experienced IVF how it affected them on a physical level. I have two chronic illnesses and am concerned about how it will affect my functioning ability as I am already struggling with that. I know that IVF takes a huge toll emotionally, but I feel like I am coping really well so far and will be able to work out my emotions so they don't burden my functioning level when doing the IVF. Of course, I will be overwhelmed with many different emotions, but I have a deep tool-set of skills to work through the painful emotions that may come and allow it to not get me down. At least, that is what I am hoping for myself. Back to my question, if you would like to share, I would be very interested in your experience on a physical level. Thanks for sharing!
PomegranateSeeds
Re: Physical Effect Of IVF
Do not underestimate the emotional side though. Imaging PMS. but now it's PMS multiplied by the number of follicles that are growing inside (as each will produce hormones). As uncomfortable as I was physically, I was not ready for this hormonal sledgehammer.
My story in signature spoiler. Children mentioned.
I don't produce FSH, so no natural menstrual cycle. DH has reduced morphology.
Summer 2014 IUI (with first husband): cancelled after almost a month of stims due to too many follicles
Time off to divorce, get back on my feet, find a new hubby and get married again 💑
March 2017 IVF#1: ~70 follicles, 13R, 10M, 7F, 3B = 2 PGS Normal (both XY) - no transfer due to ohss
Sept 2017 FET#1: BFP, Beta#1 (10dpt) - 253, Beta#2 (12dpt) - 528, DS born 05/31/2018 👨👩👦
Dec 2019 FET#2: BFN
Changed clinic, planning March 2020 IVF#2 - postponed due to the pandemic
April 2020 IVF #2: ~30 follicles, 24R, 12M, 8F, 4B = 2XY & 2XX, all normal
Sept 2020 FET#3: one XX embryo, BFP, Beta#1 (9dpt) - 161, Beta#2 (11dpt) - 519, Beta#3 (19dpt) - 7174, Due date 05/30/2021
DD born 05/23/2021 👨👩👧👦 - My family is now complete
I have allodynia which is very intense skin sensitivity. I really hope I don't have what you experienced physically with IVF. If I get sensitivity tactile wise, that would be very difficult because it would be added to my allodynia. It's good for me to prepare and have a heads up. I will save lots of options for clothing. I have been trying to be a minimalist. (=
If you have very sensitive skin -- if you're doing progesterone injections, you may want to start out with ethyl oleate based injections rather than the sesame oil ones which tend to be harder on sensitive skin. I had horrible reactions to the sesame oil and none to the ethyl oleate, and while I don't have your condition, I do have extremely sensitive skin (just lavender oil drops during yoga caused a painful allergic reaction).
Summer 2015 - no BFP yet, labs normal, referred to RE
Fall 2015 - Summer 2016 - Further testing all normal. 3 IUI's -- BFN. Recommended move to IVF. Planned cycle for fall 2016.
September 2016 - Surprise natural BFP. MMC @ 8 weeks. RE expressed confidence that we just needed the 'right' embryo.
Fall 2016 - Spring 2017 -- Break from TTC
June 2017 - Started IVF; egg retrieval for freeze all cycle. 9 mature eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized. 2 4BB embies on ice.
August 2017 - FET transfer both embies. BFP. Twin pregnancy confirmed by ultrasound. EDD 4/28/18
September 2017 - Twin B stopped developing; Twin A doing perfectly! Graduated from RE @ 10 weeks
March 2018 - Baby Girl born via C/S due to pre-eclampsia -- strong and healthy!
TTC #2
January/Feb 2021 - Freeze-all IVF cycle
March 2021 - FET of 1 PGS normal female embryo. BFP! Beta #1 156, #2 472, #3 1241, #4 5268 EDD 12/5/21 - Christmas baby!
"When all is lost then all is found."
Unexplained infertility/AMA, polycystic ovaries, insulin resistance
FET#1(July 2017): eSET of first of 4 PGS-normal embryos, DS born 3/30/2018
FET#2(Oct/Nov 2019): eSET