Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product. Feel free to comment on threads like these throughout your time at the board, not just when they're in their week in the spotlight, if you discover something new OR are new to the board. This week it's.... Car Seats!
FTMs are encouraged to ask questions & STM/+s encouraged to share their knowledge based on experience. You can use any or all the prompts relevant to you below to share info in an easy-to-read format. Pictures/screen grabs, if put in spoilers, are welcome!
For S+TMs:
- Vehicle factors that might influence your choice:
- Favorite car seat:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- What you like about it:
- What you don't like about it, if anything:
- Are you considering a specific car seat that goes with a travel system? Why?:
- Is there a car seat you've tried that you absolutely hate? Why?:
- Additional thoughts?:
For FTMs
- Lifestyle factors that might influence your choice:
- Car seats you're interested in:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- Any questions for S+TMs?:
Re: Product Spotlight: Car Seats
https://www.amazon.com/Chicco-KeyFit-Infant-Seat-Orion/dp/B071L1NG6N?th=1
Britax 2017 B-Agile Travel System with B-Safe 35 Infant Car Seat - Birth to 55 Pounds, Raven https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0731KQ97W/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_ga98Db442EP0M
I also have found that as you get out of the infant seat--that I only buy carseats with adjustable straps that don't have to be rethreaded. That is a pain. Also... carseats with the latch system--easy click (not sure what it's called exactly) is the way to go. Picture below because it's hard to explain.
one thing to keep in mind is whether you’ll be using a stroller attachment. For strollers I really wanted a Bumbleride, but the Peg Perrego wasn’t compatible at the time, and we didn’t think a bassinet was necessary. We ended up going with a Bob stroller which worked great!
when researching car seats or big ticket items I frequently visited the www.babygearlab.com site
Pro tips:
- Use Lucie's list to figure out what's best for you: https://www.lucieslist.com/guides/best-infant-car-seats-strollers/infant-car-seats/
- See tag above for what we have/thoughts on infant car seats. - For our Britax, I liked that I could bring the stroller and easily pop the car seat onto it, so I suggest getting the travel system (for whichever seat you choose).
- For convertible car seats, don't get the Evenflo Symphony DLX unless you just like gigantic car seats that take up allllll the space. I have it. It's really great, otherwise. But it's HUGE. I wish I had put thought into that when purchasing.
Other tips:@asf0613 we opted for a travel system. We got the Uppababy Mesa carseat and base (and an extra base for the other car, if you have two cars), and then the Vista stroller where the Mesa clicked right in. She was a tall baby but we were able to keep her in it until she was a year old before switching to a convertible seat. I found this super convenient, and have found Uppababy (while admittedly pricey) to be great quality and super intuitive. Since all of us are having summer babies, being able to pop the bucket seat out of the car and right on to the stroller will be great when going for a walk, running errands, into a restaurant, etc.
But seriously, it’s amazing and I’d never use anything different for infants.
Convertible seats - I have the Britax Marathon which I could also rave about for an unspecified amount of time.
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We mostly picked these on recommendation of my SIL and a little research.
i liked that it was super easy to install and so light. I bought the adapter to snap it into the stroller (uppa baby) and I used it more than the stroller seat for a while.
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My babies never transfer in/out of the car and stay asleep, so the convenience of a bucket seat is very valuable to us. There’s nothing wrong with skipping it and going straight to a convertible seat though, and they often take up less room.
We’ve used...
Infant bucket:
Britax B-Safe - no complaints
Convertibles:
Britax Boulevard Clicktight - heavy but very easy to install, not excessively large, cover has worn badly near tightening strap
Graco Size4Me - we have one in each grandma’s car, one tightens much easier than the other, otherwise decent
Evenflo Sureride - harness didn’t come with covers and dug into my toddlers neck, but I was able to get some from Evenflo; not super user friendly but usable and super light for travel
Combo seat (as harnessed FF and booster):
Graco Nautilus Snuglock - my *favorite* install we’ve had, it’s super duper easy; really nice seat
Booster:
Chicco KidFit - pretty good, but the belt slips out of the guide a lot
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We have the Maxi-Cosi Pria 85 Max as our convertible toddler seats and LOVE them. They are quite large, and with 2 in my backseat they basically take up the middle seat as well (I have a smaller MB SUV) But they are very comfortable for the kids and I feel they are very safe with all of the padding.
We also have 2 "travel" carseats - The Evenflo Tribute XL. We travel quite a bit as a family and these are perfect as they are narrow (fit down the aisle of a plane easily) and very light. They are also pretty inexpensive. We have checked them for flights as well and haven't had any issues with them breaking (we do put them in a carseat bag) We also use them in my husbands car at home, and since they are narrow, you could fit another person / carseat in the middle seat if needed (BMW SUV).
If you are a FTM and making a registry, I would recommend putting the convertible / toddler seat on your registry as well as the infant seat. We didn't, and then had to go back and buy it after a year when we needed it (they can be expensive). It would have been nice to have had someone buy it for us and have it ready when needed
Infant Car seat: Graco Snugride. This has been one of the highest rated car seats for years. It isn’t trendy. It’s safe, and always has been. I appreciated that track record. Also, it’s lightweight compared to many others in its class. One more note: don’t let high weight capacity be an influencer for buying an infant seat. It’s a gimic. There is NO way you’re putting a 35lb child in this seat. My 3 1/2 year old isn’t even 35lbs yet. You’ll move to a convertible car seat way before then.
Convertible Car seats: Britax, 100%. I once worked in a children’s boutique and the owner would only buy Britax. They said they were the safest and told their customers that it was the only option. Their expensive, but worth the peace of mind safety rating IMO.
Andplusalso.... even a safe seat is unsafe if it's not used correctly. So if a Britax doesn't fit with a 2nd or third time mom's car seat configuration.. it's not the best fit for them because it's not safe. There's so much more to consider.
Different brands will have features *they* say add safety, but you have to take their word for that, it's more of a marketing thing than anything else because those aren't tested independently.
How you use a seat is the most important factor. A seat that you can install and use correctly every time is safe, period. A seat that you can't install correctly, or a seat that you can't seem to use properly, isn't safe. And don't use extra things that haven't been tested with the seat - like those infant padding things. Most seats come with everything you're allowed to use (like their own infant insert), or the manual will say whether or not you can use extra things (like seat protectors). Accessories can interfere with how the seat functions in a crash, and obviously you don't want that.
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Some of us may have strong opinions and throw down for cloth diapers, glass bottles, organic mattresses, etc. We are definitely going to see differences of preference regarding all of this, both now and throughout parenthood.
For convertible car seats, we’ve gone with a Britax marathon for each kid at around age 9 months and I’m very happy with them. The key is to get the “clicktight” model. it’s so worth the extra money, as it makes installation a breeze! You’d be surprised how many times you have to move car seats around and between cars, so for us having a clicktight has made it less of a hassle.
I just don't think FTMs need to feel like they're not choosing something safe enough b/c some baby store owner says one brand is "safer." She, very likely, has no real knowledge about car seats, other than what manufacturers have told her. And, to @treeofcheem's point, those extra features aren't tested independently and are used as a marketing tool.
I'm also a TTM, and I think that putting it on a new parent to think that they might not be picking a safe enough seat for their brand new squishy baby is unfair. It's not like opinions about diapers - a legal seat is safe, period. The opinions about which are easiest to use, nicest quality, etc. are totally up for debate here, and everyone can have their own favorite. But every car seat in the US is rated equally safe - that's not a preference or opinion. Saying "oh, only this one brand is good enough" is misleading and is just an unverified opinion.
Expecting again -- EDD 7/27/20
1) thecarseatlady.com has a robust database of car makes & models, and provides solid advice on where & how to configure 1+ car seats based on vehicle make and model. She also recommends car seats based on model if you need a slimmer profile or don’t have the LATCH system in all seats, etc.
2) Read up on dos and don’t of infant car seats. While they are safe installed correctly in the base and on strollers when positioned correctly, babies have died of asphyxiation when infant car seats are placed on other surfaces. https://www.scarymommy.com/never-let-baby-sleep-in-car-seat-outside-car/
Just because a government agency publishes a minimum safety threshold, it doesn’t mean all products are equally safe. We see this across all sorts of consumer products - such as medicine, food/produce, water quality, etc. Also, advances are made all the time. For example, the latest thinking based on studies conducted in Sweden is that car seats with a metal bar that extends down to the floor dramatically reduces infant head injuries v what we see here in the US.
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I understand the objection to someone stating their opinion as a fact (‘product xyz is the best’ vs ‘I like xyz the best and this is why’).
But I don’t see any place any one was ‘shamed’.
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Disagreements when opinions are given are going to happen. That's okay and totally normal. Everyone will move on. I hold no ill will towards anyone just because we don't see eye to eye on everything.... I had more to say, but in the interest of letting this TF go so everyone can have a positive morning, I'll stop here.
ETA: @pretzellover when I say I hold no ill will towards anyone... that includes you. Over this and last week's UO.
This can be super overwhelming for FTMs and I agree that we need to just keep this to straight recommendations.
Also, regarding the safety of different seats (and this is just my personal opinion) I think that certain seats are definitely safer than others. Maybe less so for infant bucket seats, but definitely for convertible seats. I mentioned in my last post we have Maxi-Cosi's in my car & Evenflo Tributes in my husbands car/ for when we travel. While I definitely think both models are "safe" (they wouldn't be sold if not), the Maxi-Cosi is much larger, heavier, more padding, etc. If I was to God forbid get into an accident, I think the Maxi-Cosi would do a better job of protecting my kids than the Evenflo. I am just trying to give my experience from owning both brands - But everyone has to make that determination for themselves for what they feel works best for them, their kids, their car and so on. (And this is not to say Maxi-Cosi is the best brand, its just what works for us and what we recommend to our family and friends)
So for someone the $45 car seat might not seem as safe and that person is allowed to have their opinion and express that based on their experience with that seat. For someone else, that $45 seat might be perfect for their needs. The information that people are giving here is based on their experiences- which FTMs can take or leave.