What has your partner been doing (or not doing) that makes you happy? Mad?
Y’all. My H has take DD out by himself MAYBE 5 times in the 4.5 years of her life. She said she wanted Olive Garden for dinner...he got her dressed (we were swimming) and took her himself without me even saying I didn’t want to go. 😀😀😀 hopefully he remembers my cheese ravioli!
Re: Partner Rants and Raves
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
I have a feeling we need to have a talk soon. I hate it, because it makes me feel naggy. I'm not his mother. I just wish he was more observant of the imbalance here. And let me get this straight, he's not lazy, he's just so tired that he's oblivious.
Due with baby #2: Feb 2022
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
rave: he worked all weekend on making a backyard playground for DD which will hopefully keep her entertained outside for quite some time while I can sit on my butt and watch her lol he also did most of the work on dinner last night AND cleaned up the kitchen while I put DD to bed
rant: I just bought a 12 pack of grape soda since I love my soda but trying to cut back on caffeine, and he keeps stealing them! lol
@yodamama @rachelg777 Solidarity! DH is such a night owl so he is not productive and sleeps in, in the mornings. Although he is not productive at night either. He gets home from work in the evenings and wants to unwind and sits on the couch all night. We have had several conversations over the last 3 years about division of labor and our perceptions on what we do and the other does/doesn't do. It is getting better, but not there yet. I've also learned that my love language is acts of service, now that he knows that, he makes more effort to help me out around the house. His is physical touch so I am making more of an effort there as well.
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019rave: DH brought me home a lot of fruits last night since I’ve been craving them. He has also cleaned out the fridge since meat is making me sick.
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
Due with baby #2: Feb 2022
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
So far, I’m pretty happy with hubs, he took over bath time today which is great because with two, it’s a constant battle to keep the water in the tub, soap out of the eyes, and for whatever reason, shower steam really bothers me when I’m preggo. So I was happy he took that over tonight.
I hate that my husband cannot use a computer and I have to be his "secretary" sometimes. He has my old computer (should have been sent to the dump years ago) which barely functions and freezes all the time and half the keyboard keys stick and it takes 10 times as long to do anything as it should. Then he makes me use this terrible computer because he cannot figure out how to write a letter and attach it to an email and cannot figure out how to order something from Amazon (we have a prime account so it's all setup). Ugh. At least he is good at other things and built me a fence this summer for my animals and is taking care of getting and splitting and stacking firewood so we can heat the house etc.