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  • @b_1029 Ahhh such a tough situation. I would wait to see if the other person reached out and then consider making contact. 
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    RE appointment 8/20
    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, and vWD type II - low Factor VIII
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  • @NYTino24 I am both grossed and and incredibly intrigued at the size of this worm! 😆🧐
    TTGP August Siggy Challenge - Camping

    Me: 30 DH:32
    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1
    6 total biopsied for PGT-A and frozen, 5 normal - 3 girls, 2 boys

    FET #1
    Scheduled transfer date 9/10/19


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    @NYTino24 I’m still not over the first creature you terrified us with 😂
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  • @b_1029 that’s an incredibly difficult situation! I don’t have any advice really, but I hope you have peace with whatever decision you make! I feel like I might want to know if I were in that situation, but the unknown is also scary! Best of luck with whatever you decide! 
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  • @b_1029 whoa. My head is still spinning trying to think through your situation, so I can’t begin to imagine what you’re feeling! That’s such a tough call! Ahhh, I’m so torn! Wishing whichever way you decide is the right choice for you! ❤️
    Also, condolences on the crappy appliance situation. Parts of some of our pipes/connector pieces are totally corroded too. What a pia. I hope that’s getting resolved soon! 
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  • @tyrion_ Bahaha... I have more. Just haven’t dug up those student projects!
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    RE appointment 8/20
    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, and vWD type II - low Factor VIII
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  • @whatsbumpinpumpkin. Ha!  Yeah, it's a two-way street.  "It's okay, it would be super inconvenient to try to do early morning monitoring while DH is on a work trip," vs.  "I could just be a totally Awesome IF warrior woman, and even manage to pull off all my morning monitoring while he's out of town!"  Ughh.  AF is almost here, too, so I have to do SOMETHING in my mind to, "make it okay," that we're still not transferring yet ...  :(
    Me: 35 | DH: 42 ~ TTC May 2015 thru Dec 2017
    5/16 - Began Creighton Method CM Tracking / Napro Fertility Medicine | Progesterone + various abx cycles - all BFNs
    8/16 - SHG: ute good, at least one tube open | 10/16 - MFI Azoo dx confirmed. No known genetic cause. Vas deferens absent.
    3/17 - DH started Clomid to prepare for MESA/TESE | 4/17 - Initial RE Consult for me. | 7/17 - Successful retrieval for DH!
    9/17 - Two BTB IVFs  | 10/17 - Polypectomy  |  11/17 - 1st FET ended in CP | 12/17 - 2nd FET ... BFP!!! <3 EDD: 09/09/18

    Our little miracle is finally here!


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  • @b_1029 wow, that's a tough decision. I don't have any advice, but I hope that whatever you decide is what will make you happy. 
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP August Signature Challenge: Camping




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  • bows22bows22
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    @b_1029 I keep thinking about your situation and don’t have anything to offer other than what everyone else has said. But I definitely don’t think you should avoid reaching out if that’s something you want to do. 
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  • b_1029  It is a tough thing.  Good luck with whatever you choose.  However, at this point in your life I'm (guessing) you are a grown-ass woman and don't need 18+ years of monetary support and time/attention that goes into parenting. With your bio-rents being as young as they were, and him talking to you some, it doesn't seem as though there are any hard feelings or whatnot. So, if you're mostly doing this from a genealogical perspective, they may be more open to it. (depends on how open THEY are to genea. research as well) But they may be just as interested to connect with someone and find out more 'family history' especially if they did an ancestry kit for their DNA as well!  (OR they may tell you to go pound sand, and is that worse than not knowing and being in your current situation?  IF so, F them... you are beautiful and amazing.  :wink: )
    Me: 34 DH: 38
    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    Married: Nov. 7, 2015
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    Additional RPL testing March-November 2017  
    MC #5: January 22, 2019 (6 weeks)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1
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  • @b_1029 Your adoption story is incredible. Just started my day with reading back about what others have advised and what not. I just want to tell you that you are very brave for whatever you do to contact anyone and am very thankful that you are here to share your story. 

    @NYTino24 That worm was huge! We sometimes get those where I am. Ick!
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  • @shamrocandroll it sounds like you had a nice day on the river! Good luck with your MIL. Deeeep breaths, girl. <3
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP August Signature Challenge: Camping




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    Wine @shamrocandroll. Lots of wine. And your arms will feel better too! 😆
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  • @shamrocandroll we can drink together in spirit. 🥂


    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP August Signature Challenge: Camping




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  • @emeraldduchess I wish I could say I was shocked, but I'm not. She is the worst and I dread every time we see her because she ceaselessly harasses us about it. 
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    Me: 34 | H: 39
    DS: Nov 2016
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)


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