My husband's parents are divorced. His step-mom has offered to throw me a baby shower for JUST my husband's Dad's side of the family.
My husband and I were planning on throwing another shower for both sides of my family-plus his Mom's side. No one has offered to throw us a shower on either side (no one can really afford it) and we thought we could plan and throw it ourselves. This will be our first living baby (I suffered a miscarriage at 20 weeks) and we really want to celebrate our little guy. But our dilemma is-should we really throw this shower for 35+ people (just women in our family) and spend all that money, when it could just go towards the baby??