Single with two babies

deb_lee

 

deb_lee

When I  say can I do this alone I mean monday to friday not that im going to withold my babies from seeing their dad

kiki75

deb_lee said:

Hi to keep it short i have an 8 month old and im 12 weeks pregnant. Husband one week ago has decided that he cant keep his business due to second baby... due to finances and time? I dont agree but anyways he has asked/expressed his wishes for me to have an abortion at 11 weeks saying im ruining his life and that he doesnt want the baby. I said no i was devastated. He is now trying to organise his lease for business to be taken over and blaming me and my choice for not aborting the baby. He has said ive ruined his life and his goal and dream to work for himself and due to that he has said he does not love me and cant be with me as i am selfish. We are now separating it has been the most intense time of my life. I now am moving to my parents (im 30!!!!) And will find accommodation once lease is up in september... i now will be going back to work once baby is 4 months and my son will be 18 months. Is this dooable? I will be doing 7am starts. He will take the babies on some weekends (not the newborn until he or she is a bit older) i dont want my babies to not be with me on weekends and this separation was not my choice. I am at a loss. Can i do this alone? Is this actually achieveable 

Well, if he were so committed to not having another baby, he could have worn a condom, pulled out, &/or practiced abstinence. When we were not in a position to have a baby we used multiple layers of protection. A number of those are things are directly within his control. Boo hoo, dude. 

As for if it is doable, lots of people have & are doing it & you can, too.