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Feeling sad

StephLR1129StephLR1129 member
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I have a large subchorionic hematoma and am 15 weeks. I’m wondering how other mamas are dealing with being high risk... like I want to be excited for this baby but I’m scared to get too excited so I’m not totally blindsided if something goes wrong... is that a bad way to look at it? Im feeling so sad. 
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  • ladyp0tterladyp0tter member
    Not sure if you are doing better, but I also had one with my twins and as they grew it "squeezed" out the hematoma. Hopefully, as your baby gets bigger it will be minimized like mine. Mine went away finally around 16wks but that is because I was already measuring so big. I measured 40wks at 25wks. I bled on and off for the 1st 16wks and it was torture!!
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  • noranoraboboranoranorabobora member
    Steph- I COMPLETELY understand you. I was just diagnosed with a very large subchorionic hemorrhage at 9wks. I saw a high risk specialist yesterday and he says the later the SCH presents in the pregnancy, the better for outcomes. He said almost all the ones that pop up after 12 weeks go on to complete successful pregnancies, so that is good news for you! I'm struggling with maintaining joy in my pregnancy while knowing I have complications too. 
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