I wish i had a close friend I could turn to that I could trust. I just don't know what to do or where to turn. My 5 year relationship is now at it's end. We share a 3 year old and I'm 11 weeks from my due date. This entire pregnancy he's wanted nothing to do with "it". Hasn't gone to a single appointment yet feels he should have a say in the baby's name, and give him his other son's middle name as a first name. I hate the name and will not use it.
He works a lot. But for the past 3 months, he comes home and sleeps. He gets 3 days off a week because he works 4 12 hour shifts. He will literally sleep the entire three days and not help with our three year old. My job relocated 2 hours away which left me without a job last month. Ive been looking for a new job that will allow me to take my 3 year old. He will not allow me to put her in daycare and he won't watch her.
He didn't show up at all for three days. When he came home, he completely ignored our daughter. I know we're through and I don't want to be treated this way anymore. I'm just stuck now. There's no way I can move out now, because I don't have income. What am I to do??? I don't want to bring another child into this. My 3 year old is left crying several times a week because he just gets up and takes off to go with his other child from a previous marriage.