Baby is the size of a(n): Eastern tailed-blue butterfly or a pecan
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: GREEN!
Upcoming Appointments: 4/10 to discuss bloodwork results from my 1st appointment, and do more bloodwork, I guess.
How are you feeling?: Starting to get a lot better, nausea-wise, but now I'm in a phase where I sort of have to remind myself to eat. Nothing I see really looks appetizing, so I'm having to make myself eat good food. I am also still sleeping about 11 hrs a night and am tired after one activity for the day.
Upcoming Appointments: 4/18 for our 16 week check up.
How are you feeling?: Lots of RLP the last few days. Having a little bit more energy during the day but exhausted by 8pm. Starting to feel a bit more emotional.... crying and such.
Rants/Raves: it’s Monday and I wanted to sleep in. Next week our whole office is going on a trip so I won’t have to work!
Questions: na
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! I love this question!! Can’t wait to hear all about yours!!
We have 3 wonderful rescue dogs!
Buddy was DH dog before we got together so he is the OG. He is getting older so he enjoys sitting in his chair (yes, he has his own chair) and making sure there isn’t any funny business. He loves going for walks and will come and tell you when it’s dinner time.
We got Grace 4 years ago from a shelter. She runs off of love and has an obsession for tennis balls. She is definitely my sidekick and won’t leave the bedroom in the morning until I leave the room.
We found Nolan a year and a half ago. *TW It was right after our miscarriage otherwise I don’t think DH would have let me keep him. I needed this pup as much as he needed us! He is, by far, the most spoiled of them all and is such a cuddler!!
We also have 30 chickens but I won’t name all them. Pictures of the pups in the spoiler. Buddy is the black one, Grace is the big white one, and Nolan is the little guy ❤️❤️❤️
How are you feeling?: Pretty great! My nausea is gone. Now just hoping the insomnia and exhaustion goes away soon, too 🤞🤞
Rants/Raves: No rants, but LOTS of raves today! -I'm wearing maternity pants for the first time ever and HALLELUJAH are they heavenly! So comfy! -I told all my aunts and uncles this weekend! Everyone was pretty excited. We also shared the baby's sex with both immediate families. -I'm telling work this week. I'm terrified of everyone knowing, should something go wrong. But as my H keeps reminding me, my anxiety probably isn't going to go away before my belly gives me away, so I should just be brave and jump in. I'm scared, but also excited to be out in the open!
Questions: Not today
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! I have one fur baby, a high energy Australian Shepherd. She is a total spaz and I love her to death despite her inability to chill. Her favorite things include: treats, playing fetch for 153736 hours, and stealing every single sock out of the laundry hamper.
Est Due Date /
Weeks + Days: 10/3 so I’m 13 weeks and 4 days
Baby is the size of a(n): Lemon
(supposedly I don’t feel like I’m that big yet)
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green:
We find out in a couple weeks!
Upcoming Appointments: Apr 22nd
as long as the blood work from today went fine I suppose.
How are you feeling? Pretty
good actually. No nausea, not as tired.
Rants/Raves: I just
want cake, nothing tastes good anymore, and I am hungry almost all the time.
Questions: How long did
you guys wait to get your NIPT blood test results back? I had mine this
morning.
GTKY: Tell us about your
pets! We recently had to rehome our pup. I miss him dearly but the couple
that adopted him are just wonderful people, so I know he’s doing well. Right
now we are pet less and I’d like to keep it that way for a while. I’m not ready
for another pet and with another baby coming I think its poor timing, for me at
least because I can be a scatterbrain.
@Cass005 Now I want cake! @galentine So exciting that you got to tell extended family last weekend. Did you do a special gender reveal for them? Good luck telling work. It actually feels really good when you're totally, completely public! @emily1052 30 chickens??!! I forget if you live in a rural area or a city? Urban chicken farming has become kind of a huge trend in my neighborhood. I don't think it's for me, but I am totally intrigued by it.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 10/13, 12w 1d
Baby is the size of a(n): hard boiled egg
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out
Upcoming Appointments: HAD ONE TODAY!!!
How are you feeling?: Anxiety was squashed today with good news! Physically, I am still exhausted at night, have to pee 84576891 times a day, and my sense of smell is still off the charts.
Rants/Raves: No rants. Just raving about how awesome my OB is. I didn't have a scheduled ultrasound today, but when I mentioned some minor spotting she was like "Lets just do a quick sono to check." I knew she wasn't worried in the slightest, but it was early and the office was not busy. So YAY!, I got to see baby and it was amazing. He/she was moving like crazy--like pushing off with it's legs and sliding back down, over and over like it was just playing around. So fun. Strong heartbeat, too. Feeling comfortable with the fact that we've told so many family and friends lately about the news.
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! No current pets. I grew up with a cat named Pickles. And had a pug in my 20s. I'm kind of obsessed with pugs and smushed-face dogs. But we probably won't get one until our kids are old enough to help.
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: team gender creative parenting
Upcoming Appointments: I should probably schedule one? I was getting bounced between high risk and regular maternity so I got a little confused
How are you feeling?: actually fairly good! Sneezing a storm but my bump is cute, my tits are sore and I’m feeling mellow and pregnant which is nice. I think it’s just birthday magic and I’ll go back to being a hot mess tomorrow lol
Rants/Raves: it’s my birthday! And my partner & toddler are currently making me pancakes so woo hoo!
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! I have one dog, Lyra, who is turning 13 this month. I’ve had her literally since she was born. We adopted her mom when she was pregnant when I was a senior in high school and my mom ended up being out of town with a family emergency when the dog delivered. My sister and I took over the whole thing and I got to raise and train 8 adorable puppies. It was an incredible experience and I got an amazing dog out of it. Sharing my all time favorite photo of her with my little one from way back in the day. We also have a cat, Sophie, who is turning 14 this year. We’re not cat people and basically took her as a favor to my mom (long obnoxious story) but the kiddo loves the cat and I have a friend who visits often and loves her as well.
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out ASAP!
Upcoming Appointments: Thursday with MFM
How are you feeling?: nauseous and tired. Mostly useless at work and home.
Rants/Raves: Everything is kinda blah right now. Not getting too excited or down about anything. Just praying to feel better soon.
Questions: none
GTKY: Tell us about your pets!
We we have two dogs, a 5 year old black lab mix named Finn and a 2 year old Siberian Husky named Kai. They are super loyal and great with our kids. We also got 3 goldfish for our kids 6 months ago that we fully expected to have died by now and now aren’t sure how long we are going to have fish haha.
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out soon!
Upcoming Appointments: had one this morning! We got to see little bean waving at us and hear the heartbeat. All the scary things from my last ultrasounds (SCH, empty sac) were gone so I’ve graduated to monthly appointments. Also had the blood draw for the NIPT.
How are you feeling?: so gross. DD brought home some sort of cold last week and I’m battling that on top of the nausea and vomiting. I normally wouldn’t stay home from work for a cold, but I did today because I don’t want to risk this getting worse.
Rants/Raves: Everything just tastes wrong. I miss enjoying food.
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets!
None now. I had a cat growing up and would have pestered DH for a cat a long time ago but he’s allergic. We’ll get a dog when the kids are older.
@Cass005 I got my NIPT results in 7 calendar days.
@junebabyh we live in town but we have an acre of land so that’s why we can have so many. I grew up on a farm so I always knew I’d have some sort of livestock.
@galentine I am also a huge fan of maternity pants!! So glad you’re getting comfy!!
@emily1052 omg I love your dogs. They are all so adorable
@quidditchcapn1120 I had a goldfish when I was younger...we done some sort of experiment on them in school (how cruel?! I think it was just like cold water vs warm water or something but still) and I didn’t expect it to live long but I had that thing for many years
Baby is the size of a(n): eastern butterfly something or other
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Green
Upcoming Appointments: Next week! I’ve been anxious so I’m hoping for the reassurance of at least the doppler.
How are you feeling?: Better today! Still tired but not nauseous. I’m even going to the gym with MH tonight 😱 can’t wait to get back to normal. Well pregnancy normal anyways.
Rants/Raves: I want to stick to team green but seeing everyone announce their babies sex gets me all excited and makes me wonder what we are having! I just keep telling myself that it truly won’t change anything by knowing because we have everything we need and I really will be super excited for boy or girl. Be strong damnit!
Questions: Nah
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! 16 year old long haired daschund named Diego, best dog in the world, he’s been an old man since he was a puppy and I love it. 5 year old big old fluffy black persian cat named monkey, one of the neediest but sassiest cats ever. Wants cuddles and food at all times.
@emily1052 Love your pups name (it's also DS' name )
@galentine Yay for all of the happy things this past weekend!! I feel ya on telling work... it's almost like the fear of "the more people you tell, the more likely something bad will happen". I'm feeling it too a little.
@greenbean-2 Yay for graduating to monthly appointments. Such good news that things have resolved.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 10/14 - 12 weeks today
Baby is the size of a(n): jelly donut hole or a plum
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM (DS is 4.5)
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out
Upcoming Appointments: Tomorrow for NIPT/NT scan, Wednesday for 12 week OB
How are you feeling?: Meh... still the same. Pretty okay except for tummy issues.
Rants/Raves: I HAVE TWO APPOINTMENTS THIS WEEK!! Other than that, no real rants/raves. It's "Monday Funday" at my office today and we are supposed to be having a pasta food truck.
Questions: nope
GTKY: We have one pup, Nugget. He is a German Shepherd-Chow mix (or "Shapow" as I like to call it) and 100lbs of pure love. We got him from the shelter when he was six-weeks old and he's 10 now. We seriously got lucky with him because he is the most chill, relaxed dog ever, and is so good with DS.
TTC #1: September 2013, BFP 01/01/14, DS 09/14 TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
@junebabyh, we did kind of do a fun sex reveal with my immediately family, just because we were already getting together for lunch. I put together a little game I called "Easter Egg Roulette." I had about 10 plastic Easter eggs in an Easter basket, and all but one were filled with multicolored pastel candy. One egg (which I strategically buried at the bottom of the basket under some Easter "grass" so it would be chosen last) would either be filled with all blue candy for a boy or all pink candy for a girl. Then my family went around the table, one by one, each choosing an egg and cracking it open to see the color inside. It was pretty fun - my mom tried to peek into each egg before anyone else could see, and my BIL was holding each egg up to the light so see if he could cheat and see the candy color before he opened it. It turned out to be a lot of fun! Oh, and my nephew was the one to end up with the all pink egg, so it felt extra special!! 😁
Upcoming Appointments: 2 weeks from today, I can’t wait
How are you feeling?: today good, knock on wood. Yesterday was terrible and I cried before bed to DH bc i was so sick of feeling terrible. I guess the universe heard me
Rants/Raves: Rants -DS sleeps in our bed but we finally put together his twin bed yesterday. He was so excited to sleep in it...then woke up at 1:30 and wouldn’t stop crying until I laid with him. So I was awake a lot, and feeling like shit, and just wanting to be in my own bed 😩 -I’m so hungry. And so tired of eating. I’m craving like...dinner food too, not snacks, but haven’t been cooking much. So I end up eating crappy frozen food, and then not eating enough bc I’m tired of eating, and then I get so nauseous -FIL is going thru chemo and has been in the hospital with a fever since Thursday. They can’t figure out what’s causing it and said it “could be viral and take 2-3 weeks to go away”. I’m going to call my dr but I’m terrified of getting a fever and don’t want to have to avoid him for that long
Raves -DS has been so helpful lately. He helped DS with a lot yesterday and today has helped me wash and fold laundry today. He’s so eager to help and it’s so fun to see him accepting responsibility -We went to a birthday party on Saturday and they had a brunch buffet. I’ve been day dreaming about the food ever since. It was so good
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! We have a 5 year old mutt named Penny. Our son adores her and always gives her kisses and tells her how cute she is 🥰 She’s coming around to him a lot more the older he gets. She was a little iffy about him when he was younger but she loves him and is so good with him (picture behind the spoiler)
@quidditchcapn1120, I hope you feel better soon! ❤ For what it's worth, you are right around the time I started to feel better! Hopefully you do too, soon!
@greenbean-2, yay for seeing a happy healthy bean today!
@Schumerator, good luck at the gym! I worked out exactly 3 times in all of the first trimester. 🙊
@emily1052 Your pups are soooo cute!! @galentine Good luck telling work people! I was anxious for the exact same reasons but I have to tell you, it felt so good to let everyone know! I'm sure it will be the same for you. @theglitteredpterodactyl Happy Birthday!! @greenbean-2 I'm so glad your appointment went well and the previous scary stuff is behind you now! @melanier26 So sorry to hear about your FIL. Hopefully he is feeling better soon.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 10/7, 13+0 Baby is the size of a(n): Daisy FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out, and hopefully ASAP (see rant) Upcoming Appointments: Not until 4/19 How are you feeling?: The nausea simply won't quit. I'm honestly pretty annoyed at this point! Keep hoping I'll turn the corner. Rants/Raves: So I am pretty sure my NIPT results are in (been 10 calendar days since the blood draw.) I saw in the portal that they billed it to my insurance and when I called my OB's office the receptionist looked it up and said "Oh yes, let me see if a nurse is available to talk to you." Of course no one was so they are supposed to call me back. But that was FIVE HOURS AGO! Argh. Questions: Nada GTKY: Tell us about your pets! Two cats for us. We both want a dog but our travel schedules have made it tough to commit. The long haired gray one in the picture is Oscar, DH's cat that he's had for 13 years now. He's a big old cuddle bug. The smaller, short haired gray is Callie. We got her a year and a half ago from the shelter. She is my baby - I work from home when not traveling and she spends all day in my office with me, sleeps on me at night, etc. They are both spoiled rotten and embarrass us with their poor manners when we have guests!
@jenferlee82 Wow, I'd be super annoyed too. At least its not Friday, forcing you to wait an entire 48 hours. Someone will likely call you in the morning. Hopefully! @melanier26 So sorry to hear about FIL. Hope the fever passes soon for his sake and yours. @galentine Love your Easter Egg Roulette game! So cute (and extra special about your nephew!) @stephanie123456 Pasta Food Truck is my dream. Give me allllll the carbs please. @theglitteredpterodactyl Happy Birthday!!! @Schumerator I totally support you waiting! It is hard, but it's worth it 100%. We are finding out this time for a couple of reasons, but waited with DS2 and it really was an incredible surprise when he was born. I kind of wish DH was more into being team green, b/c I'd jump the finding out boat in a heartbeat.
@junebabyh@galentine It was not that great I got the pesto pasta and it also came with a side salad. I'm not sure what caused it but the first bite made me sick.
TTC #1: September 2013, BFP 01/01/14, DS 09/14 TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
I'm sorry ladies, I've been having trouble keeping up lately but wanted to post since I only lurked last week. Hoping I'll catch up later with responses to you all.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 10/14... 12 wks exactly.
Baby is the size of a(n): Lime or sorbet scoop.
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM (17 mo DS)
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Team Pink!
Upcoming Appointments: 4/19 for OB follow up with doppler.
How are you feeling?: Super lousy still. I'm having some good days but the last couple I've had body aches and general inflammation. Sooo constipated still. Super exhausted with total mommy insomnia (I swear I wake up if DS breathes too loudly in his room with the door closed).
Rants/Raves: Rant: this one may be petty but DS is teething, again, so he didn't sleep last night and of course then neither did I past 2 am. I asked SO if he could call in a favor with his parents to watch him today as well as the scheduled tomorrow. He wouldn't ask them this morning and I told him then not to bother since that's the hard part of taking care of him. Evening SO is back home and can help, overnight may suck or it may not. He called a little while ago to say he's going to ask them to take him overnight so "we" can get some sleep, ya know, despite the fact SO was snoring every time I checked, but says he didn't sleep either. No matter for me taking on an extra whiney, extra poopy (extra saliva from the teething) baby while not feeling good, on no sleep. Instead I guess I'm just going to waste a sick day tomorrow I think.
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets!
Bentley, an overly energetic but sweet 2 year old pitty black lab mix. He gets along so well with DS and their birthdays are less than a week apart. We also have two cats, Ollie our 5 year old orange princess, and Monty (Montezuma) our 4 year old eats everything monster.
Me: 41 / Fiance: 35 + One DS, one dog & two kitties...
First BFP: 1/17/16 = EDD 9/21/16 (MMC)
Second BFP: 6/24/16 (CP)
Third BFP: 2/7/17 = EDD 10/20/17 🌈 *** BORN 10/23 *** 🌈
@cooaladolly that sucks you weren’t getting help when you wanted it, I’m sorry! I definitely appreciate daytime help for those moments more than evening/nights
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding Out (hopefully by this time next week!)
Upcoming Appointments: Not until 4/26. Feels like forever away.
How are you feeling?: Doing better overall. Nausea has been tapering off, but not gone completely. Headaches are still annoying me along with the pregnancy rhinitis (I'm so tired of sniffling and sneezing!). Energy level seems to have improved so that's nice!
Rants/Raves: Rave: We're going cabin camping this weekend with friends. We've been going with essentially the same group for over 15 years. We usually do yurts, but this year it's cabins. We have a snack competition and it's a ton of fun. Can't wait! Rant: Our NIPT results aren't expected back until after our weekend away and I was hoping to be able to share the news. At least it should be fairly easy to hide the fact that I'm not drinking.
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! No pets currently. Our furbaby kitty passed away last summer. I miss him dearly, but don't have any plans to get a new pet anytime soon.
I think it was here that someone asked yesterday- panorama both times took exactly one week from the day they received the sample (if you draw on Friday, it may not go out until Monday, FYI
Baby is the size of a(n): jalapeno (thanks @galentine I was too lazy to look it up)
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out. will call Dr tomorrow, it's been a week, I've waited
Upcoming Appointments: April 17th
How are you feeling?: fine. Wish I didn't gorge on junk food in the evenings after putting the kids to bed, though.
Rants/Raves: Stupid brain rant: I've had to supplement with formula with both kids; with DD1 I switched to formula after 2 months because I had no idea how to pump and with DD2 I pumped at work, supplemented when needed with formula and BF at home for 12m+. And no matter how many times I tell myself that whatever amount of milk I can manage is the perfect amount and formula is absolutely amazing I still feel like a bit of a let down in that aspect. So now that my boobs feel fuller and are kinda reminding me of how I felt while BFing I'm all hopeful that maybe this time my body won't have supply issues. Of all the things to get hung up on...
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! I had 4 ball pythons until about 3 weeks ago. I'd had them since I was 12, so 25 years. I surrendered them to a reptile sanctuary (and paid them a lot of money to house them) because I was just not doing them justice. As sad as I thought I'd be, when I saw the cages and great conditions the reptile facility offered their animals I was just relieved. And it still feels that way. When I do work around the house and am like "oh F*ck the snakes need food/water/etc" I am so happy I didn't forget to take care of another living being.
How are you feeling?: Still run down by the end of day but mostly feeling better.
Rants/Raves: So we finally told the kids on Fri night. It was very unexciting. Niece didn't hint to having known and turned BRIGHT red once she figured out what I was saying to DS. DS was pretty slow on catching on. Now he just yells "wake up baby" at my belly whenever we are snuggling. I'm wondering how long it will take him to tell daycare as he didn't want to yesterday lol.
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! We have 2 cats, 1 dog, and a Guinea pig. My cat is old and cranky but adores me and DS. DH's cat is a total smart ass (in furry form) and is always causing trouble. But then will quickly turn Into the most lovey thing on earth. Our dog is a mutt who is for sure smarter then he let's on. He's such a baby but has a big bark and is a great protector (especially when I'm preg). Then out Guinea is pretty much what you'd expect in a rodent. With an INTENSE love of tomatoes.
My kitty
Dh's
Pooch
And the Guinea (who is probably 2x this size now....)
@melanier26 isn’t it interesting that experiments like that were acceptable when we were kids but wouldn’t fly now? I’m not going to say that I’m attached to our goldfish but we do try to make them comfortable haha.
@stephanie123456 and @galentine thank you for the support. I know I’m probably getting close to the end of it, it just seems like eternity since I’ve felt well.
@melanier26 yes, it is very classic cat behavior. But mine is nothing like that. Shes always been very chill but obviously more so in her old age. He's only a year or so younger but still acts like a kitten most times.
Baby is the size of a(n): lime or a ping pong ball
FTM/STM/TTM+: fourth time mom
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: green
Upcoming Appointments: 4/26
How are you feeling?: I have a horrible sinus infection and cough but pregnancy wise, I feel great.
Rants/Raves: None this week
Questions: None this week
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! We have 3 dogs, A yellow lab named Moose who is literally the laziest sweetest dog ever. I’ve seriously never seen a lab puppy (he’s only 8 months old) so lazy and laid back. We also have 2 Corgis, Maggie and Annie who are wild, crazy, so basically just typical Corgis. We also have 3 rabbits that are our kids 4H showing pets named Bingo, Cupcake, and Rainbow.
@emily1052, @theglitteredpterodactyl & @melanier26 thank you ladies for the encouragement. I got to sleep in this morning and it was just glorious! Maybe I should actually use more sick days, lol 🤷♀️
ETA tag for @emily1052, but when I went back it was still there? So confused.
Me: 41 / Fiance: 35 + One DS, one dog & two kitties...
First BFP: 1/17/16 = EDD 9/21/16 (MMC)
Second BFP: 6/24/16 (CP)
Third BFP: 2/7/17 = EDD 10/20/17 🌈 *** BORN 10/23 *** 🌈
Re: All Group Check-In W/O 4/01
Baby is the size of a(n): Eastern tailed-blue butterfly or a pecan
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: GREEN!
Upcoming Appointments: 4/10 to discuss bloodwork results from my 1st appointment, and do more bloodwork, I guess.
How are you feeling?: Starting to get a lot better, nausea-wise, but now I'm in a phase where I sort of have to remind myself to eat. Nothing I see really looks appetizing, so I'm having to make myself eat good food. I am also still sleeping about 11 hrs a night and am tired after one activity for the day.
Baby is the size of a(n): a lemon!
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Team Blue 💙💙
Upcoming Appointments: 4/18 for our 16 week check up.
How are you feeling?: Lots of RLP the last few days. Having a little bit more energy during the day but exhausted by 8pm. Starting to feel a bit more emotional.... crying and such.
Rants/Raves: it’s Monday and I wanted to sleep in. Next week our whole office is going on a trip so I won’t have to work!
Questions: na
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! I love this question!! Can’t wait to hear all about yours!!
We have 3 wonderful rescue dogs!
Buddy was DH dog before we got together so he is the OG. He is getting older so he enjoys sitting in his chair (yes, he has his own chair) and making sure there isn’t any funny business. He loves going for walks and will come and tell you when it’s dinner time.
We got Grace 4 years ago from a shelter. She runs off of love and has an obsession for tennis balls. She is definitely my sidekick and won’t leave the bedroom in the morning until I leave the room.
We found Nolan a year and a half ago. *TW It was right after our miscarriage otherwise I don’t think DH would have let me keep him. I needed this pup as much as he needed us! He is, by far, the most spoiled of them all and is such a cuddler!!
We also have 30 chickens but I won’t name all them. Pictures of the pups in the spoiler. Buddy is the black one, Grace is the big white one, and Nolan is the little guy ❤️❤️❤️
Oct 6 -- 13w1d
Baby is the size of a(n):
Jalapeno! 🌶
FTM/STM/TTM+:
FTM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green:
Girl 💖
Upcoming Appointments:
Next one is at 16w
How are you feeling?:
Pretty great! My nausea is gone. Now just hoping the insomnia and exhaustion goes away soon, too 🤞🤞
Rants/Raves:
No rants, but LOTS of raves today!
-I'm wearing maternity pants for the first time ever and HALLELUJAH are they heavenly! So comfy!
-I told all my aunts and uncles this weekend! Everyone was pretty excited. We also shared the baby's sex with both immediate families.
-I'm telling work this week. I'm terrified of everyone knowing, should something go wrong. But as my H keeps reminding me, my anxiety probably isn't going to go away before my belly gives me away, so I should just be brave and jump in. I'm scared, but also excited to be out in the open!
Questions:
Not today
GTKY: Tell us about your pets!
I have one fur baby, a high energy Australian Shepherd. She is a total spaz and I love her to death despite her inability to chill. Her favorite things include: treats, playing fetch for 153736 hours, and stealing every single sock out of the laundry hamper.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 10/3 so I’m 13 weeks and 4 days
Baby is the size of a(n): Lemon (supposedly I don’t feel like I’m that big yet)
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: We find out in a couple weeks!
Upcoming Appointments: Apr 22nd as long as the blood work from today went fine I suppose.
How are you feeling? Pretty good actually. No nausea, not as tired.
Rants/Raves: I just want cake, nothing tastes good anymore, and I am hungry almost all the time.
Questions: How long did you guys wait to get your NIPT blood test results back? I had mine this morning.
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! We recently had to rehome our pup. I miss him dearly but the couple that adopted him are just wonderful people, so I know he’s doing well. Right now we are pet less and I’d like to keep it that way for a while. I’m not ready for another pet and with another baby coming I think its poor timing, for me at least because I can be a scatterbrain.
@galentine So exciting that you got to tell extended family last weekend. Did you do a special gender reveal for them? Good luck telling work. It actually feels really good when you're totally, completely public!
@emily1052 30 chickens??!! I forget if you live in a rural area or a city? Urban chicken farming has become kind of a huge trend in my neighborhood. I don't think it's for me, but I am totally intrigued by it.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 10/13, 12w 1d
Baby is the size of a(n): hard boiled egg
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out
Upcoming Appointments: HAD ONE TODAY!!!
How are you feeling?: Anxiety was squashed today with good news! Physically, I am still exhausted at night, have to pee 84576891 times a day, and my sense of smell is still off the charts.
Rants/Raves: No rants. Just raving about how awesome my OB is. I didn't have a scheduled ultrasound today, but when I mentioned some minor spotting she was like "Lets just do a quick sono to check." I knew she wasn't worried in the slightest, but it was early and the office was not busy. So YAY!, I got to see baby and it was amazing. He/she was moving like crazy--like pushing off with it's legs and sliding back down, over and over like it was just playing around. So fun. Strong heartbeat, too. Feeling comfortable with the fact that we've told so many family and friends lately about the news.
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! No current pets. I grew up with a cat named Pickles. And had a pug in my 20s. I'm kind of obsessed with pugs and smushed-face dogs. But we probably won't get one until our kids are old enough to help.
FTM/STM/TTM+: stm, I’ve got a 3 1/2 year old
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: team gender creative parenting
Upcoming Appointments: I should probably schedule one? I was getting bounced between high risk and regular maternity so I got a little confused
How are you feeling?: actually fairly good! Sneezing a storm but my bump is cute, my tits are sore and I’m feeling mellow and pregnant which is nice. I think it’s just birthday magic and I’ll go back to being a hot mess tomorrow lol
Rants/Raves: it’s my birthday! And my partner & toddler are currently making me pancakes so woo hoo!
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! I have one dog, Lyra, who is turning 13 this month. I’ve had her literally since she was born. We adopted her mom when she was pregnant when I was a senior in high school and my mom ended up being out of town with a family emergency when the dog delivered. My sister and I took over the whole thing and I got to raise and train 8 adorable puppies. It was an incredible experience and I got an amazing dog out of it. Sharing my all time favorite photo of her with my little one from way back in the day. We also have a cat, Sophie, who is turning 14 this year. We’re not cat people and basically took her as a favor to my mom (long obnoxious story) but the kiddo loves the cat and I have a friend who visits often and loves her as well.
Baby is the size of a(n): guitar pick
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out ASAP!
Upcoming Appointments: Thursday with MFM
How are you feeling?: nauseous and tired. Mostly useless at work and home.
Rants/Raves: Everything is kinda blah right now. Not getting too excited or down about anything. Just praying to feel better soon.
Questions: none
GTKY: Tell us about your pets!
We we have two dogs, a 5 year old black lab mix named Finn and a 2 year old Siberian Husky named Kai. They are super loyal and great with our kids. We also got 3 goldfish for our kids 6 months ago that we fully expected to have died by now and now aren’t sure how long we are going to have fish haha.
Baby is the size of a(n): strawberry
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out soon!
Upcoming Appointments: had one this morning! We got to see little bean waving at us and hear the heartbeat. All the scary things from my last ultrasounds (SCH, empty sac) were gone so I’ve graduated to monthly appointments. Also had the blood draw for the NIPT.
How are you feeling?: so gross. DD brought home some sort of cold last week and I’m battling that on top of the nausea and vomiting. I normally wouldn’t stay home from work for a cold, but I did today because I don’t want to risk this getting worse.
Rants/Raves: Everything just tastes wrong. I miss enjoying food.
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets!
None now. I had a cat growing up and would have pestered DH for a cat a long time ago but he’s allergic. We’ll get a dog when the kids are older.
@junebabyh we live in town but we have an acre of land so that’s why we can have so many. I grew up on a farm so I always knew I’d have some sort of livestock.
@galentine I am also a huge fan of maternity pants!! So glad you’re getting comfy!!
@theglitteredpterodactyl happy Birthday again! I hope those birthday pancakes are delicious!!
@quidditchcapn1120 I had a goldfish when I was younger...we done some sort of experiment on them in school (how cruel?! I think it was just like cold water vs warm water or something but still) and I didn’t expect it to live long but I had that thing for many years
Baby is the size of a(n): eastern butterfly something or other
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Green
Upcoming Appointments: Next week! I’ve been anxious so I’m hoping for the reassurance of at least the doppler.
How are you feeling?: Better today! Still tired but not nauseous. I’m even going to the gym with MH tonight 😱 can’t wait to get back to normal. Well pregnancy normal anyways.
Rants/Raves: I want to stick to team green but seeing everyone announce their babies sex gets me all excited and makes me wonder what we are having! I just keep telling myself that it truly won’t change anything by knowing because we have everything we need and I really will be super excited for boy or girl. Be strong damnit!
Questions: Nah
GTKY: Tell us about your pets!
16 year old long haired daschund named Diego, best dog in the world, he’s been an old man since he was a puppy and I love it.
5 year old big old fluffy black persian cat named monkey, one of the neediest but sassiest cats ever. Wants cuddles and food at all times.
@emily1052 Love your pups name (it's also DS' name )
@galentine Yay for all of the happy things this past weekend!! I feel ya on telling work... it's almost like the fear of "the more people you tell, the more likely something bad will happen". I'm feeling it too a little.
@Cass005 Yummm cake 🍰
@junebabyh Same here about the peeing and sense of smell! Hoping it gets better for you.
@theglitteredpterodactyl Happy Birthday! 🎈
@quidditchcapn1120 Ugh to not feeling well... hang in there!!
@greenbean-2 Yay for graduating to monthly appointments. Such good news that things have resolved.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 10/14 - 12 weeks today
Baby is the size of a(n): jelly donut hole or a plum
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM (DS is 4.5)
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out
Upcoming Appointments: Tomorrow for NIPT/NT scan, Wednesday for 12 week OB
How are you feeling?: Meh... still the same. Pretty okay except for tummy issues.
Rants/Raves: I HAVE TWO APPOINTMENTS THIS WEEK!! Other than that, no real rants/raves. It's "Monday Funday" at my office today and we are supposed to be having a pasta food truck.
Questions: nope
GTKY: We have one pup, Nugget. He is a German Shepherd-Chow mix (or "Shapow" as I like to call it) and 100lbs of pure love. We got him from the shelter when he was six-weeks old and he's 10 now. We seriously got lucky with him because he is the most chill, relaxed dog ever, and is so good with DS.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
Baby is the size of a(n): ripe apricot
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: 2 weeks from today, I can’t wait
How are you feeling?: today good, knock on wood. Yesterday was terrible and I cried before bed to DH bc i was so sick of feeling terrible. I guess the universe heard me
Rants/Raves:
Rants
-DS sleeps in our bed but we finally put together his twin bed yesterday. He was so excited to sleep in it...then woke up at 1:30 and wouldn’t stop crying until I laid with him. So I was awake a lot, and feeling like shit, and just wanting to be in my own bed 😩
-I’m so hungry. And so tired of eating. I’m craving like...dinner food too, not snacks, but haven’t been cooking much. So I end up eating crappy frozen food, and then not eating enough bc I’m tired of eating, and then I get so nauseous
-FIL is going thru chemo and has been in the hospital with a fever since Thursday. They can’t figure out what’s causing it and said it “could be viral and take 2-3 weeks to go away”. I’m going to call my dr but I’m terrified of getting a fever and don’t want to have to avoid him for that long
Raves
-DS has been so helpful lately. He helped DS with a lot yesterday and today has helped me wash and fold laundry today. He’s so eager to help and it’s so fun to see him accepting responsibility
-We went to a birthday party on Saturday and they had a brunch buffet. I’ve been day dreaming about the food ever since. It was so good
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! We have a 5 year old mutt named Penny. Our son adores her and always gives her kisses and tells her how cute she is 🥰 She’s coming around to him a lot more the older he gets. She was a little iffy about him when he was younger but she loves him and is so good with him (picture behind the spoiler)
@emily1052, your pups are sooooo cute!! 😍
@Cass005, oooh what kind of cake? I want cake now! 🎂
@junebabyh, yay for a great appointment and squashed anxiety!
@theglitteredpterodactyl, your dog sounds so sweet!
@quidditchcapn1120, I hope you feel better soon! ❤ For what it's worth, you are right around the time I started to feel better! Hopefully you do too, soon!
@greenbean-2, yay for seeing a happy healthy bean today!
@Schumerator, good luck at the gym! I worked out exactly 3 times in all of the first trimester. 🙊
@stephanie123456, I love that you call your dog a shapow 😂😂
Baby is the size of a(n): Er... I’m really bad with these
FTM/STM/TTM+: 3rd
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: green
Upcoming Appointments: 4/17 is the 16w app. A/S on 5/2
How are you feeling?: sick and tired of being sick and tired
Rants/Raves: the same old. Pregnancy sucks for me
Questions: nada
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! No pets. Not a pet person
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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@galentine Good luck telling work people! I was anxious for the exact same reasons but I have to tell you, it felt so good to let everyone know! I'm sure it will be the same for you.
@theglitteredpterodactyl Happy Birthday!!
@greenbean-2 I'm so glad your appointment went well and the previous scary stuff is behind you now!
@melanier26 So sorry to hear about your FIL. Hopefully he is feeling better soon.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 10/7, 13+0
Baby is the size of a(n): Daisy
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out, and hopefully ASAP (see rant)
Upcoming Appointments: Not until 4/19
How are you feeling?: The nausea simply won't quit. I'm honestly pretty annoyed at this point! Keep hoping I'll turn the corner.
Rants/Raves: So I am pretty sure my NIPT results are in (been 10 calendar days since the blood draw.) I saw in the portal that they billed it to my insurance and when I called my OB's office the receptionist looked it up and said "Oh yes, let me see if a nurse is available to talk to you." Of course no one was so they are supposed to call me back. But that was FIVE HOURS AGO! Argh.
Questions: Nada
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! Two cats for us. We both want a dog but our travel schedules have made it tough to commit. The long haired gray one in the picture is Oscar, DH's cat that he's had for 13 years now. He's a big old cuddle bug. The smaller, short haired gray is Callie. We got her a year and a half ago from the shelter. She is my baby - I work from home when not traveling and she spends all day in my office with me, sleeps on me at night, etc. They are both spoiled rotten and embarrass us with their poor manners when we have guests!
@melanier26 So sorry to hear about FIL. Hope the fever passes soon for his sake and yours.
@galentine Love your Easter Egg Roulette game! So cute (and extra special about your nephew!)
@stephanie123456 Pasta Food Truck is my dream. Give me allllll the carbs please.
@theglitteredpterodactyl Happy Birthday!!!
@Schumerator I totally support you waiting! It is hard, but it's worth it 100%. We are finding out this time for a couple of reasons, but waited with DS2 and it really was an incredible surprise when he was born. I kind of wish DH was more into being team green, b/c I'd jump the finding out boat in a heartbeat.
@jenferlee82, uggghhh how frustrating about your NIPT results! I hope to see a good news update from you in the NIPT thread later today! 🤞
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
Baby is the size of a(n): Lime or sorbet scoop.
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM (17 mo DS)
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Team Pink!
Upcoming Appointments: 4/19 for OB follow up with doppler.
How are you feeling?: Super lousy still. I'm having some good days but the last couple I've had body aches and general inflammation. Sooo constipated still. Super exhausted with total mommy insomnia (I swear I wake up if DS breathes too loudly in his room with the door closed).
Rants/Raves: Rant: this one may be petty but DS is teething, again, so he didn't sleep last night and of course then neither did I past 2 am. I asked SO if he could call in a favor with his parents to watch him today as well as the scheduled tomorrow. He wouldn't ask them this morning and I told him then not to bother since that's the hard part of taking care of him. Evening SO is back home and can help, overnight may suck or it may not. He called a little while ago to say he's going to ask them to take him overnight so "we" can get some sleep, ya know, despite the fact SO was snoring every time I checked, but says he didn't sleep either. No matter for me taking on an extra whiney, extra poopy (extra saliva from the teething) baby while not feeling good, on no sleep. Instead I guess I'm just going to waste a sick day tomorrow I think.
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets!
Baby is the size of a(n): Chicken Nugget
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding Out (hopefully by this time next week!)
Upcoming Appointments: Not until 4/26. Feels like forever away.
How are you feeling?: Doing better overall. Nausea has been tapering off, but not gone completely. Headaches are still annoying me along with the pregnancy rhinitis (I'm so tired of sniffling and sneezing!). Energy level seems to have improved so that's nice!
Rants/Raves: Rave: We're going cabin camping this weekend with friends. We've been going with essentially the same group for over 15 years. We usually do yurts, but this year it's cabins. We have a snack competition and it's a ton of fun. Can't wait! Rant: Our NIPT results aren't expected back until after our weekend away and I was hoping to be able to share the news. At least it should be fairly easy to hide the fact that I'm not drinking.
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! No pets currently. Our furbaby kitty passed away last summer. I miss him dearly, but don't have any plans to get a new pet anytime soon.
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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Baby is the size of a(n): jalapeno (thanks @galentine I was too lazy to look it up)
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding out. will call Dr tomorrow, it's been a week, I've waited
Upcoming Appointments: April 17th
How are you feeling?: fine. Wish I didn't gorge on junk food in the evenings after putting the kids to bed, though.
Rants/Raves: Stupid brain rant: I've had to supplement with formula with both kids; with DD1 I switched to formula after 2 months because I had no idea how to pump and with DD2 I pumped at work, supplemented when needed with formula and BF at home for 12m+. And no matter how many times I tell myself that whatever amount of milk I can manage is the perfect amount and formula is absolutely amazing I still feel like a bit of a let down in that aspect. So now that my boobs feel fuller and are kinda reminding me of how I felt while BFing I'm all hopeful that maybe this time my body won't have supply issues. Of all the things to get hung up on...
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! I had 4 ball pythons until about 3 weeks ago. I'd had them since I was 12, so 25 years. I surrendered them to a reptile sanctuary (and paid them a lot of money to house them) because I was just not doing them justice. As sad as I thought I'd be, when I saw the cages and great conditions the reptile facility offered their animals I was just relieved. And it still feels that way. When I do work around the house and am like "oh F*ck the snakes need food/water/etc" I am so happy I didn't forget to take care of another living being.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 10/23 so 10+5
Baby is the size of a(n): Baby sea turtle shell today
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM sorta...
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Finding out
Upcoming Appointments: Prenatal teaching appt today.
How are you feeling?: Still run down by the end of day but mostly feeling better.
Rants/Raves: So we finally told the kids on Fri night. It was very unexciting. Niece didn't hint to having known and turned BRIGHT red once she figured out what I was saying to DS. DS was pretty slow on catching on. Now he just yells "wake up baby" at my belly whenever we are snuggling. I'm wondering how long it will take him to tell daycare as he didn't want to yesterday lol.
Questions:
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! We have 2 cats, 1 dog, and a Guinea pig. My cat is old and cranky but adores me and DS. DH's cat is a total smart ass (in furry form) and is always causing trouble. But then will quickly turn Into the most lovey thing on earth. Our dog is a mutt who is for sure smarter then he let's on. He's such a baby but has a big bark and is a great protector (especially when I'm preg). Then out Guinea is pretty much what you'd expect in a rodent. With an INTENSE love of tomatoes.
My kitty
Dh's
Pooch
And the Guinea (who is probably 2x this size now....)
@stephanie123456 and @galentine thank you for the support. I know I’m probably getting close to the end of it, it just seems like eternity since I’ve felt well.
Baby is the size of a(n): lime or a ping pong ball
FTM/STM/TTM+: fourth time mom
Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: green
Upcoming Appointments: 4/26
How are you feeling?: I have a horrible sinus infection and cough but pregnancy wise, I feel great.
Rants/Raves: None this week
Questions: None this week
GTKY: Tell us about your pets! We have 3 dogs, A yellow lab named Moose who is literally the laziest sweetest dog ever. I’ve seriously never seen a lab puppy (he’s only 8 months old) so lazy and laid back. We also have 2 Corgis, Maggie and Annie who are wild, crazy, so basically just typical Corgis. We also have 3 rabbits that are our kids 4H showing pets named Bingo, Cupcake, and Rainbow.