Decided to be try to reintroduce some dairy, because I am really having trouble finding anything I want to eat. Had a bagel and cream cheese about an hour and a half ago, and so far, so good. I'm feeling considerably less nauseated overall, so hopefully the lactose intolerance was really more of a morning sickness trigger than an independent issue. We'll see soon enough, I guess!
My computer hates me today. Since it's the 1st, I have several reports to run and print. They are running fine. But there is a huuuuge time delay in printing. I'm going crazy....
I had to call our insurance company with a question about our coverage, not related to pregnancy/OBGYN at all. At the end of the call the (male) rep asks if I had any more questions and then I expect the typical “thank you for choosing (company name), have a great day”. Instead he goes “okay just so you know you are eligible to be covered for a Pap smear”. I was so caught off guard. So. awkward.
@emily1052 Happy Birthday Month! @steminist That's great news! Fingers crossed that you're past it and can enjoy dairy again. @prpl11butterfly I'm in Report Hell right now too, trying to finish all of my EOM stuff. Hate the first day of the month! @melanier26 Ummm yeah, super awkward. Also very funny, I LOL'd when I read it. @galentine Yay!! They really are the best, it's a game changer when you put them on the first time!
As for me, I'm sitting here on back to back conference calls trying not to get annoyed by the sounds of my husband and FIL in our basement framing out our unfinished area. We have to finish it out because between my office and the nursery we'll no longer have a guest room. I'm super excited for the finished product but on Day 4 of the noise it's starting to get old!
As of tomorrow, I'll be completely weaned off any medication other than vitamins. I feel great for doing this for my babe and accomplished that I haven't gone crazy (yet) That said, my fibromyalgia is killing. me. Any other fibro mamas have pregnancy friendly solutions?
Ugh, I hate the management company that is in charge of our townhouse complex. We always have plumbing issues with leaking and whatnot in our downstairs parking garage and I noticed a leak last week (and kind of hoped someone else would report it because I effing hate calling the mgmt company). Well, it got worse yesterday so I decided to call today when the office was open. The associate who took my call was just b****y, and it makes me super frustrated because the common area stuff is their responsibility and I'll just letting them know before we have ANOTHER full-blown pipe burst.
TTC #1: September 2013, BFP 01/01/14, DS 09/14 TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
It’s my birthday today! (Even if no one believes me because, well, April fools 🤣). That’s my random. I woke up feeling really great and happy and ready to take on the world. Hello beginning of the second trimester perhaps??? One can only hope.
@steminist I was thinking of you this weekend as I struggled to figure out what I wanted to eat and realized the only things I was gravitating toward were dairy items. I hope that is over for you!
Thanks, all! Still feeling totally fine, so I'm optimistic. I know it's only been a few weeks, and I really shouldn't complain about something so relatively minor, but I am super excited that this is looking like it's a phase I'm past!
@emily1052 after an awkward pause I was like “okay...I’ll talk to my doctor about it” How do you even respond to that?? lol
@steminist I’ve had issues with dairy ever since my last pregnancy. I’ve been having some here and there but it’s hard to say if it causes issues since I’ve been nauseous, but assume it’s morning sickness? I guess I should probably wait until the MS passes. But I miss dairy 😩
It’s my birthday today! (Even if no one believes me because, well, April fools 🤣). That’s my random. I woke up feeling really great and happy and ready to take on the world. Hello beginning of the second trimester perhaps??? One can only hope.
For those of you who remember the MIL "gems" I shared from when we announced we were pregnant, I have more gems from this weekend! We mailed the in-laws some scratch off cards from Etsy like the one in the spoiler (not my info)
In-laws received the cards this weekend, so we skyped them while they scratched them off. Multiple gems came out of our 20 minute Skype sesh:
-MIL proceeded to tell me I could find out the "gender" of the baby by peeing on some solution of baking soda and....(not sure what else because I was tuning her out at this point, as FIL started scratching his card off behind her while she was babbling. I can't believe he didn't wait!! 😳) Nevermind that I already know the sex (not gender!) due to an actual blood test. No peeing on weird solutions required.
-MIL finds out it's a girl and says, "It's not a boy?! Oh, that's ok, you'll just have to have another."
-MIL says, "Oh look, I'm wearing pink! I guess I should have worn blue...."
-MIL asked AGAIN if this pregnancy was "expected"
Y'all. I seriously deserve an award or something because I didn't say a single unkind word. I may have had this look on my face few times, though. Ok, maybe the whole time.
In cuter news though, my 3 year old nephew had a great gem too. I reminded him there was a baby in my belly and asked if he thought it was a boy or a girl. He thought about it really hard for a minute and said, "I think..... I think it's a dog."
@Schumerator, we both generally shrug off her comments because we know she doesn't mean anything malicious, even if her comments are incredibly misguided. I did tell him, though, that the next time she insinuates this pregnancy was unplanned/unexpected/unwanted, I will politely set her straight. This baby is very much wanted, and "planned" as much as you can plan these things. We are in our thirties, both have great jobs, own a home, are financially stable and debt-free, etc. There is absolutely no reason she should be insinuating we would be anything other than thrilled for a baby. I will have no problem politely telling her it's hurtful when she repeatedly asks if "this was a surprise" and to please not ask again.
@galentine I gotcha, that would for sure grate on me so I’m all for you setting this woman straight 😂 I also just can’t stand when people have such a preference over what sex YOUR baby is. And maybe you guys will be one and done, she doesn’t know! Anyways, proud of you for handling her comments well lol
@galentine I am AMAZED at your willpower! Especially on the "you'll just have another." UGH!!!
And maybe you will have another GIRL. And another after that. It's not like you can put in an order for one or the other. (insert rolling eye emoji here since I am not on mobile at the moment)
@galentine I am AMAZED at your willpower! Especially on the "you'll just have another." UGH!!!
And maybe you will have another GIRL. And another after that. It's not like you can put in an order for one or the other. (insert rolling eye emoji here since I am not on mobile at the moment)
Right?! It's not like we can control what sex the baby is!
If we have another girl someday, I'll have to remind MIL of the kindergarten mantra, "You get what you get and you don't throw a fit."
@galentine Thank you!! I am so excited, I can't get over it. And terrified. Haha. It'll be fun to prepare for our girls together.
I totally agree on the BMB thing. I actually thought we must be having a boy since the scales were tipping so far for the girls in that thread! (Crazy theory I know.)
@jenferlee82, I didn't want to comment on the sex thread and clog it up, but it's super cute you think your H secretly wanted a girl even though he would never say so 💖
I know my H would have been excited for a boy too, but he has been super adorable since he found out it's a girl. He's been telling me he wants to learn how to tie a ponytail, and he started a list of projects/things he wants to make for a daughter, like a dollhouse shaped bookshelf. And we were rewatching The Office (as per our usual 😂) and the "take your daughter to work day" episode came on..... let's just say someone in our house got very misty eyed and said, "I'm going to get to do that with our daughter!" (And spoiler alert... it wasn't me!) Be still my heart! 💖
@sammygirl18 happy birthday, birthday twin! Hope you’re having a great day 😊
@galentine you are way more patient and kind than I would be! I was amazed at how many people asked if my first was unplanned. Like, strangers on the bus. How is that turning into a common question?!?
So excited to finally be going in tomorrow for my NT scan and NIPT. Can't wait to know if this LO is a boy or girl. At first I thought it might be another boy for me, but something in my intuition has changed and I think it might be a girl (as if that has anything to do with it).
@galentine I was just going to say that before coming over here! H and I have both been thinking girl for us since this pregnancy has been so different but now I’m like it’s probably a boy due to odds 😆 I’ve also heard a couple people recently who said they had totally different pregnancies and had the same sex both times, so I guess that’s out the window!
Chinese gender predictor chart says boy. Yes yes I know they are just for fun, but I always look it up 🤭
@Schumerator I don’t have a feeling either way but I’ve been wondering too if it’s a girl because this pregnancy has been so different than with my son. Chinese gender predictor says boy for me too though...it said that with DS too so we’ll see 🤷🏼♀️
Re: Weekly Randoms 4/1
@emily1052 happy birthday month!
@steminist oh I hope for your sake that's all it was. I had to go dairy free while nursing DS and it was soo soo sad...
@steminist I really hope you’re over the dairy intolerance! Good idea taking it slow.
@prpl11butterfly I’m feeling your “start of month” pain. Hope your computer and printer start playing nice... for the printers sake 😏
@emily1052 Happy Birthday Month!
@steminist That's great news! Fingers crossed that you're past it and can enjoy dairy again.
@prpl11butterfly I'm in Report Hell right now too, trying to finish all of my EOM stuff. Hate the first day of the month!
@melanier26 Ummm yeah, super awkward. Also very funny, I LOL'd when I read it.
@galentine Yay!! They really are the best, it's a game changer when you put them on the first time!
As for me, I'm sitting here on back to back conference calls trying not to get annoyed by the sounds of my husband and FIL in our basement framing out our unfinished area. We have to finish it out because between my office and the nursery we'll no longer have a guest room. I'm super excited for the finished product but on Day 4 of the noise it's starting to get old!
10/17/13 - DS (w/ ex)
6/2/18 - Married DH
8/25/18 - BFP #2
9/2/18 - MC at 6w
2/25/19 - BFP #3 (LMP 1/19, EDD 10/26)
2/25 Beta #1 3300; 2/27 Beta #2 6700; 3/1 Beta #3 12,100
Please stick little rainbow baby!
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
@melanier26 I seriously lol’d 😂 I don’t even know how I would respond to something like that!!
@stephanie123456 ugh, that sucks. People in customer relations positions should at least try and act nice.
@emily1052 after an awkward pause I was like “okay...I’ll talk to my doctor about it” How do you even respond to that?? lol
@steminist I’ve had issues with dairy ever since my last pregnancy. I’ve been having some here and there but it’s hard to say if it causes issues since I’ve been nauseous, but assume it’s morning sickness? I guess I should probably wait until the MS passes. But I miss dairy 😩
In-laws received the cards this weekend, so we skyped them while they scratched them off. Multiple gems came out of our 20 minute Skype sesh:
-MIL proceeded to tell me I could find out the "gender" of the baby by peeing on some solution of baking soda and....(not sure what else because I was tuning her out at this point, as FIL started scratching his card off behind her while she was babbling. I can't believe he didn't wait!! 😳) Nevermind that I already know the sex (not gender!) due to an actual blood test. No peeing on weird solutions required.
-MIL finds out it's a girl and says, "It's not a boy?! Oh, that's ok, you'll just have to have another."
-MIL says, "Oh look, I'm wearing pink! I guess I should have worn blue...."
-MIL asked AGAIN if this pregnancy was "expected"
Y'all. I seriously deserve an award or something because I didn't say a single unkind word. I may have had this look on my face few times, though. Ok, maybe the whole time.
10/17/13 - DS (w/ ex)
6/2/18 - Married DH
8/25/18 - BFP #2
9/2/18 - MC at 6w
2/25/19 - BFP #3 (LMP 1/19, EDD 10/26)
2/25 Beta #1 3300; 2/27 Beta #2 6700; 3/1 Beta #3 12,100
Please stick little rainbow baby!
Also:
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
HX
DSD: 17
DS: 4(Nov'14)
MMC:8/17
MMC: 1/18
BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19
Tickers
If we have another girl someday, I'll have to remind MIL of the kindergarten mantra, "You get what you get and you don't throw a fit."
Is it just me, or is Oct BMB a little heavy on girls so far??
I totally agree on the BMB thing. I actually thought we must be having a boy since the scales were tipping so far for the girls in that thread! (Crazy theory I know.)
I know my H would have been excited for a boy too, but he has been super adorable since he found out it's a girl. He's been telling me he wants to learn how to tie a ponytail, and he started a list of projects/things he wants to make for a daughter, like a dollhouse shaped bookshelf. And we were rewatching The Office (as per our usual 😂) and the "take your daughter to work day" episode came on..... let's just say someone in our house got very misty eyed and said, "I'm going to get to do that with our daughter!" (And spoiler alert... it wasn't me!) Be still my heart! 💖
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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I’ll just be Team Blue over here all by myself 🤣
@galentine I agree, you deserve a medal!! I’m so glad you and your H don’t let it get to you!
@sammygirl18 happy birthday!!!
@galentine you are way more patient and kind than I would be! I was amazed at how many people asked if my first was unplanned. Like, strangers on the bus. How is that turning into a common question?!?
@emily1052 The lone wolf right now.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
Chinese gender predictor chart says boy. Yes yes I know they are just for fun, but I always look it up 🤭