April ART - new to group, old to ART

knottie18642564a0ef0726

Hi, I’m new to this forum, although I have a long history of TTC and ART. My eggs were written off by one RE and I was told I should only consider further treatment if using DE, and then another RE told me it’s too soon to consider DE. I’m 40yrs old so both could be true.
New RE has me on a monitored cycle with Lentrazole/Femara in april before a uterine scratch in May and then ICSI in June. DE after that. 
Most of my friends have had their kids already, or fall pregnant super easily (one of my closest friends just got through her first trimester) so I’m lacking TTC support at the moment which is why I’ve joined the group