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All Group Check-In W/O 3/25

elle-0409elle-0409 member
in October 2019 Moms
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days:

Baby is the size of a(n):

FTM/STM/TTM+:

Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green:

Upcoming Appointments:

How are you feeling?:

Rants/Raves: 

Questions: 

GTKY: What was the most memorable gift you’ve received?
TTC History
Me: 38 DH: 52
Started trying June 2018
BFP Jan 2019 DD born October 2019
TTC July 2021 BFP, ended in MMC August 2021
TTC October 2021
BFP January 2022
MMC March 2022
Beginning May 2022 under the supervision of an RE - Benched while undergoing testing




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  • galentinegalentine member
    @prpl11butterfly, how sweet of your aunt to plan ahead with a baby blanket for you. That's really special ❤❤
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  • ineedsixeggsineedsixeggs member
    @galentine LOVE IT.  :D

    @steminist Yes, no actual pepto bismol intake over here. Unfortunately.
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  • mrsinterwebmrsinterweb member
    @steminist those ornaments sound amazing. I adore vintage Christmas decor! And yay for hearing the heartbeat today!!

    @jenferlee82 glad you were cleared from bed rest. That’s great news!

    @stephanie123456 yay for Disneyland! How fun! And now I really want a churro!!

    @prpl11butterfly how sweet that your aunt made you a blanket years before. That is so touching. 
    *TW in Spoiler*BabyFetus Ticker

    Me 39 - DH 41

    Married 8/26/07

    TTGP #1 Jan '15 - 

         BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16

    TTGP #2 July '17 -

         CP July '17

         Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17

         CP June '18

         BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19

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  • cmbt2cmbt2 member
    @jane101757 the switch is at 13w3d, actually 🙈
    BFP #1 3/07, EDD 11/12/07, MMC 5/7/07
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
    BFP #3 8/19/16, EDD 4/30/17, DS2 4/25/17
    BFP #4 12/22/18, EDD 9/6/19 - CP 12/29/18
    BFP #5 1/18/19, EDD 10/3/19, It’s a Girl!
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    High Risk Dx (6/14):  Homozygous MTHFR C677T, protein C & S deficiencies
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  • JenPyndussJenPynduss member
    My first appointment is tomorrow too! My EDD is 10/23. I feel like I’ve been waiting foreverrrd!

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  • cmbt2cmbt2 member
    @emily1052 Zantac and Pepcid are class B. I was on Zantac with DS1, but needed prevacid (class C) with DS2
    BFP #1 3/07, EDD 11/12/07, MMC 5/7/07
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
    BFP #3 8/19/16, EDD 4/30/17, DS2 4/25/17
    BFP #4 12/22/18, EDD 9/6/19 - CP 12/29/18
    BFP #5 1/18/19, EDD 10/3/19, It’s a Girl!
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    High Risk Dx (6/14):  Homozygous MTHFR C677T, protein C & S deficiencies
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  • grapeskittles4lyfegrapeskittles4lyfe member
    Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: Oct 6th

    Baby is the size of a(n): Plum

    FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: finding outtttt. Now that the blood has been drawn I'm on pins and needles. Argh!

    Upcoming Appointments: April 18th with OB-GYN, May something for the 20 week screen

    How are you feeling?: Feel a bit nauseous now and then but other than that solidly leaving nausea behind me. Boobs are getting bigger.

    Rants/Raves: I could fall into bed every night at 9. Also feeling like a huge blob because I've been watching a lot more TV instead of doing other stuff like housework or garden work.

    Questions: 

    GTKY: What was the most memorable gift you’ve received? There's this guy in my undergrad dorm who was super awkward socially. So am I, so we became friends. He made me a lap tray by hand one year. This was more than 15 years ago and I still have the tray. It's been used as a seat, a tray, a stool, a step aid, a drum....just everything. We're no longer in touch because Nice Guy Syndrome but that tray has been the most-used gift I've ever gotten.
    The original: Aug2013
    The remix: Feb2017
    The encore: coming Oct2019

     
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  • grapeskittles4lyfegrapeskittles4lyfe member
    jane101757 said:
    @theglitteredpterodactyl I totally get it, I have struggled with IF for years and have had previous losses. I’m not a newbie to this life or these big feelings and am not making it “all about me”.   It was hard on me when friends (including her) announced their  pregnancies.  I very much relate to that.  This is why I told her separately days before our friend trip.  I still can feel hurt though, and do. No matter how hard it was to see others I wouldn’t be blatantly mean or cruel to someone.  
    I've also been on both sides (IF and pregnant with IF friends). I think pterodactyl is right - she is obviously processing a lot more than it appeared. However, you went out of your way to tell her beforehand and even though it's painful, allowing a pregnant friend to have her 15 minutes of getting oohed and aaahed over by mutual friends is part of the pain. I don't know how often pregnancy and kids came up during the stay, but maybe it was just too much for her. How did she react when you'd told her in private?

    My post-IF brain has been keeping me from announcing this pregnancy in my J13 BMB because I have many good friends there who only have one living child and have been hurt various times by birth stories and pregnancy announcements on the board. I'll obviously announce in due time, with TW, but I don't feel like it's the right time yet.
    The original: Aug2013
    The remix: Feb2017
    The encore: coming Oct2019

     
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  • jenferlee82jenferlee82 member
    jane101757 said:
    @theglitteredpterodactyl I totally get it, I have struggled with IF for years and have had previous losses. I’m not a newbie to this life or these big feelings and am not making it “all about me”.   It was hard on me when friends (including her) announced their  pregnancies.  I very much relate to that.  This is why I told her separately days before our friend trip.  I still can feel hurt though, and do. No matter how hard it was to see others I wouldn’t be blatantly mean or cruel to someone.  
    I can definitely see both sides of this. We struggled with IF for three years, and it is a burden that slowly buries you. I tried very hard to be excited for others who got pregnant during that time, but it certainly isn't easy no matter how much effort you put into it. That said, you did try to be sensitive to your friend's situation, which was the right thing to do. I think you just have to accept that she wasn't able to push through her own pain for your sake, and try to forgive her. After all, you're the one with the good news to focus on right now, so surely you can find room to forgive her for her reaction, show her some kindness, and move on - especially since it sounds like you've been in her shoes yourself.
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  • emily1052emily1052 member
    @geminigirl16 congratulations on the new house!!  So exciting!!
    I ALWAYS have dry skin!!  so I’m looking forward to any recommendations that won’t cause breakouts.  Thank for asking a great question! 
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  • cmbt2cmbt2 member
    @egb428 you can decline them reporting fetal sex. 

    The portal will give you your overall risk determination and then you click to download report, which has the sex dead center IF reported
    BFP #1 3/07, EDD 11/12/07, MMC 5/7/07
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
    BFP #3 8/19/16, EDD 4/30/17, DS2 4/25/17
    BFP #4 12/22/18, EDD 9/6/19 - CP 12/29/18
    BFP #5 1/18/19, EDD 10/3/19, It’s a Girl!
    ~~~  ~~~  ~~~
    High Risk Dx (6/14):  Homozygous MTHFR C677T, protein C & S deficiencies
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  • egb428egb428 member
    thanks @cmbt2! you have all the knowledge. 
    2/22/13 - BFP #1, EDD 10/18/13
    10/17/13 - DS (w/ ex)
    6/2/18 - Married DH
    8/25/18 - BFP #2
    9/2/18 - MC at 6w
    2/25/19 - BFP #3 (LMP 1/19, EDD 10/26)
    2/25 Beta #1 3300; 2/27 Beta #2 6700; 3/1 Beta #3 12,100
    <3  Please stick little rainbow baby! <3

    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
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  • amber101919amber101919 member
    Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: October 18th 10W4D

    Baby is the size of a(n): Tootsie Pop Sucker

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Team Finding Out/Blue/Pink/Green: Green for me but my husband is finding out. Wish me luck!!

    Upcoming Appointments: April 18th

    How are you feeling?: Actually feeling pretty good, just starting to feel the round ligament stretching.

    Rants/Raves: It seems that lately I've had a low tolerance for stupid and inconsiderate people.

    Questions: Is it common to not gain weight in your first trimester?

    GTKY: What was the most memorable gift you’ve received? My grandfathers wedding band 
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  • kindbytealikatkindbytealikat member
    @egb428 yay the step kids will be 21 and almost 18 when this one comes along. It's a really unusual dynamic to say the least

    Me: 35 DH: 47

    HX
    DSS: 20
    DSD: 17
    DS: 4(Nov'14)
    MMC:8/17
    MMC: 1/18
    BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19

    Tickers
    BabyGaga
    Babysizer Cravings Pregnancy Tracker


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