He cheated and blamed postpartum depression

gegy

Hi... Excuse my English it's not that good but I really need an advice because I am so confused ...I had my first child 11 months ago ... I am married for 2 years now. .. My husband was good to me. ..but after having a baby I went through major depression ..I was so scared of hurting my baby thats why I was over protective ...after delivery I went to my dad house so my mom can help me with the baby after 6 months my husband started to think that I don't want him to stay with his son .... I was hurt ,depressed and feeling kinda lonely ... Now I found out that my husband created on me 3 months ago and when I confront him he blamed me for staying at my dad's house and he don't understand how my postpartum depression affected me.. He always says you are not the only one who had a child.. ..I want to get divorce but sometimes I feel selfish...  I don't want my baby to be away from his dad and sometimes I feel like he didn't care about us when he cheated.. ..I can't think straight.. ...

cjx95

Doing what you had to for your mental health isnti selfish. I doubt you prevented him from seeing you or your baby. Cheating instead of expressing his feelings to you was a bad choice and wrong. And if you think a divorce is the best option then do it. You have no reason to be feeling guilty. You were taking care if you and your baby, your husband is a grown man who should have told you how he felt before seeking someone else. Good luck mama!