I am 39w3d first time mama. I was dilated 4cm at my 38 week appointment, and 5cm at my 39 week appointment. No real contractions yet, and I am not always able to feel my braxton hicks. I do get cramps, which have been off and on for a full month.
Because of my dilation I was told I could go into labor at any moment back at 38 weeks. I am now having a hard time trying to not be anxious or obsessed with the thought of "is it about to happen?". So as a fun distraction... what were you mamas doing before labor happened? Anything you think put you into labor? What was the moment you realized it was happening?!
Re: What did you do before you went into labor?
With my first, my water broke before I went into labor four days before my due date. So I was expecting and looking for labor to start, and the contractions slowly picked up over the next few hours.