FFFC...on Saturday?

violetmarie61516

I didn't see a thread so I thought I'd start one.

violetmarie61516

I'm telling my husband today and I'm freaking out about it. I'm normally not a prayer person but I need all the thoughts you can share.

Also, I've been in such a bad mood pretty much the entire week. I've just been bitching about everything. My coworker yesterday actually joked and said smile!

meggyme

@violetmarie61516 you’ve been under a lot of stress lately, I think you have every right to be in a bad mood. Good luck with telling your husband. I’d just make sure you have a mental plan of where you can go if you need to spend the night apart to let everything sink in. Even just a hotel you could drop into. I hope it goes well.

purpleteacher82

@violetmarie61516 Good luck! What you are doing takes a lot of balls, but for what it’s worth I think you are doing the right thing. I hope things work out for you when all is said and done and you can have stress-free remainder of your pregnancy! 

violetmarie61516

Thank you so much for the support. A friend of mine lives close and I plan to go there if needed but I hope that won't happen.

maggiemadeit

@violetmarie61516 Keeping a good thought for you today. No matter how things turn out you are doing the right thing being honest. Good luck! 

chocolatelemons

Good luck @violetmarie61516

Kenneylynn3

Wishing you the best today @violetmarie61516. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

lelkcot

Thinking of you @violetmarie61516, hope today goes as smoothly as possible. Definitely agree that you’re doing the right thing.

mamakate1616

Ditto! Hope it goes well for you and your family. 

My my confession is not very flamey, but I edit almost every single post because of various typos and brain blips but I will probably never put the edited because... note at the end. I really don’t get them unless you have gone back after other comments and added content to your post

lovesclimbing

mamakate1616 said:

Ditto! Hope it goes well for you and your family. 

My my confession is not very flamey, but I edit almost every single post because of various typos and brain blips but I will probably never put the edited because... note at the end. I really don’t get them unless you have gone back after other comments and added content to your post

Same

mamakate1616

Lol I’m glad you quoted me after I fixed one of my typos! 

purpleteacher82

@mamakate1616 Same here too. I rarely ETA unless I’m changing the content of what I wrote. 

Kenneylynn3

@mamakate1616 same here.
Not sure if this goes in here or symptoms thread, but I had make the decision when I woke up yesterday to puke or pee in the toilet. So while I'm heaving over the porceline throne I peed myself. Oh well.

catlady2015

@Kenneylynn3 - I would have made the same choice in your shoes. 

@violetmarie61516 - good luck today! I’ll be thinking about you and hope it goes well. 

AFM, I tell dh nothing sounds good to eat so he has to decide what we eat for dinner for once, even if I have a preference. I get so tired of making all the food decisions in the house. 

mamakate1616

Hahah @catlady2015 I do that too. For the love, I hate picking every time!! 
@Kenneylynn3 rough choice but I would have done the same! 

meggyme

@catlady2015 AMEN! I wish that strategy worked in our house. DH has been annoyed with my indecisiveness lately but with all his travel I’ve been having decision overload and it’s bogging my brain down.

AFM: after my UO being that I wouldn’t take DD for Santa pics she had been talking so much about him I broke down and took her, but mostly I picked a mall that had a Nordstrom Rack because I’ve been meaning to go there and browse for oversized sweaters. Despite my wanting to downsize the amount of stuff we own... minimalist failure, right here!

ashley14598

@violetmarie61516 thinking of you as you tell your DH! I agree with others that it’s best just to be honest, I hope it all goes well! 

@Kenneylynn3 I would have done the same thing!! 

kristimh80

@violetmarie61516 Thinking of you!! FX everything goes well! We are always here if you need someone to talk to.