I am 29 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child and this baby came completely by surprise. I am very excited about it, my husband was not happy when he heard the news. Anyways off to my problem....
My husband works on the road. While I am at home during the week working a full time job and taking care of our two boys. He leaves Sunday night or Monday morning and is gone until Thursday or Friday night. When he comes home he always does things he enjoys for the entire weekend. If he is home on Friday he calls his mom immediately in the morning so she can watch the kids while he does what he wants till I get home from work.
Today I told him that I would like to do things on the weekend too and he responds by saying. “If you have things you need or want to do they need to be done during the week. When I’m home it’s my time.” So I reminded him that I’m not just sitting around the house when he is at work. I’m working as well and taking care of the kids which leaves me no time to do things. I also don’t have the convienence to call someone to come over and help if needed. He comes back and says, “ if you can’t handle it you should have done something about it before it was to late.” He is talking about the pregnancy.
I feel so unappreciated in this home. I love my kids to death but I am lonely and I have no support. What am I suppose to do? Am I just over reacting?