Thank you everyone for the kind words and positivity. Dh and I are both taking it hard. DH harder than I anticipated.
I will probably continue to lurk on this board from time to time. When you ladies make the fb group I wouldn't mind being a part of it still if thats ok to keep in touch easier.
Dh and I have talked when we have been able to be alone. We really don't know where we want to go from here. We don't know if we want to try again and we are considering consulting a genetic specialist since 2 of the 3 times Dh has gotten me pregnant has ended in miscarriage. And even if we agree to trying again I still have to wait out the pills see if they work and then get 1 normal period before trying. If they don't work D&C and then 1 normal period and trying.
I'm really trying to remain grateful and positive. I am fortunate I have a boy and a girl. Both are happy and healthy. I am fortunate to have been able to become pregnant 4 times on my own and not suffer fertility issues. These things just happen for no reason. I am fortunate it happened now and not later down the road. Maybe I seem morbid but I know this could have been worse and others have it much worse then my current situation.
@zuuls_mom its not fair. Your loss isn't fair either. The damn situation just isn't fair. If you'd like I can PM you my name on fb and we can stay in touch and be supportive right now.
Pregnancy #1 DD 08.30.2007 Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014 Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015 Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019 Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020
@psychobutthead I’m so sorry to hear this. Something that helped us when we had our mmc is that we actually had the fetus tested and found out that it was a completely rare trisomy. That allowed us to fight for insurance to test our genetics too & it was all covered. A lot of leg work. But super worth it. Something to consider if possible.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need to grieve. I so enjoyed your presence on this board and you will be missed here. Take care of yourself.
Re: GoodBye **TW**
Married 8/16/13
BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
I will probably continue to lurk on this board from time to time. When you ladies make the fb group I wouldn't mind being a part of it still if thats ok to keep in touch easier.
Dh and I have talked when we have been able to be alone. We really don't know where we want to go from here. We don't know if we want to try again and we are considering consulting a genetic specialist since 2 of the 3 times Dh has gotten me pregnant has ended in miscarriage. And even if we agree to trying again I still have to wait out the pills see if they work and then get 1 normal period before trying. If they don't work D&C and then 1 normal period and trying.
I'm really trying to remain grateful and positive. I am fortunate I have a boy and a girl. Both are happy and healthy. I am fortunate to have been able to become pregnant 4 times on my own and not suffer fertility issues. These things just happen for no reason. I am fortunate it happened now and not later down the road. Maybe I seem morbid but I know this could have been worse and others have it much worse then my current situation.
@zuuls_mom its not fair. Your loss isn't fair either. The damn situation just isn't fair. If you'd like I can PM you my name on fb and we can stay in touch and be supportive right now.
Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014
Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015
Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019
Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020
Married: Oct 2015
TTC #1: Sept 2016
BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
BFP: 3/24/17
TTC #2: July 2018
BFP: 8/26/18
DD: 8/20/14; DS: 11/13/16; DD: 5/3/19; DD: 8/31/21; Baby #5 (team green) due 3/24/24