TW: I’m Out

zuuls_mom

Hey guys, I went in for my 13 week appt today and they weren’t able to find a heartbeat on the Doppler so they did an ultrasound and it looks like I had a MMC at 11w. This fucking sucks. Now we’re in the process of telling literally everyone we know since just announced on FB over the weekend. I have my D&C scheduled for Thursday afternoon which feels like an eternity from now. I’ve really enjoyed getting to know all of you and I wish you all happy and healthy pregnancies. Thanks for all the support over the last couple months. I’ll miss you all. 

misskimsue

@zuuls_mom I can't express how sorry I am. I've really enjoyed your posts and I'll miss you on this board, but, more importantly, my heart breaks for your loss. Please take care of yourself. Much love.

merrylea

It really sucks.  I am so sorry for you loss.  Please be extra kind to yourselves, and maybe ask a few key people to spread the news if you don't feel like having to tell everyone.  Again, I am so so sorry.

DuchessOfCambridge

@zuuls_mom I am heartbroken for you. I am so so sorry for your loss, you'll be missed. I'm just so sorry.

bluesky24

@zuuls_mom I am so, so, so sorry. This is heartbreaking news. Please take care of yourself, rely on others to help you. So sorry to hear this. 

sleepy33

No! Literally in tears for you over this. It does fucking suck. I am so incredibly sorry. 

kbeers13

I know there's nothing I can do or say to ease your pain. Please remind yourself that you've done nothing wrong and take some time to self love and spend time with SO. I don't know what I would have done without DH by my side and grieving with me. Know that SO might grieve differently or try to "stay strong" for you (DH did and regrets not sharing all of his grief along with me). Sending you all the love! Please reach out if you need anything at all. 

thebobloblaw

I’m so so sorry. So heartbreaking. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. 

fatmonica

I'm so sorry for your loss.  That really really sucks.  You will be missed.   Sending hugs.

imrachellea

Oh I'm so so sorry 😔 Know that we are all thinking of you ❤

eatinwatermelonseeds

Oh my God. I'm so so sorry. I... I have no words. But we're all here for you. I'm so sorry. ♥️

lappymom2019

I am so devastated for you. That flat out sucks. I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love. Please take care of yourself. ❤

journey721

@zuuls_mom I’m truly devastated for you. We had a MMC in January and there’s just no words. Please grieve as you see fit. My thoughts are with you. 

zuuls_mom

Thank you all so much. You’ve been an awesome group to be part of! 💗

mrskoz428

I am so sad to read this. Please take it easy on yourself! I’m thinking of you and your family.

SpaceBurger

OH no oh no! I'm so so sorry this happened. 

Jess4us

Nooooo 😢😭 that's not fair. Im so sorry you've been nothing but a sweet supportive mama and I wish you so much peace and comfort through this 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷 RIP to your little one 💔

aels12

@zuuls_mom I am so, so sorry to hear this. I’m thinking of you and your family. If you ever need to talk, I’m here.

kvh22

@zuuls_mom Words cannot express how sorry I am that your family is going through this.

chucksmom15

This sucks so much @zuuls_mom.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Gonna miss you on here.

mcewen3

I am so very sorry.  Take care of yourself.  So much love coming your way ❤️❤️❤️ 

megsb615

@zuuls_mom I am so so sorry! This breaks my heart, and I hate that you’re going through this. Please be kind to yourself, and feel free to message me if you ever need to talk. 

brie_and_almonds

I'm so, so sorry to hear this and so sad to see you go. I get that it would probably be too painful to stick around, but if you want to drop in every once in a while please feel free to. You have been such a huge part of making us a real community we will definitely miss you.

expandcontract

Im so incredibly sorry. I can't imagine after having just announced and all.  😢😢 RIP to your little one.  Take care of yourself. 

robyn2201

Oh, I’m so so sorry! My heart sunk when I saw this post. It’s gonna hurt, but each day will get a little bit better. Take care of yourself and we will miss you! 

keighty80

I’m so sorry to hear this. Nothing I can say will make this any easier but I wish you peace and love during this time. Take care of yourself. We’ll miss you around here. 😢

jarethinafrock

❤️ I am so sorry for your loss, sweetie. Sending you so much love and keeping you in my prayers. 

DressageDarling

I’m so so sorry for your loss ❤️

zuuls_mom

I’m sure I’ll pop in here and there. It’s only been a little while, but I knew you guys were my people 💗

poshspice

This breaks my heart. It's so unfair. I really can't believe it. I'm so so sorry for your loss. Praying for your little one in heaven.  Take care of yourself. I'm always here if you need to talk. 

eatinwatermelonseeds

@zuuls_mom I'm crying. Please visit. You are our people too. ♥️

audrey_c

So incredibly sorry for your loss, you are always supported here ♡ 

RoseShadow873

I'm very sorry too. What a sad situation.  

anonellis

I’m so very sorry for your loss.  

chloe97

I’m so sorry @zuuls_mom. I wouldn’t wish what you are going through on my worst enemy. Take care of yourself.

babynurse1114

@zuuls_mom there are really no words. I am so so sorry to hear this. It’s just unfair. Please take care of yourself and know how loved you are within this group. Hugs to you ❤️❤️❤️

MelissaMay82

I am so sorry 😢

k2k2tog

@zuuls_mom I am so so sorry. This is devastating. Take care of yourself, especially as you go through the d&c process. Take all the time you need to heal. Loss is heartbreaking. We love you. 

knottie0d8cc4d43bacc09f

I actually gasped when I saw your name attached to this post. I’m so sorry this is happening. It seriously sucks and doesn’t seem fair. We’ll miss you so much on the board. 

MaggieG183

Oh no! I’m beside myself for you. I’m so very, very sorry that this has happened. Be kind to yourself and heal. So many hugs to you and yours during this time. ❤️ 

megstevens92

I'm so so sorry, my heart hurts for you. Sending you and your family love.