May 2019 Moms

STM+ Check In Week Of 9/18

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Re: STM+ Check In Week Of 9/18

  • Thank you both! I’ll try preventing and not responding when I can’t prevent. So over it!

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  • @DuchessOfCambridge I agree with what Jessica said about trying to prevent it. My son did the same and thought it was funny when I said ow or acted sad. He enjoyed the reaction/attention and would keep doing it. If I could catch him before he would bite and say “no, we don’t bite” while pulling my arm or leg away, and distract with something else, he finally started to understand. It’s also just a phase and eventually passes! 
  • @DuchessOfCambridge with one of my kiddos when she was biting, I would pretend to cry, and she would get so serious and sad, and a couple of times she started crying too. 
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  • @brie_and_almonds DS doesn't seem to comprehend crying much unless he's doing it :D Now I wonder if that's weird for a 10 mo?

  • @DuchessOfCambridge if it’s behaviour related to teething, the only advice I can give is some reassurance that it will pass! DD1 teethed early and fast and started biting me while nursing. There wasn’t much I could do except pretty much exactly what you are already doing and eventually, she stopped and we continued nursing for another 8 months. 

    DD1: June 2014 - VBM4lyfe
    DD2: October 2016
    DC3: coming May 2019





  • @DuchessOfCambridge I'm sure, like all things, different kids get things at different ages. I think mine were right around 1 when biting became a real problem for us.
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  • @DuchessOfCambridge sorry for the super late reply but we had family in town staying with us Wednesday until this morning so I'm trying to slowly catch up on threads. One trick from Harvey Karp's happiest baby on the block (supposed to be used for weaning but I've found many uses) is to say "ow" when he gets hurt - bumps his head, little things like that - then they understand what "ow" means. I like the preventing suggestions but we've used "ow" for all sorts of things like when DD gets excited and "hits" us (kind of like clapping, not meant to be aggressive).

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