Goodbye (very long read)

brittaniahutto

On July 30th, we went in for our anatomy scan and there were a few concerns found during the scan.

1. He is smaller than he should bae 

2. He had limited amniotic fluid

3. He has a 2 vessel cord.

4. He could have a heart defect 

5. He could have a chromosomal disorder 

Since that day, we were referred to many different specialists across Florida where we were able to get more answers. 

1. Yes he is smaller than he should be, but he is growing. 

2. Although the fluid is limited, he went from 2cm to 6cm to 10cm and is still trending up. 

3. He has 1 artery and 1 vein going to and from me compared to the normal 2 arteries and 1 vein. This could be a factor in his size. 

4. He may have a hole in heart called VSD and his aorta may be more centered. We saw a fetal pediatric cardiologist where she confirmed that his aorta is normal in size, shape, location.. she cannot confirm the VSD but did say that if there is a hole in his heart, she will perform surgery at 4 months old to fix it. 

5. We've had an amniocentesis (testing for chromosome disorders) which came back normal and then an additional microarray scan to double check the amniocentesis results as the doctors wanted to be sure. 

On Friday, we had an appointment with the specialist where at the end of the appointment, I mentioned some swelling in my legs. The doctor was concerned since there should not be that much swelling with his size and this early in the pregnancy. She took my blood pressure which was 188/96 and I was sent down to Labor and Delivery for observation. I was diagnosed with Preeclampsia with the blood pressure, swelling, and protein in my urine. I had not eaten for 36 hours and fluids were administered through an IV. I was truly bed bound in all matters. I was given a shots of a steroids to help keep his lungs open if I ended up delivering early. Yesterday morning at 8am, I took a turn for the worse and by 8:15am, the doctor informed me that we would be delivering that morning. 
My baby boy who was due December 8th, 2018 was born September 12th, 2018 at 11:40am. He weighed 1 pound 7 ounces at birth and was 15 inches long. He is in the NICU- stable and doing "baby things" and I can't wait to go see him. He was born at 27 weeks and 4 days. 

Thank you ladies for all of your support. I hope everyone else's pregnancies are smooth and easy. I'll be around if anyone goes through something similar because it is scary to say the least. 

katy0990

@brittaniahutto Congratulations! That is wonderful that you were able to keep him in for so long and that he is stable. I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that, though. I will keep you and baby in my thoughts and prayers.  This definitely does not have to be goodbye! Please keep us updated.

hkom

I am so so so sorry you went through such an ordeal, but I am so happy to hear that your baby is stable.  I'll be sending so many good vibes to you and your little boy.

But please don't feel the need to leave.  You are still part of this community and we are all here to support you.  It's very possible that we will have some other early preemies, my own included. 

morgantu

@brittaniahutto Oh my goodness, the title of this post had me terrified! First of all, congrats, I'm so glad to hear that your little guy is doing well and hopefully his NICU stay will be short and full of growth! I can't believe our first decemeber baby is here! Please please keep us posted on how he and you are doing! Will be sending lots of good thoughts to you and your family! 

maureenmce

@brittaniahutto Oh wow, I am so sorry for your ordeal but so relieved and happy for you that your baby boy was delivered safe and sound and is stable in the NICU. Please do stay around if you want and if you have time! We are all here for you!

LLynde5

@brittaniahutto sending you so many prayers and well wishes for you in your LO!  Congratulations and please keep up updated!!

artemis618

Congratulations!  I’m so sorry you had to go through that, but am glad that baby’s stable and wish the best for you both!

CecilB93

@brittaniahutto man my heart dropped when I saw the title...so glad the doctors were able to act quickly and baby seems to be doing well!! Congratulations!! Please don't feel like you have to leave us, you're still part of our community! Hoping your NICU stay isn't too terribly long or stressful. Please keep us updated on how you're both doing! 

echo-charlietango

@brittaniahutto Whew, big day! Happy you and your boy are well. Don’t be a stranger, and congrats on having the first BMB December ‘18 babe

runrinserepeat

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry for everything you've been through, but was so relieved to read to the end and see that your little baby is stable in the NICU. Please don't feel the need to leave us - I know it's not much, but at the very least we can provide a place of support and listening when you need it

kristah2

While this may not be the perfect outcome it’s definirekt a good one for you and baby! Way to be strong and keep us updated. Sending your little one so many well wishes and hoping that he gets stronger every day! 

clbness

@brittaniahutto I noticed I hadn't seen your name here in a while and my heart sank when I saw this thread.  I'm so relieved your baby boy is stable and I pray your NICU stay is smooth.  Please don't be a stranger, we'd love to hear from you!!

gorgeousariel

@brittaniahutto so glad he is stable. I think there are a couple mom's on the Oct.18 board that delivered quite early. Maybe you could reach out to them for support. But of course we are here for you too! If you have any questions I'm sure STM+ will be happy to answer. 

snugglyduckling25

@brittaniahutto I am so glad you and your baby boy are safe, you guys will be in my prayers through your NICU stay. I agree that we would love to keep hearing from you.

PensiveCrayon

@brittaniahutto Like others, my heart dropped when I saw the name of this thread, but I'm SO relieved to hear that you are doing well and baby is stable! Please do stick around, I'm sure all of us would love to offer support as best we can through your NICU stay.

mcgeeva

@brittaniahutto congrats on your little boy. That's great he is doing well and so are you! These little guys are stronger than we think  Wishing you the best! Pre-e is no joke I had it as well and I swear those steroid shots make a world of difference!

whitneyb89

@brittaniahutto Im with the majority here, and I feared the worst when I saw the title. Congratulations though! I'm glad the baby is stable! I can only imagine how scary everything has been. Keep us updated though when you can! We would love to hear more on how everything is going.  

ab_canada

@brittaniahutto Congratulations on the birth of your LO, even though I am sure it was difficult. Hoping for the best for you and that he continues to grow and thrive. We are here for you if you need anything!

rosebud332

@brittaniahutto Oh my goodness my heart just dropped when I saw the title, but I am SO glad to hear your little boy is doing well in the NICU. Congratulations and I’ll be praying that you both continue to be well. I’m sure your journey in the near future will not always be easy, and I hope if you’re feeling up to it and are able you will keep us updated on you’re both doing. We would love to be here for you through this! I hope you get to see your sweet baby very soon!

Jens_Hoes

Echoing everyone above, please stick around. 
Congratulations on your son and I hope he continues to grow and thrive. Your family iis lol be in my thoughts! 

erose625

Congratulations! I'm glad to hear both you and your baby boy are doing well, I'm sure it was stressful for you to get to this point! Hope you stick around and update us on yours and baby's progress  

lavenderlisa

 My goodness this thread title scared me.So glad baby and you are doing well. Sending prayers you and baby will recover quickly. 

deutschmama

@brittaniahutto Sounds like you guys have been through an emotional rollercoaster, but so glad to read the end of your post and to hear that your LO is doing well in the NICU! Congratulations on your baby boy, please keep us updated on how you're both doing!

Activebaby

@brittaniahutto Congratulations! I’m so sorry that you’ve been through so much. Please stay around and keep us updated. We are thinking of you and your baby!! 

MissAmber23

Congratulations! I’m so glad that he is so strong and stable. I hope that you are recovering well and will get to see your precious little one very soon. Good luck!!!

tunnel

Congratulations on your stable baby boy!  I will be thinking of you and baby as you continue this roller coaster of emotions

zoepac

It sounds like your team was able to make the right call for your son and you! I'm a previous NICU veteran- make sure you are eating and drinking and do not feel guilty about. 3am call to check on your babe! I'll be thinking about you!

mamatwopointoh

Wow, I seriously held my breath reading your post. So glad you were able to deliver and will be thinking of you in the months to come! Congratulations on your baby boy!

barristerninja

Congrats on the birth of your son, @brittaniahutto!!
What an ordeal you went through and all so quickly. You must have a lot going on right now, but I hope you’re able to stick around here and check in when you can. 
I have a friend whose son was born very early (25 weeks) and she still is in close touch with other moms whose babies were in the NICU at the same time. I hope you’re able to find a community (in addition to us!) like that where you are. 

rcultrona

The title of this post was horrifying!  I am sorry you had such an ordeal but so glad all seems to be well. Enjoy your LO!

texas_t

Welcome to the world, sweet baby! So glad things seem to be going as best they can!  I know things will be streasfst, but please stick around for support!

mag1cbeli3ver

@brittaniahutto congratulations on your baby boy!! I'm glad he is doing well and getting the support he needs! I'm so sorry you had to go through that - it really sounds terrifying. But it's a good thing they had been monitoring you so well and that you spoke up about the swelling! Wishing you, baby boy, and your family all the best as everyone heals and grows!!! Hope you're still able to participate now and then, btw taking care if baby!!

kirstey728

Prayers for the little one! Mine is due December 8th, too! I've seen quite a few pre term babies and there are no stronger fighters than them! Good luck! 

orangecrush29

Congratulations! Our first baby born of the group! I can’t wait to hear how he’s doing, prayers for him to grow big and strong! Hang in there and take care of yourself.

mamajudec2018

Congratulations! Please keep us updated! Praying!

kadeephd

Congrats @brittaniahutto!  I'm sure this is not how you envisioned things going, but I'm glad you and your son are stable and in good hands.

Katzalia

@brittaniahutto so sorry you have been going through all this stress and worry. Congratulations on your new son! It sounds like it will be a long haul but glad he is stable in the NICU. And I hope you are feeling better now too. 

binxybaby

Congratulations on your little guy! I'm glad he's safe and sound. You'll be in my thoughts as you all go through this tough NICU experience. Our local hospital has a big party for all the NICU graduates every year and hundreds of healthy kids of all ages show up and have a blast. I wish you and your family all the best!

scaredunprepared

@brittaniahutto congratulations on the birth of your little one! I'm sure this has been an incredibly stressful and emotional time for you, but we are here if you need us!  I hope you stick around and pop in once in a while to update us.  I'll be sending positive vibes for you and baby boy!

ScootsMcG

Congratulations on your sweet little boy!  So glad he is stable and you are safe.  I hope your time in the NICU goes as swiftly and smoothly as possible.

hoosiermama-2

Welcome to the first D18 baby! And congrats to you, mama. Thinking of baby boy - may he grow and grow! Keep us updated.