@ripperswifey My husband and I really struggled with figuring out if we wanted a second kid and we have ultimately decided that we do (hence why I'm here). What got me on board with it was familiarizing myself with the idea. When we were still trying to decide I started lurking here, reading books, looking at baby crafts and just generally getting used to the idea of having another kid. Doing this stuff started getting me excited and helped me realize that I really do want another kid. Maybe doing something like that will help you.
Re: Deciding/debating
My husband and I really struggled with figuring out if we wanted a second kid and we have ultimately decided that we do (hence why I'm here). What got me on board with it was familiarizing myself with the idea. When we were still trying to decide I started lurking here, reading books, looking at baby crafts and just generally getting used to the idea of having another kid. Doing this stuff started getting me excited and helped me realize that I really do want another kid. Maybe doing something like that will help you.