TTC After a Loss

TW and I’m back

Hi ladies!
Its been a rough week! I was 10 weeks 2 days on Friday and the heartbeat was gone and baby was measuring 8 + 2. That same week we learned that my dad’s Lymphoma is back after a two year remission... this week sucks! Don’t know what we are going to do at this point. Just had a D and C today so going to recover and then call the RE. Sad to see so many of you still here but glad to have some familiar people to talk to. 

Re: TW and I’m back

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    @char245 I am so so sorry for all you've had to deal with last week. Sending you lots of creepy hugs.
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    char245  :( I'm so sorry you're back here. I hope you're taking some time for yourself and I wish you a healthy recovery.

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.


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    Oh no. I am so so sorry you're going through this. Sending love your way. 
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    @char245 I’m so sorry to see you back here.  Take care of yourself 
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    I'm so sorry you're here. Please be easy on yourself. And I hope your dad is doing okay. <3
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    So sad to see you back! Please take care of yourself! I hope your dad has a good prognosis ❤️
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    Oh no :( I’m so sorry to see you back here and to hear about your awful week. Wishing you a speedy recovery and another remission for your Dad. 
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    Thanks ladies! It’s gonna be hard but both my dad and I are confident that there are good things to come! Thanks for all your support!
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    Hi there, I'm sorry for this great loss and hope for your speedy recovery. I also wish for your father's return to remission. Cancer sucks.  :/
    Baby Birthday Ticker TickerMe: 40  H: 38


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    1 LC, girl 5 years old

    TTC #2 Summer 2017

    BFP 1/5/2018, MC (D & E) 2/23/2018

    TTCAL May 2018

    BFP 9/20/2018, MC (D & E) 11/16/2018 :'(

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    I’m so so sorry! Take care of yourself
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    @char245 I’m so sorry for your loss and that your dad’s cancer is back. What a horrible week. I’m thinking about you and sending love and hope for better days ahead ❤️
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    coco2787coco2787 member
    edited August 2018
    Dammit, I'm so sorry.  RPL is so cruel and I'm really sorry to hear about your dad too.  Take care of yourself <3
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
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    I'm so sorry to see you back here, and to hear about your dad. Your family is in my prayers. Take care of yourself.
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    @char245 I'm so sorry
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

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