I just recently moved from Alaska to another state. While in Alaska, a guy and I were casually sleeping around. Shortly after I moved however I found out I was expecting. (6 days before my period was due!) (And I only found out because I was in an accident.) Anyways, I wrote my friend (the guy), and asked him if he'd ever consider moving out of Alaska. He's always said he wanted kids. But he said, he's thought about it, but he doesn't know. So I then asked him what if I was pregnant. He didn't respond. I waited two days and told him, I guess I had my answer and I hope he had a great life. (Because I do.) To which he then asked me if I was messing with his head. And I wrote that I couldn't believe he would even say that. And that's been the end of the conversation. He hasn't asked anymore, and I haven't told him I am in fact expecting his child. Part of me wants to, and thinks he deserves to know. But the other part of me, often wonders what's the point if he wouldn't consider moving, and I'm not moving back, I also don't like his accusation either. Because we've had a great friendship. I was honestly shocked and hurt by that. What do you ladies (or guys) think I should do? I want to do the right thing.