Hello! New here and looking for a support group of women who are going through the same thing. My name is Jordan, I’m 28, Navy vet, military wife, far away from friends and family. I currently live in CA but originally from VA. My husband and I have been married for 4 months but been TTC for 16 months. I was debating joining this forum or the infertility one since I have been trying for over a year but I only just went to the doctor 3 months ago with infertility concerns and started tracking my temps 3 months ago. I don’t really have any friends here and all my friends back home in VA have either been able to have children no problem, or don’t want children anytime in the forseeable future. My mother had dealt with infertility for years so she’s really the only support group I have. I’m tired of hearing the “it will happen when it happens”, “don’t stress about it and it will happen”, or “when it’s God’s timing and in his plan”. They’re pretty hurtful even though I know they’re not meant that way. As much is sucks to be in this situation, It’s comforting to know that there are women going through the same thing. Tired of feeling like I’m on the verge of tears every day and nobody to talk to about it.
I have been off BCPS (Nuvaring) since March 2017. Have had very normal cycles since being off of it, cycles being 28-32 days usually. I have only gotten one positive O (last year) and it was on day 19 which is pretty late. I have been tracking my BBT for three months now using the Natural Cycles app and my temps definitely indicate that I’m ovulating between day 13 and 15. Still waiting on a positive O test though. Is it possible to O and not have a positive O test? DH and I have had no luck even when we think the timing is right. I went to a new OBGYN and expressed my concerns to him. He put me on Clomid, taking it day 1-5 of my cycle. I found that odd since everyone else seems to take it on days 2-6 or 3-7. I have one more round before going back to the doc.Hoping to provide some support to others going through the same thing.