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Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es), diagnosis/conditions surrounding loss, etc.
Status:
How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with this week? What is going well for you this week? R/R?
Any testing coming up/any recent results?
GTKY: What superpower would you like to have?
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Me: 38 DH: 41
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
Re: TTCAL Week of 6/18
GTKY: What superpower would you like to have? I'd like super strength. I'd like to be able to lift super heavy weights and have it have no impact on my joints.
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
ETA: Fixed tag
DS: March 2014
DD: May 2015
BFP: 12/24/17 CP: 1/2/18 @ 4w 3d
BFP: 1/26/18 CP: 2/2/18 @ 4w 4d
BFP: 5/16/18 MMC: 6/15/18 @ 7w 5d
BFP: 9/25/18! EDD: 6/9/19 TEAM GREEN
@eleven_ - I'm glad you're doing the D&C! I'm sure you're numb and I can't imagine having to make those arrangements right now. I hope you're able to find someone in-network quickly and get this taken care of. Such big hugs to you, friend.
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
@catlady2015 Sorry that Fathers Day was so tough. I’m glad that you’ve had some other things to keep you busy. What day do you close? We just got our keys on Friday and it’s been a great distraction.
1 CP in April
I will agree with everyone else that Fathers Day was tougher than expected. Especially since none of the family knows that we were trying or had a loss, so I have to pretend that I don’t care. Otherwise, we are super busy with the house so I’ve hardly had time to obsess.
GTKY: What superpower would you like to have? Super strength would be great in my line of work, but I’ll go with be able to stop time. I could get so much done and I could sleep in the pauses.
@catlady2015 I agree. Fathers Day was so tough. Hopefully, this cycle goes okay and you don't need to be benched for the next one. I'm pulling for you.
Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es), diagnosis/conditions surrounding loss, etc. I feel like I am probably jumping back into the boards too soon, but I need something to occupy my mind besides Google. We went in after some very light bleeding on Friday and found our LO's heart wasn't beating at 11 weeks. My Dr. had an opening that day and got me in that same afternoon for a D&C.
GTKY: What superpower would you like to have? Right now I think the ability to be invisible.
DS1: 9.6.12**DS2: 12.22.14
CP1: 6/17 @4w4d
CP2: 9/17 @4w3d
CP3: 2/18 @5w
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DSD: 17
DS: 4(Nov'14)
MMC:8/17
MMC: 1/18
BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19
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DS: March 2014
DD: May 2015
BFP: 12/24/17 CP: 1/2/18 @ 4w 3d
BFP: 1/26/18 CP: 2/2/18 @ 4w 4d
BFP: 5/16/18 MMC: 6/15/18 @ 7w 5d
BFP: 9/25/18! EDD: 6/9/19 TEAM GREEN
@eleven_ thank you! I hope you were able to get scheduled okay. Ill be thinking of you tomorrow. ♥️
eleven_ Good luck with your D&C if you do have it today. Take it easy on yourself. Hopefully you'll be able to mourn after the procedure. I know that 'limbo' time between when they tell you you will have a MC, but before the MC actually happens, can be hard to wrap your head around what is happening.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
GTKY: What superpower would you like to have? I think flying. Or maybe reading minds. I’m kinda nosy ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
DS1: 9.6.12**DS2: 12.22.14
CP1: 6/17 @4w4d
CP2: 9/17 @4w3d
CP3: 2/18 @5w
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Also ditto readings minds. That would definitely be what I'd choose.
DS1: 9.6.12**DS2: 12.22.14
CP1: 6/17 @4w4d
CP2: 9/17 @4w3d
CP3: 2/18 @5w
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@catlady2015 sorry for the rough weekend and the potential benching, the bench sucks!
@krissy2241 I’m sorry you find yourself here. I didn’t tell our friends until just recently bc I didn’t want the awkwardness, I will say it’s easier when people know bc they don’t ask questions but it’s so hard to tell people sometimes.
@dpjennifer what kind of skating do you do? Sorry for a doghoused DH....I think we’ve prob all been there with that lol
GTKY: What superpower would you like to have? Hmmm...time travel. I would have loved to visit or live in the “old days”
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@eleven_ You've been on my mind and I hope the D&C went smoothly yesterday. Glad I could help provide some perspectives on the decision.
@TJtheGoat I'm sorry father's day was tough on you.
@TJtheGoat @krissy2241 I have found that sharing our struggles has made my load a lot lighter - it is really hard at first, and sometimes even family are not the right people to share with, but overall the responses I've gotten from people are full of compassion and it has helped me process our losses to talk about it. Not trying to push you to share with any particular people, you should only do it when/if you are ready, but you shouldn't have to suffer in silence.
@dpjennifer Congrats on doing so well at your events! That is so cool. I'm sorry you didn't get to ttc.
@mschanandlerbong1214 So idk exactly what testing you're doing but if it's an RPL type panel most of what you're going to see is that you are either in normal range or not. For example, lupus anticoag, TSH, etc, if they are in the normal range just don't worry about it. Things like AMH, FSH, and your antral follicle count (AFC) are going to tell a bit of a story about your ovarian reserve. Usually those all need to be interpreted together. Estrodial and Prolactin can also be part of the picture. You'll get numbers on those but will likely need your dr to help interpret. Unfortunately the one test that is just not possible to do is egg quality. Age is usually the best indicator of egg quality, but sometimes younger women can have egg quality issues. Good luck with it, I hope you are able to learn something from testing.
@nmbrcrnchr1 I'm sorry for the work stress and hope you can find a way to resolve it soon.
Sorry if I missed anyone!
GTKY: What superpower would you like to have? Telekinesis would be cool.
DS: March 2014
DD: May 2015
BFP: 12/24/17 CP: 1/2/18 @ 4w 3d
BFP: 1/26/18 CP: 2/2/18 @ 4w 4d
BFP: 5/16/18 MMC: 6/15/18 @ 7w 5d
BFP: 9/25/18! EDD: 6/9/19 TEAM GREEN
@dpjennifer So happy to have you back, friend. You were missed around here. And congrats on placing in all 3 of your events!
@nmbrcrnchr1 I’m so happy you are almost off the bench! I think I will be able to try again in August as well I’m so sorry your work life is still so stressful. You need an all-expense paid vacation from them. Good luck with your conversation with your boss. Hopefully they will ease up on you!
@zamora_spin I’m so sorry your RE office isn’t calling you back. I find it so tiring and stressful when I have to wait for phone calls and updates. I’m so happy that you were able to get answers from this loss. Hearing about how comforting it was for you really pushed me to get this testing done for myself.
DS: March 2014
DD: May 2015
BFP: 12/24/17 CP: 1/2/18 @ 4w 3d
BFP: 1/26/18 CP: 2/2/18 @ 4w 4d
BFP: 5/16/18 MMC: 6/15/18 @ 7w 5d
BFP: 9/25/18! EDD: 6/9/19 TEAM GREEN
@catlady1215 Father’s Day was rough for me as well. Holidays, even Hallmark ones, can royally suck
@eleven_ I hope your D&C went well, I attempted natural with my first and it did not go well, so I opted for DC second time
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DSD: 17
DS: 4(Nov'14)
MMC:8/17
MMC: 1/18
BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19
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Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
DS1: 9.6.12**DS2: 12.22.14
CP1: 6/17 @4w4d
CP2: 9/17 @4w3d
CP3: 2/18 @5w
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DS1: 9.6.12**DS2: 12.22.14
CP1: 6/17 @4w4d
CP2: 9/17 @4w3d
CP3: 2/18 @5w
Rainbow Baby On Board
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@eleven_ I’m so sorry about this morning. Having to walk your sample over must have been super hard. You are so strong! I hope you’re able to take some time for yourself and allow yourself to heal.