TTC After a Loss

Missed Miscarriage at 12 week scan

I found out I had a missed miscarriage at my 12 week scan on April 20. The baby had stopped growinf around 9 weeks 2 days. I heard a healthy heartbeat at 8 weeks and baby measured perfect so to say I was shocked at my apt. Is an understatement. I had a D and C on April 25 so now just waiting to get AF so that I can try agajn. A little about my back story...we have been TTC for 16 months went to a fertility specialist and everything was normal and we even tried 3 rounds of clomid to  see if that could help. We took a break for 3 months and when I least expected it to happen I got my BFP on Feb 23. I am so nervous that it is not going to happen again for us or it will take a very long time again. Has anyone else been in a similar situation?

Re: Missed Miscarriage at 12 week scan

  • I’m so sorry for your loss.  It can take some time for your body to regulate after MC. It’s not always the case.  Everyone is different.  Sometimes everything returns to normal very quickly.  Take to time to heal both physically and emotionally 
  • char245char245 member
    I’m so sorry for your loss! Welcome to our group, it sucks to have to be a part of it but you’ll find a lot of great support here. Hopefully your stay won’t be long!
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  • Thank you! Its been hard to find support because I feel like unless you have gone through it you truly don't know what it feels like to have it ripped away from you. Wishing you all luck in your journey and appreciate your support!
  • Sorry for your loss, but welcome to the group. There’s a lot of information and support here. Give yourself some time to heal :)
  • So sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. Take as much time as you need to heal, it's not an easy thing to experience. We are always close when you need to chat.
  • Kath525Kath525 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Know that you're not alone. Take all the time you need to heal physically and mentally. Welcome to our group.
  • luromiluromi member
    Very sorry for your loss. Whatever you’re feeling right now, there’s lot of support in these forums, and you’re not alone. I wish you find peace of mind soon.
  • 40momma40momma member
    I'm so sorry you find yourself here. I hope your stay is short.
    You are absolutely correct, unless you have been through the suffering of a mc, you really don't fully get it. But, you may be surprised if you start reaching out, I think you'll find plenty of friends that have been through it, and suffered in silence. The more I share my story, the more people I find who have been through it. You are not alone 
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