This is a weekly check in for the mamas who have made it to the 3rd trimester!!! If you are in week 28 or past, feel free to join in on the weekly fun.
If you're just joining us please post a: •Mini synopsis in your first post with your EDD •How many babies you are pregnant with •If you know the gender(s) •How you have been feeling in your 3rd tri •Any upcoming or recent appointments you may have
Feel free to share pictures of your bump, nurseries, baby gear, and of course those babies when they arrive!
Please let me know if you need to be added to the list below:
I can't believe I only have 1.5 months left till the due date!! And with all the movements inside me, the those idea of me being a mom soon becoming more and more real. Speaking of baby movements, wow, I didn't realize it'd become this constant and this intense. Sometimes I cuddle up to my husband at night just so that I'm not the only one not being able to sleep from all the kicking, rolling, and hick-upping I finally got some acid reflux relieve by taking Pepcid, but I don't want to constantly depend on it, so tomorrow I'll stop and see if Papaya Enzymes would help. Still good to know that if nothing else helps, I can always do a few days of break with Pepcid. The new uncomfortable symptom is rock-hard belly when I walk for any distance. Dr believes it's BH contractions, but it can stay that way for a long period of time, pretty much till I sit or lay down. During this time of tension, moving around hurts. Over the weekend, we went on a 2 mile walk, and the last half a mile was really uncomfortable. My dr gave me a birthing plan form to fill and bring to the next appointment in 2 weeks. And we also had a meeting with out doula over the weekend to talk over the birthing options and some exercises to start doing to help the baby get into the position. This whole thing is getting pretty real! I should probably consider getting the hospital bag ready...
Hope everyone is doing well! We got some really nice weather over the weekend that is supposed to last well into this week, so mood is definitely up!
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My story in signature spoiler. Children mentioned.
Me: 37 DH: 45 I don't produce FSH, so no natural menstrual cycle. DH has reduced morphology. Summer 2014 IUI (with first husband): cancelled after almost a month of stims due to too many follicles Time off to divorce, get back on my feet, find a new hubby and get married again 💑 March 2017 IVF#1: ~70 follicles, 13R, 10M, 7F, 3B = 2 PGS Normal (both XY) - no transfer due to ohss Sept 2017 FET#1: BFP, Beta#1 (10dpt) - 253, Beta#2 (12dpt) - 528, DS born 05/31/2018 👨👩👦 Dec 2019 FET#2: BFN Changed clinic, planning March 2020 IVF#2 - postponed due to the pandemic April 2020 IVF #2: ~30 follicles, 24R, 12M, 8F, 4B = 2XY & 2XX, all normal Sept 2020 FET#3: one XX embryo, BFP, Beta#1 (9dpt) - 161, Beta#2 (11dpt) - 519, Beta#3 (19dpt) - 7174, Due date 05/30/2021 DD born 05/23/2021 👨👩👧👦 - My family is now complete
•Mini synopsis in your first post with your EDD - July 15 I'm 28w2d today! I have PCOS, a high bmi, and AMA (geriatric! LOL). DH has impressive sperm, according to the REs, but I apparently didn't want to ovulate so we did several rounds of clomid, then several rounds of clomid, ovidrel, and IUI, and finally a couple rounds of clomid, gonal-f, ovidrel, and IUI. The 6th IUI worked! First trimester was okay with the common nausea and exhaustion but I hurt my lower back twice. Second trimester was great up until last week when I had to be admitted to the hospital. Summary in the spoiler due to TW:
Warning note: If you read this, please don't Google it. My sister did and it freaked her out. In addition, it's not uncommon if this happens again, and we'll be prepared as we can be.
The drs think I had a partial placenta abruption, which caused me to bleed on and off for about 5-6 hours and caused contractions. There was no specific explanation as to why it happened because I hadn't fallen or hurt my belly. But they were concerned enough last Monday night to talk about the risks and preparation of delivering a premie via c-section, and we began to prepare if we had to go that route. By Wednesday my contractions eventually slowed down and were irregular but they think my uterus was still irritated because I had random contractions. Finally I got the green light on Thursday to go home!
Pros: I didn't think I'd get another ultrasound this trimester but they did one on Tues and baby was so active and we got new pictures! And with all the non-stress tests, I got to listen to the baby's heart beat each day. Cons: IV, lots of needles, and a bed pan (but at least it wasn't a catheter!). Oh yea, and the whole horror of worrying about losing the baby Monday night.
I deal with anxiety on a regular basis and I'm happy there's a therapist at my OB's office. She gave me wonderful grounding and breathing techniques. I also signed up for prenatal yoga classes, which serve as some me time! (When your prenatal massage therapist says you need to relax and take prenatal yoga, I think that's a sign. LOL)
We have converted the guest room into the baby's room, and the baby showers will start this Saturday. I'm excited! I haven't seen many of my friends in person because we're just all busy so for most this will be the first time they see my bump. We're also taking several classes at the hospital, starting with a fourth trimester/newborn class on Sunday. We were supposed to take a breastfeeding class last Tuesday but the hospital stay kinda messed with the schedule. LOL We did end up getting a private maternity tour last Wednesday instead of needing the group maternity tour, and I rescheduled us for a breastfeeding class in 3 weeks.
And after last week's hospital visit, I don't care how early I'm preparing. I had planned to do frozen slow cooker meals in June but have gone ahead and done a few each night. I may use some for this trimester because I'm so tired lately. DH does the cleaning and I do the cooking so I'm concerned if I don't prepare, he'll end up serving me cereal all day.
•How many babies you are pregnant with - One! •If you know the gender(s) - Yes but we're pretending to family and friends that we do not know. (I wanted to be team green and have no one find out, but DH wanted to find out, so we compromised by finding out and not telling anyone. And it has been easier to say we don't know and say everyone will be surprised than to explain that backstory.) •How you have been feeling in your 3rd tri - Exhausted and sore. I'm not sure if that's due to recovering from my hospital stay or regular pregnancy symptoms. •Any upcoming or recent appointments you may have - 3hr glucose test and OB follow-up this morning. I had failed my 1hr test but passed my 3hr test in December, so my OB wanted me to go ahead with the 3hr test.
@FuzzyDust The more intense movements definitely make it feel more real! @jr102217 Welcome to 3rd trimester Prenatal yoga is a God-send.
AFM, 32 weeks today! I had a prenatal appt on Fri and the sonographer was there so she brought us in for an impromptu 3D scan! Baby girl looks just like her older brother did in his 3D u/s. She's head down and facing my spine so we had to do some serious maneuvering to get pics of her face, but we saw her! So cute and chubby. There was a lot of cord near her face so some of the pics are kind of covered up. So happy we got in to see her though. That's it for U/S for me. I asked my OB and he said they don't do any after the anatomy scan (Friday's was a surprise bonus) unless there's reason to. She's already head down so they'll just verify she stays that way and do the internal check around 38 weeks. I'm now going in every 2 weeks for prenatal checkups!
Hey ladies, Do you mind if I jump back in? I took a little hiatus from TB for a little while.
Quick synopsis - 2+ years of IF, MFI and endometriosis, did 6 IUIs, and 2 rounds of IVF (first one failed due to earlier ovulation, the second one worked on our first transfer).
We're expecting a GIRL, and EDD is May 15th (3 weeks!??!!??!!) I've been feeling really good overall, lucky to have had an uneventful pregnancy. I am very out of shape though, I was worried about doing too much activity in fear of causing early labor, so now that real labor is just around the corner, I've been trying to walk more and I've been working in my garden just to build up some endurance. I have weekly appointments now, the next is on Thursday. As of last week, baby is head down and deep in my pelvis and I'm 0.5cm dilated. Getting real now!
Did you guys do any maternity photos? My sister took some for me over Easter (34ish weeks) which was probably around the perfect time. Now a days my bump is looking kind of saggy since baby has dropped down.
Any specific birth plans you're hoping for? They keep asking me this, and I just told them I just want a healthy baby I do hope however, I get to use the nice laboring tubs, I think the hot water will help a lot. I'm also bringing an essential oil diffuser for labor. My hospital automatically does delayed cord clamping and immediate skin to skin otherwise I would have requested those too.
Me 34 DH 36 Married since July 2010 MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
TTC #1 since June 2015 Aug 2016 - May 2017 6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved. Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature 5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP! May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy
TTC #2 since July 2019 July 2019 - FET - BFN Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy
@FuzzyDust The baby movements do get stronger and stronger! I feel like he is trying to bust out of my belly. And my OB didn't give me a birth plan sheet to fill out! So I decided to just make my own using a couple templates online.
@jr102217 Yay for third trimester! And that sounds really scary. I'm glad everything was OK.
@TravelingCouple That's great you got to see your baby! My last ultrasound was 2.5 weeks ago and that's it for me.
@ReesaAnne16 I did do maternity photos, but I already have a DSLR camera since college and had my dad take photos with the nice camera. I took them at 38w and I looked HUGE.
My TTC journey:
Me and DH: 30-35 Unexplained infertility TTC #1 since 2015 11/2015 - BFP! 12/2015 - MC IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal) FET #1 TBD Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!
AFM... trucking along! My OB appointments are every Thursday morning now. Last Thursday she said she believes the baby will arrive at due date (next weekend), since he dropped "a little" and my cervix is still closed. That's fine, I will be patiently waiting... I have waited so long for him and he is so worth it!
My TTC journey:
Me and DH: 30-35 Unexplained infertility TTC #1 since 2015 11/2015 - BFP! 12/2015 - MC IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal) FET #1 TBD Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!
@fuzzydust wow - you're getting so close! I hear you on the intense movements at night. Sometimes I'll wake DH up so he can feel them and other times I wake up to his hand on my stomach so he must have been hoping for movement in his sleep or something!
@reesaanne16 DH and I talked about doing maternity photos but dont' think we will. I hate pictures of myself (we didn't do engagement pics either) but will definitely be doing newborn pictures! You are in the home stretch!!
@jr102217 I'm glad everything ended up okay but how scary!! Hopefully the rest of your pregnancy will be uneventful!
AFM - 30 weeks today! Can't believe there's only 2.5 months left. Had my OB appt Monday and got the TDap shot, my arm is killing me now! Also had an appt with the MFM yesterday to measure baby girl and she's getting bigger! Just barely under the 10th percentile now, measuring about 2 weeks behind but MFM still isn't worried. Of course her head is measuring right on track, if not a little big. She said that if everything looks good for the next two appointments, I might be able to go every other week instead of every week. Little girl is weighing in at 2lbs 11oz and is wiggling away! Have my baby shower this weekend and am so excited as my parents and sister are flying in for it. My mom has already warned me that she may be bringing too much stuff - I think she said every time she goes to the store she just can't help herself and has to buy something (She lives just down the street from target so I'm pretty sure she's there at least 3-4 times a week). I won't complain though!
Rant: why do people think it's okay to tell a pregnant lady that "yeah, I could tell you were pregnant b/c your face was getting fat"? SERIOUSLY!? Yes, I know I gain weight in my face, even if I gain 5 pounds it shows in my face. I also don't need to be reminded that I still have 2.5 months left and it'll probably get even fatter. As if I'm not self conscious enough over my changing body!
Hi everyone I officially joined the third trimester last Saturday. Glad to see some familiar faces @jr102217 so glad you got here after that scare @mtpbadger enjoy the shower!! And people are just jerks. There are many things you shouldn't say to a pregnant lady, weight gain being #1. I'm sure you look great, and your building is making a human, so tell them to eff off. @helloworld9 wow you're so close!!! @TravelingCouple yay for the extra scan! @ReesaAnne16 probably won't do maternity pics. I'm not loving how I look.
@FuzzyDust I've had that issue with the tight stomach since 28 weeks, it gets really uncomfortable walking! Mine is triggered by me sitting in positions that are uncomfortable for too long though so I feel like I can't win haha
@jr102217 welcome! That's super scary but I'm glad everything seems to be ok now!
@TravelingCouple So glad you got to see her I'll have a check up ultrasound on my little guys kidney next week and then at 36 they'll do a final growth scan to see how big the baby is, fluid and all that. I haven't seen him since 23 weeks, I can't wait! I wish you could see them more often, I just want to know what he's doing
@reeseanne123 I did maternity photos this last Friday and as much as I wasn't looking forward to it, I'm glad we did. I know I wouldn't with any other pregnancy (God given) after this and I wanted to be able to look back at that time. I've seen 2 sneak previews and have loved them so far!
@helloworld9 so close! It's nice they gave you an idea of when to expect him, it's driving me a little crazy not knowing how many weeks I have left. With having so many contractions part of me feels like I might go early and then part of me dreads that I'll go 2 weeks late just because I don't want to
@mtpbadger yay for showers! Not so much for people who feel that because we're pregnant it gives them free reign to comment on our weight A lady asked me yesterday how much longer I have. When I told her 2 months she asked "Are you having twins?" And I'm measuring right on track for weight gain and fundal height...
AFM 32 weeks + 6 days and it's a rare week without appointments, I don't know quite what to do with myself! I find that I'm getting realllly uncomfortable now. At my appointment last week they told me I can stop taking the procardia to stop my contractions. While I was having very frequent ones before being on it, it was obvious that mine were not progressing my cervix. I didn't like being on something for blood pressure if I didn't need to so I stopped it a week ago. Since then they've gotten back to being really frequent, thus making life more uncomfortable. (Every 10 minutes about) Between my baby's movement and my contractions, i feel like I can't stay comfortable.
We got a 5 minute impromptu "ultrasound" where they checked the heartbeat 2 weeks ago (couldn't see much and it was an elective thing for a gift) and the tech couldn't even see my mans face he's so far down. Apparently he is ready to go lol I'm starting to feel the pressure from that a lot. Starting to wonder how to continue this for another 7 weeks We a buying the rest of the stuff we need with our completion discounts now that our showers are over and it feels nice to start to feel more ready for him! It feels early to buy it when we might think of other stuff in the next few weeks but then I realize how at any point things could start happening. How crazy!
Me & DH: 28 | TTC since May 2016 | DH: Morphology 0% | 2 IUI's with Clomid - BFN | IVF ICSI Sept. 2017
@FuzzyDust let me know if the papaya enzymes work! I've heard good things about them; I take a zantac every now & then but just like you, I try not to be dependent on it because some days aren't that bad. And the constant movement is crazy & amazing!
welcome back @ReesaAnne16 -- I have not done maternity photos yet but I think we will...I guess I should figure that out soon. I only want a few & mainly just to document this miracle rainbow baby!
so happy baby girl is growing @mtpbadger & that's so exciting your shower is coming up.
sorry you're uncomfortable @loverin, are they braxton hicks contractions?
AFM, I am finally back from my sisters wedding & catching up! I'll be 32 weeks tomorrow, which is seriously crazy. I survived being this pregnant in New Orleans & even lasted til 3am on Saturday, which was a huge accomplishment haha. I wanted to go to sleep around 9pm but got a second wind & a piece of pizza, so I made it to the after party. My rash/eczema is finally getting better. I am still itchy but it's more bearable thankfully. No appointments this week; we have our second try at a 3D on Monday & then a check up Wednesday. I go every two weeks now til 36/37 & then it's every week. Now that we are past my sisters wedding & all those festivities, I feel like I can fully get into baby mode. We still have a lot to do I feel like & time is going to fly.
TTC 4 years. 7 failed IUI's with either Clomid, Femara and/or Trigger Shots. Started IVF journey in February 2017. Polyps removed in May. 1st IVF Transfer September 26th. BFP. Expected due date 6/14/18. Baby boy born 5/25/18 at 6 lb 9 oz. My bundle of joy.
@aera11 sounds like you had a fantastic trip! Staying out till 3am? Wow! What a trooper!! Glad the rash is getting better and I agree - GORGEOUS DRESS!!!
Sorry I haven't been able to keep up this week. Work has been crazy and ended up at the doctor on Tuesday... I had every symptom of Pre-e but no high blood pressure. Well I never have high blood pressure, because the heart meds I am on for tachycardia lower my blood pressure actually. So I got checked out, got a quick US scan and got sent home. I suppose everything is fine... ?! Maybe my anxiety is just getting the best of me. It was nice to have a quick US scan to see him even though he is so big that you don't see much like you do in earlier scans... Saw his big head, spine, heart and saw him breathing. Hope everyone has been having a great week. I am enjoying the last day of 80 degree weather in Oregon before it switches back to 55 and rain tomorrow.
TTC 4 years. 7 failed IUI's with either Clomid, Femara and/or Trigger Shots. Started IVF journey in February 2017. Polyps removed in May. 1st IVF Transfer September 26th. BFP. Expected due date 6/14/18. Baby boy born 5/25/18 at 6 lb 9 oz. My bundle of joy.
@fuzzydust yes the nighttime movements can be intense! If we're sitting on the couch watching tv, I'll pull up my shirt and place DH's hand on my belly, and he's always confused. He's only been able to feel the baby movements once. Can he feel the baby move too?
@travelingcouple yay that's great that you got an impromptu 3D scan! I've only gotten one 3D scan during my first anatomy appointment. It's definitely a nice bonus!
@reesaanne16 *waves* hello! I am not planning for any official maternity photos as I don't have the budget for that. However, if the baby stays put until early July, my sister is a great photographer and will be visiting for several weeks then so I've asked her to take some pictures. However, I'm due July 15 so I have no idea how they'll look and if I'll be comfortable! In regards to birth plans, I'm the same way, and I'm also happy to hear my hospital automatically does delayed cord clamping and immediate skin-to-skin.
@mtpbadger me too! I hope your arm feels better! Since I was at the hospital, the nurse there suggested I get it in the butt, and now I want to tell everyone to get it in their butt. LOL It's a bigger muscle so it shouldn't feel as sore as getting it in the arm. I imagine though that had I been in my OB's office, I would've gotten it in my arm as well. Yay for your baby shower! My first one is this weekend as well. I'm sure your mom is super excited and that Target appreciates her business. ;-) Also, I have no idea why people make stupid comments. One lady in my office keeps awkwardly pointing out how my belly keeps getting bigger and it's so confusing because as a mom herself, wouldn't she remember how irritating it is to hear these lame comments? We definitely have enough to deal with -- why do they even open their mouths?!
@loverin thanks! I'm sorry you're so uncomfortable. =( Is your OB able to provide any other meds to help? That's great that you got another ultrasound to see him!!
@aera11 *waves* hello! Beautiful baby bump in that fancy dress! Glad that you had fun in New Orleans! After last week's hospital stay, we cancelled our plane tickets. Our friends texted us updates of the weekend, so that was so sweet of them but obviously would've loved being there in person and eating beignets. I had even planned out break times so I could last through the night. So the pizza helped you with extra energy?! Who knew?! LOL I had also bought new compression socks but never got to wear them on the plane. I guess I could wear them at work. How were the flights?
AFM, I had my 3-hour glucose test Tuesday morning and when I saw the nurse line on my caller ID later that afternoon, I knew it wasn't good news. So yea, I have gestational diabetes. The nurse was still concerned though of the leftover side effects from the steroids that they gave me last week. She kept saying how if my levels were low over the next few weeks, that I may not need to monitor them, so we'll see what happens at my next OB appointments. I have another follow-up next Tues May 1 and again on May 15. I picked up my supplies from the pharmacy last night and had my nurse appointment this morning to learn how to test myself. My after breakfast # was 92 and after lunch was 102, which are much lower than the max of 139, so I hope it continues this way.
With that GD diagnosis, I have a nutritionist appointment tomorrow afternoon. I have a girlfriend who has had it so I've been leaning on her for advice and also pinning recipes on pinterest. This should be challenging because the next two days I'll be eating out. My girlfriends will be in town for my first shower this Saturday! I'm excited to see them! My friend gave me tips on how to eat out, so that should help. And since I've been exhausted lately, I haven't been able to organize the baby's room, so my mom is helping me before the shower on Saturday and DH can help me after the shower. Should be a fun weekend!
I also had to share my HDBD picture from Tuesday. My precious pup cuddling with his soon to be brother.
TTC 4 years. 7 failed IUI's with either Clomid, Femara and/or Trigger Shots. Started IVF journey in February 2017. Polyps removed in May. 1st IVF Transfer September 26th. BFP. Expected due date 6/14/18. Baby boy born 5/25/18 at 6 lb 9 oz. My bundle of joy.
@jr102217 I am sorry you didn't pass your test... At least you have a friend to rely on and get tips from, hopefully that will be helpful. Have so much fun at your shower. Exciting!
TTC 4 years. 7 failed IUI's with either Clomid, Femara and/or Trigger Shots. Started IVF journey in February 2017. Polyps removed in May. 1st IVF Transfer September 26th. BFP. Expected due date 6/14/18. Baby boy born 5/25/18 at 6 lb 9 oz. My bundle of joy.
@Holls214 omg best bump pic, how cute is ur pup! My cat isn't as snugly to my belly as I would like!! Glad ur still able to manage with work! Sounds like ur having a better week feeling good that's great!!
@Aera11 how cute r u and ur bump, great dress! Glad u got to enjoy ur sisters wedding and the rash is finally giving u some relief!! Now hoping u have smooth sailing from here on in!!
@ReesaAnne16 well big hellos lady!!! Good to hear from u!! Ur getting so close so exciting!! Uneventful is always good thing, that's great!! Probably not doing a photo shoot I do try and get some bump pics in here and there!! I would first have to give in to dying my hair which im still not sold on so we shall see. Birth plan is of course a healthy baby!!! I'm letting my OB know that I don't want to be in labor for days and will want the csection. Went over delayed clamping and skin to skin!! I did the hospital tour so I had a better idea of what to discuss after the fact.
Welcome me to our new comers!! So exciting to make it to the 3rd trimester!! @coco305 and @jr102217 sorry about the terrible scare u had so freightening for sure!! GD I know it's scary but glad u have some good advice from friends to help u through!! have a great time at ur shower! I hear u on exhaustion as I'm really feeling it now as time progresses!!
History of TTC in spoiler box
TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
AFM: 34weeks woohoo!! My OB was really nice to me as I mentioned I was frustrated I didn't get a 3D US from my MFM dr so he tried to get me a Lil pic of the babies profile which I took a still from....check it out it looks like the baby is smiling:) I feel like this Ian the first week I'm really feeling sluggish like just while walking I feel myself tripping a lil. Still rough getting comfy at night but it is what it is! lil babe is trying to escape through my ribs is what it feels like lately Basically OB said at the time it was the babies butt pushing my ribs. Apparently we have nerves in our ribs and that's why im having so much pain....is what it is love feeling the baby move! I sit with my arm over my head to help relive some of the pressure it's so bizarre!!
i go back in 2 weeks and then every week! Im told my strep test is up next!
History of TTC in spoiler box
TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
@Holls214 I kept looking at your adorable dog that I didn't even realize it was a bump picture. LOL Sorry! It reminded me that I need to leave work now so I can go cuddle with my big puppy too. I love the bump picture!!!
@mtpbadger I chuckled reading ur update as my mom and I bought so many things for my sister it didn't look like anyone bought anything enjoy it!!! People are just dumb and don't think before they speak!! So far I've been lucky but I was moo'd at from strangers as a kid so I deserve a break seriously people are just mean and don't think! Have fun at ur shower!!
@FuzzyDust how is the papaya treating you? Do u find it's helping? I guess I should start thinking about a bag too I'm just so out of it. Gonna try and get my registration stuff done first
@loverin I'm laughing ur getting ready to buy the rest of ur registry and I still didn't start one I'd be freaked with all the contractions hoping ur Lil one keeps cooking!!
@helloworld9 ur really in the home stretch no way woohoo!! Still hard to believe! I fee like u just got back from ur trip with the surprise bfp even though I feel like my pregnancy is taking forever!!
@TravelingCouple yay for ur 3D US!! Glad it worked out! My techs keep saying the baby is head down and don't try hard enough in my opinion to get one. It's very frustrating when they could've got it weeks ago! I guess the baby will be here soon enough to get my own
History of TTC in spoiler box
TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
Hello everyone!! Happy to hear you are all doing well!
Last week I posted and had been struggling with what they said was "irritable uterus". I was up peeing every 10 minutes at night, in a lot of pain and having what I thought were contractions but they said no. I ended up thinking I had a UTI last tuesday, went to urgent care and was told nothing was wrong. By wednesday morning I was vomiting, had flank pain and knew something was wrong. We went to the hospital where they admitted me for pyelonephritis, but also found I was 5cm dilated-essentially I had been in labor every night for 6 days! After admitting me they also found my water was broke, and they were not sure for how long so I was treated for chorio (amniotic fluid infection). I ended up being induced as I wasn't progressing fast enough, and Lilly Grace arrived on thursday morning. She was 8 pounds 15 ounces and almost 22 inches long!
This past week has been exhausting but also the best week of my life! One thing I would recommend is using a mirror when you push- I originally refused it because I thought it was weird, but it helped so much to see her head when I pushed, plus it was pretty amazing to actually she her being born! Birth is nothing short of a miracle, I wish I could do it all over again because how magical the whole thing is! I wish you all the best- you're almost there!
@meredithj123 she's precious congratulations!! How many weeks were u again? So glad you were persistent sounds like you had a pretty scary week so glad you're both ok!!!
History of TTC in spoiler box
TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
I really can't believe how fragile our bodies are I pulled my back out just bending getting milk out of the fridge. I can barely move right now there's just. I relief!! Anyone experience this and have some remedies??
History of TTC in spoiler box
TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
@ReesaAnne16 Welcome back! You're so close! @helloworld9 Wow, I'm sure it's hard to believe that next week you could be holding your baby in your arms @mtpbadger Wow, your rant makes me want to TP that person..who says that?! @Aera11 Your night owl capabilities astound me, haha! Your dress is gorgeous @Holls214 Glad you don't have pre-e! Sorry about the GD @jr102217 @Hopeful_mom Adorable little bean! Sorry about your back, ugh! I relate to how different my body is right now. Try ice or heat? @meredithj123 Congratulations mama!!!
I'm doing laundry of 2 huge bags of girl clothes a friend gave me and man I'm so EXCITED to dress a little girl! Boys clothes are cute too but man some of these dresses, leggings and skirt have me SQUEEing
@Holls214 my anxiety convinces me of everything, the other day I swore I was losing my mucus plug because I felt some extra discharge. It's a super strong force. I'm glad you're not preeclamptic though, enjoy the puppy snuggles! @hopefulmom ouch!!! Hope you feel better soon! @Aera11 that dress is gorgeous! So happy you enjoyed yourself. Congrats to your sister!
@Hopeful_mom That's such a great u/s picture! For real, it seems like time flew by yet at the same time crawled if that makes sense? I remember my BFP day like it was yesterday. Such a miracle and it's still hard for me to believe. But you are not too far behind. Before you know it it will be delivery day. And I was dusting behind the TV one day and felt this weird pain in my shoulder as if I pulled a muscle and it hurt! I blame pregnancy for making our bodies out of whack temporarily xD
Me and DH: 30-35 Unexplained infertility TTC #1 since 2015 11/2015 - BFP! 12/2015 - MC IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal) FET #1 TBD Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!
Just wanted to say hello and that my twins arrived unexpected a day short of 34 weeks. They are nearly 2 weeks old and working on breastfeeding. Been able to keep up my milk supply for them so far so thankful for that. Feeding and pumping for 2 babies is hard work! I hope everyone is enjoying the end of their pregnancies. Enjoy those belly kicks and that special bond as long as you can! I immediately missed being pregnant. Not all moms would agree but I personally had a wonderful pregnancy. Best of luck to all!
@doubleblessings1124 Congrats on your twins!! And wow double the work indeed. Glad to hear everything is going smoothly!
My TTC journey:
Me and DH: 30-35 Unexplained infertility TTC #1 since 2015 11/2015 - BFP! 12/2015 - MC IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal) FET #1 TBD Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!
Mini synopsis in your first post with your EDD: First day of my 3rd trimester! I recognize a lot of names here, but I am a STM (my daughter will be 3 in August). Both pregnancies were via IVF •How many babies you are pregnant with: 1 •If you know the gender(s): Female •How you have been feeling in your 3rd tri: I am only on day 1, so fantastic... ask again in 8 weeks •Any upcoming or recent appointments you may have: not until May 8th
@cseley321 hey hey yay 3rd tri welcome lady!! Glad you're here and doing well!!
@doubleblessings1124. Congrats!! So glad to hear you're al doing well!! High five to those boobs that they can keep up with two that's awesome!! I'm hoping mine will produce something when the time comes!! Did you have a csection or were u able to have them naturally?
History of TTC in spoiler box
TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
Thanks everyone! I was able to deliver them both vaginally which I am so thankful for! I spent 3+ hours pushing out our girl's big head. My doctor did an episiotomy finally to get her out. An hour and a half later came our boy, he needed only 7 minutes of pushing! Had a mass hemorrage immediately after and needed a blood transfusion. That was pretty scary but I quickly recovered. I had no idea the uterus massage would be basically as painful as childbirth was, yikes! All a blur now and would do it again in a heartbeat!
You are a true warrior!! Glad at least one part was smooth! That's some experience thanks for sharing, sounds like you had a good team taking care of u!! @doubleblessings1124
History of TTC in spoiler box
TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
Me 34 DH 36 Married since July 2010 MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
TTC #1 since June 2015 Aug 2016 - May 2017 6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved. Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature 5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP! May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy
TTC #2 since July 2019 July 2019 - FET - BFN Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy
@meredithj123 - CONGRATS!!!!! Lilly Grace looks so very precious
@Hopeful_mom - Not sure how I feel about the Papaya enzymes yet. I've been taking them when I remember (and they taste not bad at all). It feels like the acid reflux subsided a bit lately, but I also eat less greasy/spicy food in the evenings, so might be partially due to that.
@cseley321 - welcome to the 3d trimester! Glad to see you here.
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My story in signature spoiler. Children mentioned.
Me: 37 DH: 45 I don't produce FSH, so no natural menstrual cycle. DH has reduced morphology. Summer 2014 IUI (with first husband): cancelled after almost a month of stims due to too many follicles Time off to divorce, get back on my feet, find a new hubby and get married again 💑 March 2017 IVF#1: ~70 follicles, 13R, 10M, 7F, 3B = 2 PGS Normal (both XY) - no transfer due to ohss Sept 2017 FET#1: BFP, Beta#1 (10dpt) - 253, Beta#2 (12dpt) - 528, DS born 05/31/2018 👨👩👦 Dec 2019 FET#2: BFN Changed clinic, planning March 2020 IVF#2 - postponed due to the pandemic April 2020 IVF #2: ~30 follicles, 24R, 12M, 8F, 4B = 2XY & 2XX, all normal Sept 2020 FET#3: one XX embryo, BFP, Beta#1 (9dpt) - 161, Beta#2 (11dpt) - 519, Beta#3 (19dpt) - 7174, Due date 05/30/2021 DD born 05/23/2021 👨👩👧👦 - My family is now complete
Re: 3rd Trimester Check-in | Week of April 23
I can't believe I only have 1.5 months left till the due date!! And with all the movements inside me, the those idea of me being a mom soon becoming more and more real.
Speaking of baby movements, wow, I didn't realize it'd become this constant and this intense. Sometimes I cuddle up to my husband at night just so that I'm not the only one not being able to sleep from all the kicking, rolling, and hick-upping
I finally got some acid reflux relieve by taking Pepcid, but I don't want to constantly depend on it, so tomorrow I'll stop and see if Papaya Enzymes would help. Still good to know that if nothing else helps, I can always do a few days of break with Pepcid.
The new uncomfortable symptom is rock-hard belly when I walk for any distance. Dr believes it's BH contractions, but it can stay that way for a long period of time, pretty much till I sit or lay down. During this time of tension, moving around hurts. Over the weekend, we went on a 2 mile walk, and the last half a mile was really uncomfortable.
My dr gave me a birthing plan form to fill and bring to the next appointment in 2 weeks. And we also had a meeting with out doula over the weekend to talk over the birthing options and some exercises to start doing to help the baby get into the position. This whole thing is getting pretty real! I should probably consider getting the hospital bag ready...
Hope everyone is doing well! We got some really nice weather over the weekend that is supposed to last well into this week, so mood is definitely up!
My story in signature spoiler. Children mentioned.
I don't produce FSH, so no natural menstrual cycle. DH has reduced morphology.
Summer 2014 IUI (with first husband): cancelled after almost a month of stims due to too many follicles
Time off to divorce, get back on my feet, find a new hubby and get married again 💑
March 2017 IVF#1: ~70 follicles, 13R, 10M, 7F, 3B = 2 PGS Normal (both XY) - no transfer due to ohss
Sept 2017 FET#1: BFP, Beta#1 (10dpt) - 253, Beta#2 (12dpt) - 528, DS born 05/31/2018 👨👩👦
Dec 2019 FET#2: BFN
Changed clinic, planning March 2020 IVF#2 - postponed due to the pandemic
April 2020 IVF #2: ~30 follicles, 24R, 12M, 8F, 4B = 2XY & 2XX, all normal
Sept 2020 FET#3: one XX embryo, BFP, Beta#1 (9dpt) - 161, Beta#2 (11dpt) - 519, Beta#3 (19dpt) - 7174, Due date 05/30/2021
DD born 05/23/2021 👨👩👧👦 - My family is now complete
•Mini synopsis in your first post with your EDD - July 15
I'm 28w2d today! I have PCOS, a high bmi, and AMA (geriatric! LOL). DH has impressive sperm, according to the REs, but I apparently didn't want to ovulate so we did several rounds of clomid, then several rounds of clomid, ovidrel, and IUI, and finally a couple rounds of clomid, gonal-f, ovidrel, and IUI. The 6th IUI worked! First trimester was okay with the common nausea and exhaustion but I hurt my lower back twice. Second trimester was great up until last week when I had to be admitted to the hospital. Summary in the spoiler due to TW:
The drs think I had a partial placenta abruption, which caused me to bleed on and off for about 5-6 hours and caused contractions. There was no specific explanation as to why it happened because I hadn't fallen or hurt my belly. But they were concerned enough last Monday night to talk about the risks and preparation of delivering a premie via c-section, and we began to prepare if we had to go that route.
By Wednesday my contractions eventually slowed down and were irregular but they think my uterus was still irritated because I had random contractions. Finally I got the green light on Thursday to go home!
Pros: I didn't think I'd get another ultrasound this trimester but they did one on Tues and baby was so active and we got new pictures! And with all the non-stress tests, I got to listen to the baby's heart beat each day.
Cons: IV, lots of needles, and a bed pan (but at least it wasn't a catheter!). Oh yea, and the whole horror of worrying about losing the baby Monday night.
I deal with anxiety on a regular basis and I'm happy there's a therapist at my OB's office. She gave me wonderful grounding and breathing techniques. I also signed up for prenatal yoga classes, which serve as some me time! (When your prenatal massage therapist says you need to relax and take prenatal yoga, I think that's a sign. LOL)
We have converted the guest room into the baby's room, and the baby showers will start this Saturday. I'm excited! I haven't seen many of my friends in person because we're just all busy so for most this will be the first time they see my bump. We're also taking several classes at the hospital, starting with a fourth trimester/newborn class on Sunday. We were supposed to take a breastfeeding class last Tuesday but the hospital stay kinda messed with the schedule. LOL We did end up getting a private maternity tour last Wednesday instead of needing the group maternity tour, and I rescheduled us for a breastfeeding class in 3 weeks.
And after last week's hospital visit, I don't care how early I'm preparing. I had planned to do frozen slow cooker meals in June but have gone ahead and done a few each night. I may use some for this trimester because I'm so tired lately. DH does the cleaning and I do the cooking so I'm concerned if I don't prepare, he'll end up serving me cereal all day.
•How many babies you are pregnant with - One!
•If you know the gender(s) - Yes but we're pretending to family and friends that we do not know. (I wanted to be team green and have no one find out, but DH wanted to find out, so we compromised by finding out and not telling anyone. And it has been easier to say we don't know and say everyone will be surprised than to explain that backstory.)
•How you have been feeling in your 3rd tri - Exhausted and sore. I'm not sure if that's due to recovering from my hospital stay or regular pregnancy symptoms.
•Any upcoming or recent appointments you may have - 3hr glucose test and OB follow-up this morning. I had failed my 1hr test but passed my 3hr test in December, so my OB wanted me to go ahead with the 3hr test.
@jr102217 Welcome to 3rd trimester
AFM, 32 weeks today! I had a prenatal appt on Fri and the sonographer was there so she brought us in for an impromptu 3D scan! Baby girl looks just like her older brother did in his 3D u/s. She's head down and facing my spine so we had to do some serious maneuvering to get pics of her face, but we saw her! So cute and chubby. There was a lot of cord near her face so some of the pics are kind of covered up. So happy we got in to see her though. That's it for U/S for me. I asked my OB and he said they don't do any after the anatomy scan (Friday's was a surprise bonus) unless there's reason to. She's already head down so they'll just verify she stays that way and do the internal check around 38 weeks. I'm now going in every 2 weeks for prenatal checkups!
Do you mind if I jump back in? I took a little hiatus from TB for a little while.
Quick synopsis - 2+ years of IF, MFI and endometriosis, did 6 IUIs, and 2 rounds of IVF (first one failed due to earlier ovulation, the second one worked on our first transfer).
We're expecting a GIRL, and EDD is May 15th (3 weeks!??!!??!!)
I've been feeling really good overall, lucky to have had an uneventful pregnancy. I am very out of shape though, I was worried about doing too much activity in fear of causing early labor, so now that real labor is just around the corner, I've been trying to walk more and I've been working in my garden just to build up some endurance.
I have weekly appointments now, the next is on Thursday. As of last week, baby is head down and deep in my pelvis and I'm 0.5cm dilated. Getting real now!
Did you guys do any maternity photos? My sister took some for me over Easter (34ish weeks) which was probably around the perfect time. Now a days my bump is looking kind of saggy since baby has dropped down.
Any specific birth plans you're hoping for? They keep asking me this, and I just told them I just want a healthy baby
MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
Aug 2016 - May 2017 6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN
April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo
June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved.
Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature
5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP!
May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy
TTC #2 since July 2019
July 2019 - FET - BFN
Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues
Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy
July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy
@jr102217 Yay for third trimester! And that sounds really scary. I'm glad everything was OK.
@TravelingCouple That's great you got to see your baby! My last ultrasound was 2.5 weeks ago and that's it for me.
@ReesaAnne16 I did do maternity photos, but I already have a DSLR camera since college and had my dad take photos with the nice camera. I took them at 38w and I looked HUGE.
Unexplained infertility
TTC #1 since 2015
11/2015 - BFP! 12/2015 - MC
IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal)
FET #1 TBD Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!
Unexplained infertility
TTC #1 since 2015
11/2015 - BFP! 12/2015 - MC
IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal)
FET #1 TBD Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!
@travelingcouple yay for an extra US and a 3D one!
@reesaanne16 DH and I talked about doing maternity photos but dont' think we will. I hate pictures of myself (we didn't do engagement pics either) but will definitely be doing newborn pictures! You are in the home stretch!!
@jr102217 I'm glad everything ended up okay but how scary!! Hopefully the rest of your pregnancy will be uneventful!
AFM - 30 weeks today! Can't believe there's only 2.5 months left. Had my OB appt Monday and got the TDap shot, my arm is killing me now! Also had an appt with the MFM yesterday to measure baby girl and she's getting bigger! Just barely under the 10th percentile now, measuring about 2 weeks behind but MFM still isn't worried. Of course her head is measuring right on track, if not a little big. She said that if everything looks good for the next two appointments, I might be able to go every other week instead of every week. Little girl is weighing in at 2lbs 11oz and is wiggling away! Have my baby shower this weekend and am so excited as my parents and sister are flying in for it. My mom has already warned me that she may be bringing too much stuff - I think she said every time she goes to the store she just can't help herself and has to buy something (She lives just down the street from target so I'm pretty sure she's there at least 3-4 times a week). I won't complain though!
Rant: why do people think it's okay to tell a pregnant lady that "yeah, I could tell you were pregnant b/c your face was getting fat"? SERIOUSLY!? Yes, I know I gain weight in my face, even if I gain 5 pounds it shows in my face. I also don't need to be reminded that I still have 2.5 months left and it'll probably get even fatter. As if I'm not self conscious enough over my changing body!
I officially joined the third trimester last Saturday. Glad to see some familiar faces
@jr102217 so glad you got here after that scare
@mtpbadger enjoy the shower!! And people are just jerks. There are many things you shouldn't say to a pregnant lady, weight gain being #1. I'm sure you look great, and your building is making a human, so tell them to eff off.
@helloworld9 wow you're so close!!!
@TravelingCouple yay for the extra scan!
@ReesaAnne16 probably won't do maternity pics. I'm not loving how I look.
@jr102217 welcome! That's super scary but I'm glad everything seems to be ok now!
@TravelingCouple So glad you got to see her
@reeseanne123 I did maternity photos this last Friday and as much as I wasn't looking forward to it, I'm glad we did. I know I wouldn't with any other pregnancy (God given) after this and I wanted to be able to look back at that time. I've seen 2 sneak previews and have loved them so far!
@helloworld9 so close! It's nice they gave you an idea of when to expect him, it's driving me a little crazy not knowing how many weeks I have left. With having so many contractions part of me feels like I might go early and then part of me dreads that I'll go 2 weeks late just because I don't want to
@mtpbadger yay for showers! Not so much for people who feel that because we're pregnant it gives them free reign to comment on our weight
AFM 32 weeks + 6 days and it's a rare week without appointments, I don't know quite what to do with myself! I find that I'm getting realllly uncomfortable now. At my appointment last week they told me I can stop taking the procardia to stop my contractions. While I was having very frequent ones before being on it, it was obvious that mine were not progressing my cervix. I didn't like being on something for blood pressure if I didn't need to so I stopped it a week ago. Since then they've gotten back to being really frequent, thus making life more uncomfortable. (Every 10 minutes about) Between my baby's movement and my contractions, i feel like I can't stay comfortable.
We got a 5 minute impromptu "ultrasound" where they checked the heartbeat 2 weeks ago (couldn't see much and it was an elective thing for a gift) and the tech couldn't even see my mans face he's so far down. Apparently he is ready to go lol I'm starting to feel the pressure from that a lot. Starting to wonder how to continue this for another 7 weeks
yay! so glad you got an impromptu 3D @TravelingCouple
welcome back @ReesaAnne16 -- I have not done maternity photos yet but I think we will...I guess I should figure that out soon. I only want a few & mainly just to document this miracle rainbow baby!
so happy baby girl is growing @mtpbadger & that's so exciting your shower is coming up.
AFM, I am finally back from my sisters wedding & catching up!
I'll be 32 weeks tomorrow, which is seriously crazy. I survived being this pregnant in New Orleans & even lasted til 3am on Saturday, which was a huge accomplishment haha. I wanted to go to sleep around 9pm but got a second wind & a piece of pizza, so I made it to the after party.
My rash/eczema is finally getting better. I am still itchy but it's more bearable thankfully. No appointments this week; we have our second try at a 3D on Monday & then a check up Wednesday. I go every two weeks now til 36/37 & then it's every week. Now that we are past my sisters wedding & all those festivities, I feel like I can fully get into baby mode. We still have a lot to do I feel like & time is going to fly.
HDBD! I think I missed last week since I was out of town so here's my bridesmaid bump at 31w2d
Hope everyone has been having a great week. I am enjoying the last day of 80 degree weather in Oregon before it switches back to 55 and rain tomorrow.
@Aera11 how cute r u and ur bump, great dress! Glad u got to enjoy ur sisters wedding and the rash is finally giving u some relief!! Now hoping u have smooth sailing from here on in!!
@ReesaAnne16 well big hellos lady!!! Good to hear from u!! Ur getting so close so exciting!! Uneventful is always good thing, that's great!! Probably not doing a photo shoot I do try and get some bump pics in here and there!! I would first have to give in to dying my hair which im
still not sold on so we shall see. Birth plan is of course a healthy baby!!! I'm letting my OB know that I don't want to be in labor for days and will want the csection. Went over delayed clamping and skin to skin!! I did the hospital tour so I had a better idea of what to discuss after the fact.
Welcome me to our new comers!! So exciting to make it to the 3rd trimester!! @coco305 and @jr102217 sorry about the terrible scare u had so freightening for sure!! GD I know it's scary but glad u have some good advice from friends to help u through!! have a great time at ur shower! I hear u on exhaustion as I'm really feeling it now as time progresses!!
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
I feel like this Ian the first week I'm really feeling sluggish like just while walking I feel myself tripping a lil. Still rough getting comfy at night but it is what it is!
lil babe is trying to escape through my ribs is what it feels like lately
of the pressure it's so bizarre!!
i go back in 2 weeks and then every week! Im
told my strep test is up next!
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
@FuzzyDust how is the papaya treating you? Do u find it's helping? I guess I should start thinking about a bag too I'm just so out of it. Gonna try and get my registration stuff done first
@loverin I'm laughing ur getting ready to buy the rest of ur registry and I still didn't start one
@helloworld9 ur really in the home stretch no way woohoo!! Still hard to believe! I fee like u just got back from ur trip with the surprise bfp even though I feel like my pregnancy is taking forever!!
@TravelingCouple yay for ur 3D US!! Glad it worked out! My techs keep saying the baby is head down and don't try hard enough in my opinion to get one. It's very frustrating when they could've got it weeks ago! I guess the baby will be here soon enough to get my own
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
Last week I posted and had been struggling with what they said was "irritable uterus". I was up peeing every 10 minutes at night, in a lot of pain and having what I thought were contractions but they said no. I ended up thinking I had a UTI last tuesday, went to urgent care and was told nothing was wrong. By wednesday morning I was vomiting, had flank pain and knew something was wrong. We went to the hospital where they admitted me for pyelonephritis, but also found I was 5cm dilated-essentially I had been in labor every night for 6 days! After admitting me they also found my water was broke, and they were not sure for how long so I was treated for chorio (amniotic fluid infection). I ended up being induced as I wasn't progressing fast enough, and Lilly Grace arrived on thursday morning. She was 8 pounds 15 ounces and almost 22 inches long!
This past week has been exhausting but also the best week of my life! One thing I would recommend is using a mirror when you push- I originally refused it because I thought it was weird, but it helped so much to see her head when I pushed, plus it was pretty amazing to actually she her being born! Birth is nothing short of a miracle, I wish I could do it all over again because how magical the whole thing is! I wish you all the best- you're almost there!
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
@helloworld9 Wow, I'm sure it's hard to believe that next week you could be holding your baby in your arms
@mtpbadger Wow, your rant makes me want to TP that person..who says that?!
@Aera11 Your night owl capabilities astound me, haha! Your dress is gorgeous
@Holls214 Glad you don't have pre-e!
Sorry about the GD @jr102217
@Hopeful_mom Adorable little bean! Sorry about your back, ugh! I relate to how different my body is right now. Try ice or heat?
@meredithj123 Congratulations mama!!!
I'm doing laundry of 2 huge bags of girl clothes a friend gave me and man I'm so EXCITED to dress a little girl! Boys clothes are cute too but man some of these dresses, leggings and skirt have me SQUEEing
@hopefulmom ouch!!! Hope you feel better soon!
@Aera11 that dress is gorgeous! So happy you enjoyed yourself. Congrats to your sister!
Have a great & healthy weekend everyone
look at the cute babe @Hopeful_mom!
congrats @meredithj123!!
Unexplained infertility
TTC #1 since 2015
11/2015 - BFP! 12/2015 - MC
IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal)
FET #1 TBD Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!
Unexplained infertility
TTC #1 since 2015
11/2015 - BFP! 12/2015 - MC
IVF #1 July 2017 freeze all (20 eggs, 15 mature, 10 fert, 6 blasts, 4 PGS normal)
FET #1 TBD Surprise BFP 9/2017 while waiting for FET... hoping for the best!
•How many babies you are pregnant with: 1
•If you know the gender(s): Female
•How you have been feeling in your 3rd tri: I am only on day 1, so fantastic... ask again in 8 weeks
•Any upcoming or recent appointments you may have: not until May 8th
welcome @cseley321
@doubleblessings1124. Congrats!! So glad to hear you're al doing well!! High five to those boobs that they can keep up with two that's awesome!! I'm hoping mine will produce something when the time comes!! Did you have a csection or were u able to have them naturally?
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
Aug 2016 - May 2017 6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN
April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo
June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved.
Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature
5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP!
May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy
TTC #2 since July 2019
July 2019 - FET - BFN
Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues
Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy
July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy
My story in signature spoiler. Children mentioned.
I don't produce FSH, so no natural menstrual cycle. DH has reduced morphology.
Summer 2014 IUI (with first husband): cancelled after almost a month of stims due to too many follicles
Time off to divorce, get back on my feet, find a new hubby and get married again 💑
March 2017 IVF#1: ~70 follicles, 13R, 10M, 7F, 3B = 2 PGS Normal (both XY) - no transfer due to ohss
Sept 2017 FET#1: BFP, Beta#1 (10dpt) - 253, Beta#2 (12dpt) - 528, DS born 05/31/2018 👨👩👦
Dec 2019 FET#2: BFN
Changed clinic, planning March 2020 IVF#2 - postponed due to the pandemic
April 2020 IVF #2: ~30 follicles, 24R, 12M, 8F, 4B = 2XY & 2XX, all normal
Sept 2020 FET#3: one XX embryo, BFP, Beta#1 (9dpt) - 161, Beta#2 (11dpt) - 519, Beta#3 (19dpt) - 7174, Due date 05/30/2021
DD born 05/23/2021 👨👩👧👦 - My family is now complete