First time momma here! I've been with my fiance for over a year now, and before that we'd been friends for ten years. This pregnancy was unplanned, so of course that put a lot of strain on our relationship. In the first trimester I was very distant from him- I didn't want to be touched or cuddled- and it worked out because be was having an incredibly dramatic, two month long "there's a baby coming" meltdown, during which he dropped out of school and moved in the middle of his lease. He's calmed down now, but he still doesn't really consult me on decisions that seriously impact our family's future, and he's being recklessly irresponsible with his decision making.
I'm finding that I can't shake the feeling that I don't want to be with him anymore. He's been so dramatic and irresponsible with everything so far, and I feel like it's just not worth it to me. It's like I'm the only adult in the relationship. I just really want to be done... I'm not interested in trying to raise two kids here- him and my baby girl.
I'm really just wondering if anyone else has felt this during pregnancy? Like this serious separation or detachment from your SO? I can't tell if my feelings are real or hormonal, and I really don't want to make a decision just to find out in 5 months that it was all hormone related..