I know there are sub groups for both of these topics and I hope this is allowed(TheBump has changed a lot with its rules since 2015)
1. There are any other past c section mamas in here? Mine was emergency c/s. Went in for lack of movement and his heart rate was dropping. He was 6 weeks early.
2.Is anyone going to look into/decided on VBAC? I want to learn as much about it ans of course what's best for baby #2. My doctor is supportive of it.
Back round: My sons birth was just so traumatic and terrifying I just want whats best/safest/and healing for me. My husband unfortunately couldn't get to the hospital on time and when he got there i was in recovery and baby had been wisked away to NICU. This next birth will be very healing for us.
Also any mamas who have been though VBAC(weather successful or repeated c section) I would love to hear your stories.
Always hold on to hope ❤
Re: C section VBAC
1. There are any other past c section mamas in here? At 41w3d I was still at a 0. I arrived at the hospital at 9:30pm for them to give me cytotec for my cervix to dilate. I was given 2 rounds and finally, around 8am, I was dilated to a 1. They started my on pitocin, but by midnight, I was barely at a 4, my contractions were non-stop on top of each other, and I was having terrible terrible horrible back labor that made my epidural feel like a tylenol. That's about the time the doctor came in and said it didn't seem to be progressing and I might have a giant baby, so he asked me how I felt about a c-section. I burst in to tears and told him to get my baby out, hahahaha! (Baby was 9lbs9oz. Not giant, but definitely not small.)
2.Is anyone going to look into/decided on VBAC? I initially chose my OB because his rate of CS are low and his is supportive of VBACs. I don't know how I feel yet, honestly. A huge part of my wants to try because I had trouble with milk production (only produced 2-3 oz a day), and I'm wondering if that would help? I'm concerned because my body didn't seem like it wanted to deliver a baby. I mean, I was a week and a half late and still at a 0! I think what I want to talk to them about is scheduling a C-Section at 41w3d and hoping and praying I naturally go into labor. I don't know if my OB induces for a VBAC, but I am 99% sure I'd decline it due to the below stats.
In one large study, uterine rupture occurred in:
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
I had a planned c section with my first. he was breech and never flipped.
I had a great recovery and no scar at all. It was really calm and easy going. My doctor even played music in the OR. I still got to hold my baby right away and I was really impressed with the whole process.
I haven't fully decided what I'm going to do yet. The nurse said after DS was born that he probably would have ended up a csection anyway given the size of him/his head and my hips. Given that I'm expecting the same for baby2 I'm leaning toward a repeat.
That said I really really trust my OB so I'm looking forward to hearing his opinion closer to the EDD.
Haven't decided what I'll do this time. Talk to my doctor about the risk factors, I suppose (I think the official paperwork gave uterine infection as the rationale behind the section, but the failure to progress and potential for another macrosomic baby is what concerns me personally). I've got a new OB this time since we moved, so we'll see.
2.Is anyone going to look into/decided on VBAC? Before finding out I was pregnant with #2 I said for sure I would do a c-section again this time around because it would just be easier and I can get my tubes tied at the same time. But now that I’m actually pregnant I’m second guessing myself. I know I will need to deliver early again so I will probably need to be induced either way. But I think the worse part of my first was the fact that they had me on a magnesium drip and that was horrible! I was pretty much useless. So if I had to be on that again then I would definitely want the c-section. But if I didn’t have to, now I don’t know if I would want to try for a VBAC.
Type 1 Diabetic
DS: Born 2/18/17
TTC #2: Jan. 2018 BFP: 3/27/18 EDD: 12/6/18
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
Type 1 Diabetic
DS: Born 2/18/17
TTC #2: Jan. 2018 BFP: 3/27/18 EDD: 12/6/18
*Rainbow 8/2015*
*Expected Rainbows 12/2018*
*Loss of Twin 5/2018*
2.Is anyone going to look into/decided on VBAC? My doc told me from the beginning that the practice does not do VBACs, so I'll be going the c section route again. But seriously, for all the downsides to c sections, I'm really pretty terrified of pushing a human being out of me. @texas_t you're in my head!
*N.B. for potential lurkers/FTMs who are worried about the possibility of surgery: the recovery kind of sucks and it's a bit of a mindf**k if you're a chicken like me, but all told a C-section doesn't have to be traumatizing! Do not let it bother you, especially not this far out! You're doing great, everything's going to be FINE