Missing Monday BF 3/27

mesamyt

I know I’m not the only one who needs to let it out.   Let’s hear it ladies!

chopchop25

I just let some of it out in another thread. But deleted some of the response I wanted to write because I continue to need to self-censor this week.

Just cranky at everyone and taking it out on the world. I don't even think there is a reason.

kiwi2628

@chopchop25 lollll I know what you're talking about!

My BF is that I get SO ANNOYED when I have a patient and I cannot figure out what is wrong with them. I currently have a patient who is so sick and I keep running test after test after test and I still have nothing. It is making me feel inadequate. 

lovelycrookedfox

My roommates girlfriend!!! She freaked the heck out the other day cuz I texted him asking how many pieces of pizza my bf ate cuz I thought the dog got into it. Apparently that's HER boyfriend and I shouldn't be texting him! Even though I LIVE with him! I'm so sick of her bs, she's an adult and needs to act like one. They will both be gone soon, me and SO agreed on. We don't have the patience for that petty highschool s***. Definitely not when baby gets here. I have no idea who this woman thinks she is.. I definitely see a heated arguement in the future.. That kinda stuff doesn't fly with me.

chopchop25

@kiwi2628 I can't even start with that one.
Sorry you can't figure it out yet (key word - yet!) but I'm sure you will. Your patient is super fortunate to have a doc who is still pushing for answers for him/her despite it all!

kiwi2628

@lovelycrookedfox seriously? Who did she freak out on, you or him? And why does he put up with that kind of stuff?

cjx95

Probably more of a rant for the symptoms board but I'm so bitchy over it..
These headaches that Don't got away!! Every single day I get this headache and it on the verge of a migraine.. nothing helps, I drink water, I relax, take Tylenol (when it's really bad) idk what to do.. I'm so frustrated! If I could go a day without this misery I'd cry from happiness and probably give myself a headache... it's awful..

lovelycrookedfox

@kiwi2628 She freaked out on him, she's intimidated by me and won't ever say things to my face. He came complaining about her to me and I didn't want to get the poor boy in trouble more, he deals with enough, so I blocked him like she wanted. & I'm not sure. My bf and I both say he shouldn't have to deal with that kinda stuff. It's childish as all hell. But I guess he proposed to her 4 days ago.. so...

chopchop25

@lovelycrookedfox That's crazy. Is it bad I can only envision that engagement coming out of a serious ultimatum from her? 

sammierose464

Umm. If it's your roommate, you have every right to text and communicate with them. I hate women like that. 

nugget2ehf

I am in a snippy mood today. To everyone. But particularly our 70-year old lab tech who keeps asking me dumb questions, that I and my 2 coworkers have answered 1000x before. I'm the only one who still has any patience with him, so now he only comes to me. I'm thankful to have him, but man, it's tough some days. And he eats gross things at lunch that the smells gross me out. Rant over.

ninji15

sammierose464 said:

Umm. If it's your roommate, you have every right to text and communicate with them. I hate women like that. 

^This. If you aren't confident in your partner and you want to act like a crazy possessive person the next step is not engagement its therapy.  

lovelycrookedfox

@ninji15 my thoughts exactly. I have absolutely no idea why he stays with her, other than the fact he loves her. He's told me a million times if he didn't love her he woulda kicked her to the curb a long time ago. But love only goes so far.. I would never deal with that kinda crazy in my life, no matter how much I loved someone.. I respect myself. If my bf turned on me like that, I wouldn't stand for it. The way she treats him is borderline abusive. He's not allowed to talk to anybody but her. FFS she got mad at him because his MOM was friends with a girl on facebook that he "dated" in elementary school.. I'm over it. lol

sammierose464

I'm BF is accidents and traffic. My commute home today was horrible. Normally my drive home takes me about 40 min. Today, well over an hour. And I drive a stick shift so it sucks even more. I'm  also tired, not feeling well, and have to work job #2 today. I might not have time for a nap and that's gonna suck. I also have to pee so bad.

nmadjeski

@mamabearcj I'm right there with you with the headaches. I wish I had suggestions and not just solidarity. Hopefully it gets better for us both real soon!!

My bf is just everything. I wanna hide under a rock...And it's only Tuesday

jynjer4

Me too with the headaches!! I pretty much NEVER got them before and this one has lasted for 3 days now. No amount of water or sleep helps. I broke down and took Tylenol today because I’m working a double shift again and I just can’t even anymore. <She smiles fakely and is polite to guests when all she want to do is curl up and cry. 

To all my lazy co-workers: GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER. It’s not my job to cover half of your responsibilities just because you’re incompetent. Thanks. Bye. Go find a new job. 
 
To DH: I’m sorry you can’t follow the simple directions to get your warranty replacement phone set up online. Just go to AT&T. They’ll do it for you in 5 min. Don’t get salty with me because you are frustrated. Especially after I offered to do it for you while I was home for 10 min on my 30 min break. 

purplegoldfish2

Hey, ladies with headaches, try seeing a chiropractor (make sure to tell them you’re pregnant).  Mine worked miracles on my headaches!

cjx95

@nmadjeski and @jynjer91 I hope your headaches get better as well!! Sending good thoughts your way ladies!

hellopartyof5

My dr said to try caffeine for headaches in combo with the Tylenol. 

mesamyt

I’m down for caffeine. And AMEN to the bad mood!  Maybe there is something in the air. I swear I have been in Bitch mode since last Wednesday. 

nmadjeski

@purplegoldfish2 Thanks for the suggestion I'm definitely going to look into it. I wake up with my headaches mostly and I feel a lot of tension in my neck.

knottieamusements

My BF is that so many grumpy making things happened on my day off yesterday that I didn’t even think to start the Monday BF thread to bitch about them.  

I don’t think anyone has officially claimed this one as theirs to start; I think it has just been the most vocally annoyed person of the day. Any takers?  

knottieamusements

kiwi2628 said:

@lovelycrookedfox seriously? Who did she freak out on, you or him? And why does he put up with that kind of stuff?

One word: Sex.  

Seriously, if the roommate cut her off for a month and dated another girl for a while, he’d fall in love with her too. 

There’s a saying: Don’t put your dick in crazy.  He’s screwing that up all over the place. 

sammierose464

purplegoldfish2 said:

Hey, ladies with headaches, try seeing a chiropractor (make sure to tell them you’re pregnant).  Mine worked miracles on my headaches!

That reminds me I need to try and get in to mine tomorrow. I keep having busy Wednesdays and not being able to go.

sammierose464

@knottieamusements more truth has never been told. Bitches be Crazy.

purplegoldfish2

WHy TF would you try to give the kids something out of the same glass as you when you’ve had a freaking intestinal virus for the last 5 days??? And then get pissy with me when I freak out about it? Wtf?

theglitteredpterodactyl

I hate eeeeevvvvverrrryyyttthiiiiiing. So irrationally too. Like, i cut out a super cute crushed green velvet romper to sew up for my yippee that's going to be adorable and just thinking about it makes me irritated. EVERYTHING is irritating me. But also we're trying i find a new place to live and the houses we've been looking at have all fallen through so it feels like we're not going to move until July which means I'll be huge and it'll be hot and I'll only have a couple months to find a new doctor to deliver with and

**editv about half this got cut off which honestly is probably for the best. My bitchfest list is endless

tinattt23

@theglitteredpterodactyl FWIW, when I was pregnant with DS we moved from TX to CA when I was 6 months along. We spent two full days driving and then two weeks living with my parents while we waited for our stuff to ship. It sucked, but moving always sucks. I found my new OB and set up my first appointment a couple months before we moved just so I knew it was done. Figured I could always switch if I didn’t like her, but at least I had something lined up. It’ll all work out! 

mesamyt

Please let the bitchfest flow. It’s making me feel better about mine. 

Mine is still stemming from last weeks BF. I confronted my “friend” about telling everyone about my pregnancy and vanished twin. She apologized profusely. We then talked about our summer schedule since the season is winding down (I work mostly with snowbirds), what the plans are for the summer schedule and what one resort’s activity director had wanted. Everything was all good. I left her house feeling better about the situation. Well, the next morning she texted me saying how wonderful it had been to work with me but come April first she is taking over all classes full time and asked that I be kept on in a substitute capacity and can come back full time after I have the babe. It’s complete bullshit. I have a better rappore with the clients and the individual resort activity directors (9 of them) but her MIL is over the entire company so there is no fighting it. I’m not gonna lie, I thought about keying her car. After my first class today I found out from our bike hauler that she’s been talking about doing this for a while. All the while acting like she was a real friend. I hate fake people. 

I either am 1. Going to get revenge. 2. Going to steal her job.  Or 3. Move on and open my own aqua gym. I have a few months to stew. 

cjx95

@mesamyt that's horrible!! The least she could have done is tell you in person when you were there. I'd have been furious as Well!  I'm furious for you!! Hopefully after like a week of you being gone the directors realize shes not ad good and request you back.. I'd avoid her like the plague, she doesn't deserve your friendship in any capacity.

sammierose464

That's horrible. She clearly has no common decency since she couldn't even tell you to your face.

chopchop25

@mesamyt wtf!? She’s the worst. Hopefully this means on to bigger and better things for you, and she can stew in her friendless lonely space.

cdepperschmidt

@mesamyt what an awful person!

purplegoldfish2

  I don’t even know what to say to that. What an awful person and as much as it sucks right now, you are way better off without her.

mesamyt

Thanks everyone!  I’m glad I’m not the only one to feel like it’s a messed up situation. I completely plan on avoiding her. It’s hard when our kids are so close but they can still hang even if I’m done. I’m thinking I need to remove the stress completely. This pregnancy has been the hardest I’ve ever gone through (which is A LOT) so maybe this is the breath I needed to relax. Although, if I see her tonight at pinewood derby I might throat punch her. Hormones, right?! 

knottieamusements

Have you considered calling a lawyer instead of throat punching her?  

purplegoldfish2

knottieamusements said:

Have you considered calling a lawyer instead of throat punching her?  

Ooh, good point. Telling you that you’re out of work until after you have the baby almost sounds a little like pregnancy discrimination...

jomama1618

^^^This. Some lawyers do free consults. It would be worth at least looking into. 

SweetSweetTooth

@mesamyt OMG she sounds horrible! How mean of her to tell everyone and then cut you out like that. Yup, you don't need her and I also suggest you contact a lawyer!

mesamyt

My husband’s best friend is an attorney and I’ve worked in the legal field for several years.  I have no need to peruse legal action. This is more of an emotional moment. When I first signed on the season was to end April 30th and begin again in October 1st. I am still retained by the Resort corporation, my class schedule itself comes from her. Everything we had discussed about extending bi-weekly between seasons was between her and myself. The total team is her, one other girl, and myself. I’ve spoken with the other girl and she has been cut down as well to strictly two tAQUAta classes a week (she was also suppose to be instructing over the summer). In speaking with her MIL, the one at corporate capacity, she is losing money by contracting us out instead of instructing the classes herself. We don’t need the income. This was more of a stress relief, fun way to earn a small income while still being a stay at home mother. I feel that the way she handled her business is beyond reproach. When speaking about work it should have been handled in a business capacity. Not by text. I know where I stand with the company. I know that if I want to return they will be happy to have me back. But right now I cannot see myself working there again since it would be in the same situation with the same “friend”.  

sammierose464

She handled it completely wrong. It would have been different if she had mentioned it while you both were talking.