So, I am having a small freak out. Positive HPT 8dp, 9dp, and (today) 11dp3dt but just went to the bathroom and when I wiped, there was twinge of blood. I had a miscarriage in August of a 5 day, pgs normal at 7 weeks. Had a gush of blood and although we could see the embryo on the u/s, my HCG levels decreased. This time we transferred 4, 3 day great quality embryos (retrieved last year age 41). My beta is tomorrow but I am really sad. Is this common? Please help calm me down.....
Me: 42 Husband: 41 Married 12/2014 DS: 02/2017 MMC @10 weeks 10/2014: Naturally conceived twins at 38 y/o Egg retrieval when I was single and 36 y/o, 17 retrieved, frozen for 3 years, 11 made it through the frost, 3 normal PGS (June 2015) FET #1 10/2015 MC@12/2015, 2 D&C's, very slow hcg fall so monitored for GTN FET #2 06/2016 DS 02/2017 FET #3 08/2017 MC@10/2017 FET #4 02/2018 4, day 3 embryos (untested, retrieved May/Dec 2017) BFP! Beta#1 462 U/S #1 @5w2days two sacs! HCG 5w3days 11,517 HCG 6w0days 22,264 U/S #2 6w2days 1 lovely heartbeat
Congratulations on your BFP! I'm sorry you are scared right now, and for your previous loss. While my experience may have no bearing on yours, I did have spotting on and off until about 8 or 9 weeks. Keep taking your progesterone, and GL tomorrow!!!! ❤
Thank you so much for reply. Yes, I am scared but at least my beta is tomorrow morning so the wait isn't too long. Just went to the bathroom, no blood this time so perhaps 1 of the embryos just implanted! Congratulations on your Dec BFP! Do you know what you are having?
Me: 42 Husband: 41 Married 12/2014 DS: 02/2017 MMC @10 weeks 10/2014: Naturally conceived twins at 38 y/o Egg retrieval when I was single and 36 y/o, 17 retrieved, frozen for 3 years, 11 made it through the frost, 3 normal PGS (June 2015) FET #1 10/2015 MC@12/2015, 2 D&C's, very slow hcg fall so monitored for GTN FET #2 06/2016 DS 02/2017 FET #3 08/2017 MC@10/2017 FET #4 02/2018 4, day 3 embryos (untested, retrieved May/Dec 2017) BFP! Beta#1 462 U/S #1 @5w2days two sacs! HCG 5w3days 11,517 HCG 6w0days 22,264 U/S #2 6w2days 1 lovely heartbeat
Thank you so much! And no, we don't know. We are staying team green tho, so even tho the NIPT came back already, we are going to wait to find out when we meet him/her... ;)
Sorry for your past loss. That definitely heightens the stress. While I can't say that red blood is ever a good sign, there are women who have red that goes away and things work out. All you can do is wait. Good luck.
While blood is scary, I believe it’s close to 50% of women spot during pregnancy. It feels so wrong but can actually be pretty common. I get your worry and wish this process after IF was easier but I hope your beta comes back with positive news and settles your mind a litttle!
Me & DH: 28 | TTC since May 2016 | DH: Morphology 0% | 2 IUI's with Clomid - BFN | IVF ICSI Sept. 2017
Spotting during early pregnancy is very common. At this point it is probably implantation bleeding. I had implantation bleeding for my first successful pregnancy, but didn't have it for this one. Try not to worry, and congratulations!
Just received my Beta result and it was 462! yippie, over the moon and no more red blood today....:) thank you all for your kind words!
Me: 42 Husband: 41 Married 12/2014 DS: 02/2017 MMC @10 weeks 10/2014: Naturally conceived twins at 38 y/o Egg retrieval when I was single and 36 y/o, 17 retrieved, frozen for 3 years, 11 made it through the frost, 3 normal PGS (June 2015) FET #1 10/2015 MC@12/2015, 2 D&C's, very slow hcg fall so monitored for GTN FET #2 06/2016 DS 02/2017 FET #3 08/2017 MC@10/2017 FET #4 02/2018 4, day 3 embryos (untested, retrieved May/Dec 2017) BFP! Beta#1 462 U/S #1 @5w2days two sacs! HCG 5w3days 11,517 HCG 6w0days 22,264 U/S #2 6w2days 1 lovely heartbeat
Re: 11dp3dt BFP but red spotting with wipe??
MMC @10 weeks 10/2014: Naturally conceived twins at 38 y/o
Egg retrieval when I was single and 36 y/o, 17 retrieved, frozen for 3 years, 11 made it through the frost, 3 normal PGS (June 2015)
FET #1 10/2015 MC@12/2015, 2 D&C's, very slow hcg fall so monitored for GTN
FET #2 06/2016 DS 02/2017
FET #3 08/2017 MC@10/2017
FET #4 02/2018 4, day 3 embryos (untested, retrieved May/Dec 2017) BFP! Beta#1 462 U/S #1 @5w2days two sacs! HCG 5w3days 11,517 HCG 6w0days 22,264 U/S #2 6w2days 1 lovely heartbeat
MMC @10 weeks 10/2014: Naturally conceived twins at 38 y/o
Egg retrieval when I was single and 36 y/o, 17 retrieved, frozen for 3 years, 11 made it through the frost, 3 normal PGS (June 2015)
FET #1 10/2015 MC@12/2015, 2 D&C's, very slow hcg fall so monitored for GTN
FET #2 06/2016 DS 02/2017
FET #3 08/2017 MC@10/2017
FET #4 02/2018 4, day 3 embryos (untested, retrieved May/Dec 2017) BFP! Beta#1 462 U/S #1 @5w2days two sacs! HCG 5w3days 11,517 HCG 6w0days 22,264 U/S #2 6w2days 1 lovely heartbeat