I would not have been able to drive myself if that's part of why you're asking. In between contractions was fine, but during a contraction it would not have been safe for me to be behind the wheel.
_______________________________________________________________________________________________ MMC 8/5/15 at 8 weeks DS born 9/13/16 BFP 1/13/18 - EDD 9/20/18 - It's a boy!
DH. Agreed that I would not have been able to drive myself, I could barely give DH directions (apparently he never paid enough attention when we went to all those appointments???). If there's a chance your partner won't be available when you go into labor, have a back up plan. A neighbor, friend, family member, just don't try to drive yourself because you'll be dangerous to yourself and everyone around you.
Just keep someone on standby.. if it's your first, you will most likely have plenty of time. I took a shower and packed up before going in with my first after I figured out I was in labor, and still labored for like 27 hours at the hospital. It was a weekend so my husband was there to drive me, but I would never suggest driving yourself... if there is no one to drive you, call an ambulance (not sure if a cab or uber would be okay with it in case your water breaks or if you deliver?)
If you really can’t find someone to drive you when the time comes, you might be able to set up a medical transfer. It might be cheaper than an ambulance.
DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
With my first son my water broke at home and my BF drove us to the hospital. Although, because I was not in any discomfort or experiencing any contractions, I would’ve been able to drive myself TO the hospital (we live about 10 minutes away). If you are having painful contractions, I agree, finding a ride would be the best option. If my water breaks again in the night and if circumstances allow, I plan on driving myself this time; that way my BF can stay with our son until morning.
Re: Delivery ride for delivery time
I would not have been able to drive myself if that's part of why you're asking. In between contractions was fine, but during a contraction it would not have been safe for me to be behind the wheel.
MMC 8/5/15 at 8 weeks
DS born 9/13/16
BFP 1/13/18 - EDD 9/20/18 - It's a boy!
DS2 due 12/12/18
If my water breaks again in the night and if circumstances allow, I plan on driving myself this time; that way my BF can stay with our son until morning.