i hope it is okay to start a new thread on this, I was curious if any STM+ had any insights on VBACs or RCSs. I had a CS w DD but had rapid onset pre-e so I didn’t really have a choice. Recovery was awful - I was in the hospital a week bc my kidneys wouldn’t work and my BP wouldn’t go down. I then bled, heavily, constantly for TEN WEEKS. Like calling the on-call people asking if I was dying bleeding. It was tough, and I’d like to try for a VBAC provided I don’t get pre-e again. Would love to hear insights and experiences of others here. I know there’s a topic board for vbacs, but posts are old and sparse and I’d rather hear from people here - others may be curious as well.
ETA - please don’t be terrified of CS bc of my experience, thousands of women have CS and recover fine
Re: VBAC or RCS
or a csection and I chose the csection. He told me he couldn’t be sure, but I had a greater risk of some of the things that cause my 1st (in my opinion traumatic) delivery to be a csection happening again. At least it was something I had experienced before. My water broke and we headed to the hospital and I was in recovery 2 hours later holding my baby. Csections aren’t fun, recover can be difficult, but I’m preparing for my 3rd (dr didn’t give me an option this time) and I’m ok with it.
DD1: Oct 2012
DD2: Sept 2016
DC3: Due August 2018
I recommend the epi. I didn't have a chance to get it with E and I will not go that route again, if possible. I didn't have any extra monitoring for trying a vbac, I did for my cervix issues.
If you you have any specific questions now or later, I'll do my best to answer or help find answers for them.
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Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
I ended with a CS since my DS was posterior and afterward my OB told me I was a fine candidate for a VBAC since it was him and not me (I dilated all the way, my stats were fine, etc., he was just jammed in there). But at my last appointment she made it seem like I will end up with a CS again since history is more likely to repeat itself. I left feeling really nervous and unsettled by it -- I'm going to talk to her again about it at my next one since I am hoping its just a misunderstanding. I have since gotten my pre-approval letter from my insurance she she put in for a CS. I know its just to cover her bases, but I'm still really hoping to VBAC.
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
DS: 5.28.15
DS#2: EDD 8.31.18
@mozartsmuse We are in similar situations. I had a csection because I was induced with rapid onset pre-e at 37 weeks, and essentially had a failed induction. I never progressed past 6cm dilated and after 36 hours made the decision to have the surgery. My recovery was average though for a csection.
The practice that I go to I see several doctors. The first one said that my pelvis was just too small and that I would have to have a repeat csection (this was at my postnatal appointment after DS). The second doctor I saw for my first OB with current baby said I should consider a vbac which got me excited but I was hesitant because of what the first doctor said. My last appointment was with one of the midwives because my doctor got called into surgery, and she was the first person to call DS's delivery a failed induction, and that basically solidified my decision to try for a vbac. They said they would not induce, I would only be able to go into labor naturally. If it was a situation where induction was necessary then it would be straight to csection which I understand.
There is some sort of success predictor tool that exists to give you your 'rating' on if you'll be able to have a successful vbac. I haven't gotten my score yet but I am going to ask them about it next week.
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The position of your baby can completely vary between pregnancies. Your baby is more likely to present as sunny side up if you have anterior placenta (as i did with my first pregnancy). Now I'm just praying this one isn't breech because I'd like to avoid a CS if possible. My vag is already wrecked, may as well continue using it as an out hole ;-)
@lolog531 I hear that! After 27.5 hours of labor and 2.5 hours of pushing I could not get that kid out and I was just exhausted. My OB has previously said the same thing.. that it may not happen again so VBAC is on table.. until my last appointment and it seemed like she was swaying toward CS. Hoping it was just a misunderstanding on my part!
@delujm0 Kudos to you! I tried so hard to push DS out for 2.5 hours too, but he would not tuck his chin and kept arching his back and head and making it impossible to pass. I am hoping #2 will be in better position, DS was posterior at my last 36 week sonogram and never moved.
i haven’t had a C.S. (or therefore a vbac) but my sis did - her C.S. was a cascade of interventions starting with a pre-40 induction and she was a good candidate and had a smooth vbac. She said afterwards that she found it healing in a way she didn’t even know she needed.
Personally i found recovery and and how I felt postpartum to be way better for my unmedicsted births than the 1 I had epi if that translates at all.
rhat said ive heard planned C.S. are much easier to recover etc than emergency
11/18/16 missed m/c 9w1
08/03/17 no hb 8w
11/18/16 missed m/c 9w1
08/03/17 no hb 8w