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New here :) TW losses

bakerstreetboysbakerstreetboys member
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Hello!

I have been lurking on this board and have finally decided to join.  I post on some other boards too, but since I'm 40, this seems like a good place for me.  My husband and I have been TTC since last fall.  I had a early loss in November, and a MMC with D&C last month.  That was really hard, but my AF finally came back and now I'm anxiously WTO.  We have a referral to a fertility clinic, but our intro appointment isn't until April, so that feels far away.  I look forward to chatting with you ladies :)

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Re: New here :) TW losses

  • ndz2018ndz2018 member
    @bakerstreetboys Welcome! So Sorry to hear about you losses. We had to wait a few weeks for our initial appointment with the RE too but as soon as the testing was over we went right into treatment. We started our journey Oct 27th , had MFI and I had septate uterus(that i had surgery on 1/22 and is now gone!), we did our ER on 12/29 and have 5 pgs normal embryos waiting for us come April. 
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  • bakerstreetboysbakerstreetboys member
    @ndz2018 That's great, fingers crossed for you!  It's a 2.5 month wait for our initial appointment, and then 6 weeks for results of testing :(  Treatment would be who knows how long after that.  Our wait times are much longer than they used to be because my province now covers IVF; it's great financially, but not so awesome for wait times!
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  • mich_ellemich_elle member
    Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear about your losses but I know that these boards can help you gain insight and even help in the healing process. I found it helpful to share my story, gain support from the other ladies and then give support to new women experiencing a loss. I hope you find peace and wish you the best of luck on your journey! Sorry about the long wait, wish there was a way to speed things up! But, I'm finding that this process is a lot of "hurry up & wait". GL!
    Me: 42, dx: DOR (AFC: 5), low AMH (0.163), blocked tube, fibroid
    DH: 44, dx: ED (uses Cialis), low count/motility (17 million/44%)
    ~Our History~
    2012: April married <3 , begin TTC
    2013: Jan: BFP #1, mc at 11 weeks (Trisomy 10), D&E :'( ; Nov: HSG=blocked right tube, SHG=polyp, fibroid
    2014: April: polypectomy; May-Nov: TTC, Dec.= BPF #2, DS born 8/28/15 via C-section <3
    2016: Oct.-Dec.: TTC 
    2017: Feb.-Aug: benched due to Zika virus threat (Feb.=trip to Philippines) :( , Sept.-Dec.: TTC
    2018: Jan.-Apr.: TTC
              May: IVF #1 w/ ICSI/AH: 6R, 3M, 2F; day 3 transfer of both embies; poor quality (E1=grade 3, E2=grade 4)

    May 2018 IVF Spreadsheet:

    https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1E9syRZY17j2PF-UgdBpU70DPPY2EplxXNHw4Trc-G4g/edit?usp=sharing

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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    Welcome and good luck! I'm new too! :) 

    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


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  • marijaa333marijaa333 member
    Welcome, and so sorry to hear about your losses. :( Good luck this month and with your fertility appointment in April!
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