Monday Bitch Fest — The Bump
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Monday Bitch Fest

BFP #1 April 14th, 2014 MMC at 17weeks with a baby boy D&E

BFP # 2 March 23rd, Rainbow Baby Boy Jayce Michael born 12/9/15

BFP#3 January 26th EDD October 9th! Hoping for my girl!

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  • I feel so guilty, but i constantly want to murder my husband.  My emotions are going haywire, and i can't stop yelling at him about everything.  I'm a monster, but also he should learn to stop pushing my buttons!
    chopchop25DunkinDecaf
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  • I am cranky all the time, about everything. I don’t want to do anything, and then I’m bored. I’m also using my crankiness to really push H in his career. But you know what, he needs the kick in the butt anyway. He can do it, the only thing in the way is his confidence and, you know what, it’s time to man up and get over it. I can’t imagine the ragezilla I will be if I don’t see the progress I know he’s capable of. This is the only downside to working at the same place.

    now, time to tuck the cranky away and go be a pleasant teammate at work. <hard eye roll>
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  • I’m a good bitch! (I think lol DH might disagree)  I’ll throw a bitchfit and 2 minutes later be laughing. But seriously... I thought PG women should be able to somewhat control their fits of bitchy-ness but haha nope that was a joke. Which of course makes me mad again. I’m not in control of myself anymore! 
  • I love my husband dearly BUT the man is incapable of stepping up in terms of household stuff. Our house is FILTHY because if I don’t do it, forget it. He did the dishes for Valentine’s Day, that’s it. I went out and bought paper products so the dishes wouldn’t pile up, and there is trash everywhere now. I’ve been trying to focus my energy on the laundry because we all need clean clothes. I just can’t handle the mess.
    littlesquishysmama
  • My mom is driving me crazy. She always tries to guilt me into spending time with her or letting her take DD for a while. It's been a couple weeks since we have seen her, but we've been really busy. She called this morning and was asking if me and DH could go on a date night this week and she can have DD. Umm no. Plus I'm nauseous and tired all the time now so I really don't want to be forced out of my house just to make her happy. She was pretty pouty when I told her no, but I don't really care. We have a lot going on this week and I don't need to add another thing to the list. Also, I'm still super bloated so I know if she saw me she would immediately ask if I'm pregnant. I want to get our ultrasound done before we tell family so it's just easier to not see her until then.
  • Pissed that DH doesn't have today off. WTF. I know our current president is crap, but we could at least celebrate the others, right? Plus, DS is sick and teething and emitting this high-pitched whine all day, I don't know if my nerves can handle it alone today. 







    norahkateGizmo1231
  • I have a cold and I’m coughing up green stuff and I can’t take anything

    BFP #1 April 14th, 2014 MMC at 17weeks with a baby boy D&E

    BFP # 2 March 23rd, Rainbow Baby Boy Jayce Michael born 12/9/15

    BFP#3 January 26th EDD October 9th! Hoping for my girl!

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  • im here to bitch about all these bullshit symptoms. I'm nauseous all flipping day long. My nose is so horrible. I can't stand the smell of my husband or either of my kids. I just can't function as a human being and it's making me miserable. With both previous pregnancies I was sick until 16 weeks so knowing I have like 10 more weeks of this shit is so depressing. 
    DS  12-1-2014
    DD 10-29-2016
    #3 due 10-13-2018
    momtobx2
  • We had SS overnight last night and all day today since he's out of school, that meant taking him grocery shopping with us last night. I was reminded why we do it without him...thankfully the store was empty but the kid was just bouncing off the walls. He was skipping and dancing through the aisles, paying more attention to his new light up shoes than the fact that we were halfway down the aisle. Apparently I was more bitchy than I thought because DH told me to just ignore him and keep shopping.
  • I am good AT bitching I can tell you that much! The place I work at is flooding and I still have to be here so there is that. Been having to haul ass around here all day it feels like. I am over this week already I just want to stay home and be terrorized by my cute but evil toddler! 
  • @sammierose464 I feel your pain!  My SD might be related to your SS.  Taking her to the mall is so so stressful bc she pays zero attention to her surroundings or where she's going and has no fear of losing us.  She also does the dance/skip thing all over the place.  We're constantly reminding her to keep her body in control.  Its exhausting.  DH usually gets more frustrated than me.    
    sammierose464
  • First time cutting someone out of my life, and I’m feeling weird about it, but it’s been such a long time coming. I have a friend who was my bestie in high school. Co-maid of honor at my wedding. Her husband is an ASS. And honestly ever since she met him she’s been kinda the worst too. They are my eldest daughters godparents. She didn’t even tell me when her son was baptized. Or when she got pregnant. I found out via Facebook announcement. We never talk unless I call, and when we do she’s judgemenal as shit and always finds some way to literally tell me I’m not that important to her. Anyway I had a lovely fight with her husband and I’m just done with him. I deleted him on Facebook, unfollowed her, and have no intention of talking to either of them again. If she notices or texts me I’ll be genuinely shocked. I bet it takes at least 6 months. I’m just so fucking over the two of them. My life will be happier and lower stress without them in it. Planning to lie to DD1 and say SIL and BIL are her godparents.
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • i worked 2 12's this weekend and my patients were fine but all c-diff flu and whatnot. so i was paranoid. then i didn't sleep worth a damn last night. then i had to go run around all over town today for other people, and I'm flipping exhausted. and I almost fell asleep in the middle of DS's doctors appointment this afternoon. then DH (who doesn't know how tired i am today) asked me to do a very simple quick favor which spun me out (to myself). and now I'm home and made dinner, and apparently DH won't be home for another 45 mins - hour. but dinner is ready now. and I'm hungry. and i wanted to puke all day. and my boobs are huge. and I feel huge. and just yeah. all that. BLAHHHHHHHH
    me 32 | dh 45
    married <3 11.11.17
     mama. epicurean. plant lover. wine enthusiast.
    sammierose464LostinUtopia
  • @DunkinDecaf  - i too have just recently learned how to cut someone out of my life - and it IS weird. its hard to imagine or go even a day without that space being filled, even if you rarely spoke anymore. for as absent as they may have seemed or as pissed off as they have made you feel in order to help you decide to cut ties, the void they left seems so present. but much lighter. let them go. hugs.
    me 32 | dh 45
    married <3 11.11.17
     mama. epicurean. plant lover. wine enthusiast.
    DunkinDecaf
  • DunkinDecafDunkinDecaf member
    edited February 2018
    @mommy_myers so true. Goodbye, passive aggressive snapchats about how I don’t read to my kids enough

    BabyFruit Ticker
    magdaaaa
  • @DunkinDecaf sometimes you just have to cut the bullshit out of your life. Good for you for recognizing that! I have cut a couple of my friends out that were causing me more stress /drama than a friend should and it does take some getting used to but in the end you will be happier! 
    Me 33 DH 41
    TTC since 2016
    Due: October 12, 2018
    Location: Ontario, Canada

    DunkinDecaf
  • @DunkinDecaf good for you for cutting them out!! I have my own cut out story but I was the one cut out. My friend met this guy online and they started dating. Ok no problem. Found out he was still married. Um, not cool. We had always been open and upfront with one another so told her it surprised me and didn't think it was a smart move. Their relationship continued and he finally got divorced. Dh and I hung out with them and he was just a jerk and acted like a little kid which didn't get his way. We kept giving him more chances and if anything he got worse. Friend contacted me though email saying she didn't need negativity in her life and I was being negative. What?! She then had a surprise wedding to the guy with just a witness an no one she knew or loved there and she was always talking about a huge wedding before and after she met him and had it all planned out. Not like her at all. I am bummed she won't be at my shower and enjoy this pregnancy with me. I still want to tell her but also feel like it would come off as showing off and that is not what I want. Dang hormones. <sniffle>

  • I’m so mad. I’m in the National Guard and I need proof of pregnancy, but my OB will not see me until my 8 week appt on Mar 12th. I have to go to drill the first weekend of March. The military doesn’t just take your word for it, what do I do?
  • @zbab31 call your OB and explain the situation, maybe they will make an exception.
    sammierose464
  • @zbab31 you should be able to get confirmation from your primary care provider
    Me: 25 | DH: 34
    Married since 2010, TTC since Dec 2013
    Dx: PCOS
  • @DunkinDecaf ditto to what everyone else has already said! I have done this a few times in my life, because I cannot stand the toxic energy. There will be days that come and go that you may miss your friend, and cherish those times for what they were, and just remember that those were good times but things and people can change, and that is ok.
    Good for you, though, for setting an excellent example for your family. I always think little ones pay attention more than we think, and I bet your 3 year old can see you being strong and valuing yourself and your worth - and what a great way to learn about how they should allow people to treat them!
    chyvieSawyerRichardsonDunkinDecafmagdaaaa
  • I told the nurse at my OBs office my situation and they pretty much said tough luck! I think I will reach out to my primary care doc
  • I’ve been really nauseous this time around so I went to McD’s to get a Vernors for lunch. They screwed up and gave me unsweetened ice tea. Gross!! I love tea, but totally not what I wanted and it must be sweet tea.
  • @zbab31 another option... most pregnancy centers will do a test and give you proof. And it’s free! 
  • @SweetSweetTooth your friend sounds like a real peach. I’m sure she meant a lot to you but ugh. Toxic men are the worst.
    BabyFruit Ticker
    SweetSweetTooth
  • My dr...for not scheduling an ultrasound! They typically do them around 8 weeks, I called yesterday to schedule one for either Friday of this week (I’ll be 7 weeks Saturday) or Monday just so I can get on the schedule. They told me I have to wait for my next blood draw results bc of my low rising hcg. I get that but if my results go up, they’ll schedule one then. If my results don’t rise like they would like, they’ll also schedule one to see what’s going on so why can’t I just get on the schedule!?! These blood draws are stressing me out which I know is not good for the baby... or me :) 
  • I am miserable! With DD I had extreme fatigue and it’s happening again. It was easy the first time because me and DH didn’t have a toddler and a puppy and I would come home from work and literally sleep until the next morning but now we have responsibilities and I just need MORE help. DH doesn’t get it and now I’m tired and normal and just an all around b!tch. And it doesn’t help I still need to fake being not pregnant because we haven’t told anyone l.!
  • @carlyhumma I'm right there with ya with the extreme fatigue. Last time I had a different position at work and was usually only averaging 32 hours a week with a 15 min commute so I could get more sleep. Since them I've been promoted and working 50 hours a week not including my 45 min commute. I feel like a zombie. 
  • @DunkinDecaf - you did the right thing; i know it is hard, but you have to think about what is best for you and your family.  People and relationships change, and sometimes they change in ways that hurt. But it will get easier as you move on from this. 

    Also, I know you don’t want to tell your daughter something hurtful, but you might still consider telling her some version of the truth. She’ll likely find out eventually anyway, and if she doesn’t already have a close relationship to them, the lie might hurt worse than the missing relationship. 
    DunkinDecaf
  • @SweetSweetTooth my husband is always on his phone or Nintendo switch when we watch tv. Drives me bonkers but... I am guilty of it too sometimes LOL
    SweetSweetTooth
  • @bethica83 I have no problem if he is on his phone but for goodness sake turn the volume off or way down!
    @DunkinDecaf yeah I know it is much better that we are no longer friends but I for sure miss the old days. Dh has asked if I want to try and start the relationship again and I said no, even if the guy was better it would never be the same as well as being awkward.

    DunkinDecaf
  • @knottiemeasurements we will tell her when she’s approaching confirmation that SIL and BIL are her surrogate godparents. They’re DD2’s actual godparents though and I think we’ll have them be godparents for this nugget and any future babies so I don’t want her to feel different until she’s older and I can explain properly. She’s only 3 now.
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • My coworker never stops talking. He repeats the same stories and tidbits of random unless info all day long. He always inturrupts conversations and talks over people as if what he has to say is always more important. Today I am feeling particularly moody. A new Co worker asked me for help, and I began to direct her when he inturrupted me and began to direct her as well. I turned around looked at him and I fucking growled at him. I don't know where that came from. Then I got up and walked away to go about my work. When I returned to my desk he proceeded to ask me the same thing she had asked me because as it turned out he didn't know how to help her. I said I don't know, didn't she ask you? 
    He shortly after started typing up a very lengthy email, maybe it was about me? Lmaooo
    SweetSweetToothtroystory17
  • Does anyone have a DH that watches videos on their phone while you two are watching TV? And the videos have the sound on? Drives me cray cray! 
    yes, all the time.... SMH
    SweetSweetTooth
  • @SweetSweetTooth and @sammierose464
    Yes all the time too! He plays video games on his phone. Drives me nuts! Lol
    Me 33 DH 41
    TTC since 2016
    Due: October 12, 2018
    Location: Ontario, Canada

    SweetSweetTooth
  • He goes to bed later than me (especially now!) and he will lay in bed on his phone next to me. While I'm trying to fall asleep it's so distracting because of the light. I have to have pure darkness at night. I feel bad because I'm already considering sleeping in my step son's bed since he's only there over night 4x a month.
    SweetSweetTooth
  • That is the worst! I always yell at him for that. If you want to check your phone before bed do it in the living room! We also have a no TV in our bedroom rule. 
    Me 33 DH 41
    TTC since 2016
    Due: October 12, 2018
    Location: Ontario, Canada

    SweetSweetTooth
  • @SweetSweetTooth Ugh yes! The worst is when he is watching something on tv and something on his phone at the same time. You can't have both!
    SweetSweetTooth
  • @chyvie we have no TV in bedroom rule too! My friends think I'm crazy. I just tell them 'you wanna put a damper on your sex life? Put a TV in your room' LOL
    chyvieSweetSweetTooth
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